When a man starts to fall in love with you: 21 intuitive signs

Is there a man in your life that you think is falling in love with you, but you are not sure?

Maybe you’ve already been on a few dates. It would seem that the first signs that she is falling for you are emerging. But you still wonder if it’s love or not.

Many times I have sat down with my friends to talk about this very topic. We have come up with endless signs and theories to figure this out.

But what we didn’t realize was that our analyzes were excessive.

We just had to watch the things a man says, how he behaves, and how he makes us feel.

That is why if you are having the same dilemma, we have prepared this article that will help you see if he is beginning to fall in love with you.

21 signs that a guy is starting to fall for you

1) He is always the first to text or call

If he is always the first to contact you, it means that he is starting to have feelings for you.

Whether you are in the beginning stage of your relationship or just friends with benefits. A key sign that he is falling for you is when he never gets tired of talking or texting you.

This is also true, if he texts you first thing in the morning and last thing at night. It reveals that he does not stop thinking about you for a second.

2) The way he looks at you

You can tell a lot with one look.

For example, intense and passionate eye contact, which conveys silent messages of love and affection.

Or also the way a smile forms on his lips, when you say something silly, but tender.

These are all indicators that he is starting to fall for you and he can’t hide it. His facial expression gives it away naturally.

3) Ignore other women

Another obvious way to know that he is in love is when he is completely oblivious to other women.

The hottest girl in town can walk by and her eyes won’t leave you.

So, you can be sure that you have enchanted it.

Men don’t always choose women for logical reasons. They don’t want a girl who “checks all the boxes”. They want a real girl, who attracts them deeply and intensely.

4) Sometimes seems nervous

Sweaty hands and flushed cheeks are signs that your man is starting to fall for you.

Nerves are natural. Her voice will tremble, she will look at you out of the corner of her eye. He may even feel too shy to tell you what he really feels.

Just as you can feel an inexplicable emotion in your chest, so will he.

These are reactions that happen when certain chemicals are released and we start to fall in love with someone.

These include adrenaline and norepinephrine.

5) He wants to share his passions with you

Another clear sign that he is starting to have feelings for you is if he wants to share his life with you.

This means that he is not only opening his world to you, but he also wants you to be part of it.

Especially, if you share things that you are passionate about or hobbies that you normally do alone.

The truth is, if he’s sharing all of this with you, it’s because he wants to be around you. Otherwise, he wouldn’t bother doing it.

6) Your dreams are important to him

But it’s not just about sharing their passions with you. If he starts to fall for you, he will want to know yours too.

Everything, from your goals and dreams, to your doubts and fears, will help him understand you and strengthen his connection with you.

Do you both have late-night talks, delving deeply into each other’s mind and past?

So, you can be sure that deep feelings are arising in him for you.

7) He is eager for you to meet his family.

Ah, the dreaded first family reunion. It is inevitable to go through it.

But meeting his family means he takes you very seriously. He also wants to know what your family thinks of you.

Do your best to make a good first impression on your loved ones.

Seeing that his family loves you too will be a great comfort and reassurance for him.

8) He cares about your opinion

And just as his family’s opinions are important to him, your opinion will quickly become important as well.

You can realize it in that:

He asks you for advice when he has problems in his life.

Want your opinion on something personal

Pay close attention when you talk about any topic

Remember what you say and act accordingly

Additionally, it’s the last point that will really reveal how much your opinion matters to him.

It’s one thing to listen to what someone has to say. But it’s another to take your advice and act on it.

9) His friends know about you

Talking to his friends about you is another sure way to know that he is falling for you.

When my partner first thought that our relationship could become more, the first thing he did was talk about me with his friends.

In addition, he told them everything he couldn’t tell me, because he was indecisive and nervous.

So, you should be on the lookout, if he ever mentions that his friends know you or want to meet you.

After all, when women start to fall in love, we naturally turn to our girlfriends to process our emotions.

It may surprise you to know that most men do the same.

10) You always have their full attention

Have you ever had the feeling that someone is only half listening to what you are saying?

Or does he lose interest, even before you’ve finished a sentence?

Guys you are only physically attracted to tend to do this. Especially if they are focused only on their ultimate goal: getting you into bed.

But a guy who is starting to fall for you will hang on to every word you say.

Even if your favorite team is playing on TV or you are walking through a crowded mall, your attention will never waver.

11) Use “we” instead of “I”

This is one of my favorite signs. When he stops identifying only as “me” and begins to include you in “us”.

It is the definitive sign that he wants to have a serious relationship with you.

It shows that you are comfortable seeing them as a couple.

And it also lets you know that he’s thinking of you and considering you, rather than just himself.

12) He mentions them in the future

And if that continues into talks about the future, there’s not much doubt left as to whether or not he’s falling for you.

Why do I say this with such confidence?

Because a guy who’s just pretending wouldn’t think or plan for the future together that much. He only wants you for relationships, and he is not interested in having a commitment to you.

13) He makes you laugh

Laughter is a very important part of any relationship. It brings people closer together and releases endorphins that make us feel on top of the world.

And when we find someone funny, we find them more attractive. We naturally gravitate towards him more than we would the others.

This happens when you are falling in love.

They never get tired of each other, and the jokes they share are a way to joke around, have fun, and flirt. All these things are what create a bond that goes beyond friendship.

14) He has an affectionate nickname for you

A nickname is a great way for a guy to express his emotions. Especially if it’s something cute or an inside joke that you share.

For some, it’s their way of showing affection or trying to make you laugh.

Also, a nickname is something quite personal to give someone. It hints that there is more to your relationship and that he feels comfortable and trusting with you.

15) He makes time for you

Finding time for relationships isn’t always easy in today’s busy world.

That’s why if you want to form a connection with someone, you have to make time for it.

And if he does that for you, there’s no greater sign that he’s starting to fall more and more for you.

You see, no man would bother to do that if he wasn’t falling in love.

He would only have time for you when he is free and it is convenient for him, or he is bored.

16) He pampers you

Does he have the most beautiful details with you?

Does he give you flowers, invite you out to dinner, or organize special activities?

So, feelings of love for you are blooming in him.

Even if he doesn’t like material gifts or the traditional way of pampering a lady, he will make you feel special by paying attention to the things you love. It can be something simple, like watching your favorite movie over and over again.

It may not seem like much to some. But this is a way to show that you mean a lot to him and that he is starting to develop strong feelings.

17) He will try new things to please you

It might be watching your favorite romantic comedy for three hours. Also going for a run together at 6 am This will do it for the sole sake of making you happy.

When people start to fall in love, there is excitement and exhilaration.

You feel like they can do anything, fired up by the hormones of happiness.

Everything is exciting, and even things you’ve never considered doing seem like fun. This is due to feelings of love, which are beginning to appear.

18) He is there for the good and the bad

Another sure sign that he is falling in love with you is when he stays with you. Even regardless of your mood or situation.

A guy who’s just there to have fun will get upset when you’re having a bad day and walk away.

But a guy who is falling for you will want to be with you, even at your worst.

He’ll want to make you feel better when you’re sad and laugh with you when you’re happy.

19) You perceive him through his body language.

If your guy is falling for you, his body language will give it away much faster than his words.

Here are some signs to watch out for:

There is a lot of sustained eye contact.

He always wants to be near you or sit next to you.

Find ways to touch you, like holding your hand or putting your arm around him.

At times he may appear nervous or shy.

Of course, not all men reveal their emotions in the same way. But there will be little hints in his body language that show his growing affection for you.

20) He opens up emotionally to you

He is certainly falling in love, if he can open up emotionally and let you see his vulnerabilities.

This only happens when someone begins to trust you and feels comfortable sharing intimate details about themselves.

Also, he might start expressing his feelings for you in a roundabout way. Flattering your personality or letting you know how much he likes spending time together.

21) He always wants to make you feel comfortable

He goes out of his way to make you feel relaxed and comfortable around him.

If he’s falling for you, he wants you to feel the same way. So he takes care to make you feel good, every time you’re together.

This can also happen in situations that are uncomfortable for you, which have nothing to do with him. He will do everything possible to make your life better.

Conclusion

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