9 Signs You’re Living In An Almost Relationship (And It’s Better To Get Out!)

1. He’s taking too long to take you over for good

He is always reluctant when you tell him to change your relationship status on Facebook as he always says “status ruins things”.

It’s normal for this kind of situation in the first few weeks of a relationship, but if after six or seven months he’s still nervous when you bring it up, then back off.

Men have a habit of going after what they want, they are known for that. Note that I use the word “man” because only guys like to mess with a girl’s heart while they cheat on her behind her back. If he’s stalling too much to take you on for good, he doesn’t deserve the honor of calling himself your boyfriend.

2. He doesn’t take you on at corporate offices

Personally, I think the whole Facebook relationship status thing is a little boring, but a guy’s social media tells the entire world — or at least his female contacts — whether he’s still available or not.

If you’re still wondering why he still hasn’t accepted your tag on that cute photo of the two of you or your check-in at the romantic restaurant, it’s because he might be afraid to scare off other potential contacts.

If a guy is loyal to you and really wants to be with you, then he wants the whole world to know that too. Ask yourself: are you really gonna wait for a guy who wants to keep you hidden?

3. He still keeps in touch with ex-girlfriends and/or other women

If his cell phone is constantly off while you’re together, it’s probably because he’s afraid another girl will call him. No, “Dani” is not just a friend from work, “Gabriela” is not just a girl from school who “won’t leave me alone”, women generally don’t bother a guy unless they’re getting some form of interest or response.

If he has nothing to hide, he will act normally when he sees who is calling him on Whatsapp; he will not immediately start responding when you leave the room.

If he was serious about moving on with you, he’d put the past in the past, and not keep it in the background in case the two of you didn’t work out.

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4. He avoids introducing you to family/friends

If he avoids inviting you to family lunches or out for drinks with his friends, always saying “you won’t like going out with them”, it’s because he’s trying to avoid explaining to them who you are and what you are to him. .

Likewise, if he always has an excuse not to hang out with you on family occasions or friends’ birthdays, it’s because he’s terrified that you’ll introduce him as your boyfriend.

If a guy wants to be in a relationship with you, he will want you to meet the most important people in his life and he will want to meet all the people who are important to you as well.

He will want to prove to the world that he is the happiest person by his side. Don’t wait for someone who wants to keep you separate from his life, you’re better than that.

5. He doesn’t want to see you more than once a week

If he starts freaking out about needing his own space or “things are going too fast” because you see each other more than once a week, pack your things and don’t come back.

Relationships don’t come with rules of proximity; you should date a guy who pulls you back into bed and kisses you on the nose while the two of you sink under the sheets for a few more hours.

6. He rarely compliments you

If you’re dating a guy, then you deserve to be romanticized and feel special. Don’t accept less than that.

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7. He gets scared when you express your feelings

If you mention missing him or feel excited to see him and he responds with some sort of emoji or joke, he doesn’t really care about you.

You should be able to talk about your feelings without feeling vulnerable and clingy. The only reason guys behave this way is because they feel uncomfortable and afraid, and therefore they are not ready to be in a serious relationship with you. If you notice any kind of nervous behavior when you say even the smallest romantic things, run!

8. He won’t let you visit him when he’s sick

Who doesn’t like to be pampered when they’re sick, whether that means making hot tea or rubbing our backs while watching reruns of Grey’s Anatomy.

There’s something comforting about having someone there with you when you’re feeling down, so if he tells you not to come when he’s sick because he’s “disgusting” and “grumpy,” then he’s probably not really into you. .

He shouldn’t care if you see him at worst, because he knows that what you feel for him is more than just his looks. Likewise, if he refuses to come and take care of you when he’s sick, it’s because he doesn’t want to see you as anything other than the “hot girl” he likes.

If his feelings for you were on a deeper level, he wouldn’t be able to stay away and wouldn’t want anyone else to be taking care of you.

9. He just got out of a serious relationship

It takes most men a long time to really get over a relationship that didn’t work out, whether they confess to it or not.

If he still can’t talk about his exes without getting upset, angry, or silent, then he still hasn’t gotten over his past with her.

If he keeps saying he wants things to “happen more naturally,” then get smart. Of course for him it probably means a year, while for you it could mean a few months.

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