The girl I like has a boyfriend: what to do and what not to do –

How annoying it is to meet a beautiful, fun, intelligent woman with a sense of humor and also charming, but with a boyfriend. The worst thing is that this happens often.

Girls with these characteristics or those we like are usually already with someone else and not with us, which is what we want. We found them in a bar or it is a friend of a friend who introduced her to us. Anyway, you know you want to date her and you also know that she has a boyfriend, so what to do?

Among the numerous options you have, you can use two basic ones. Approach her as a friend and just that, sow doubts about her partner and at the same time earn points. The other way is more expensive. Take her out for a night, give her presents and use your charisma to attract her to you.

The two alternatives have a good chance of success, but I believe that a third option is the only real way to meet a girl with a boyfriend. Let’s meet her!

Because you must stop living as if there were no more women in the world

Feel free to be his friend if that’s what you want, recognizing that you like him, and that the friendship may not go beyond platonic love.

Many beautiful women end up being the best friends you have, and that’s okay. What is morally wrong is manipulating the friendship so that she ends up with her boyfriend, and you sneak in when that happens. In addition to lacking style and class, he is low, mean, and degrades you as a man.

This strategy of destroying a relationship, although it could be used by the best beaus and dating conquerors in the world, would still be pathetic, don’t do it!

It is one thing for the girl not to tell you that she is dating someone, and another is to know that she has a boyfriend or is married and still go after her, something that many guys unfortunately do.

What you have to do when she has a partner is stop chasing her and that’s it. Be her friend but respect her relationship. There is a saying that says: “do not do to others what you would not like them to do to you.”

If you think you are superior to kids your age, in addition to going down the wrong path, you lose the opportunity to learn to be charismatic.

And if you are obsessed with a girl, and willing to do anything without ruling out hurting others to get her off your feet, you are a hopeless case.

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Strategy to conquer her without deception – What to do

Yes, impress her with your personality, with what you know, your studies, way of speaking, with your charisma, do it so that she notices it but without getting into her love affairs.

If the girl has good eyes she will notice it. Let her boyfriend make mistakes alone. Let him make mistakes, neglect you, be boring, stop writing to you, and possibly turn the relationship into monotony. After all that, you will be there with your personality. Being yourself.

This strategy is effective especially in mature girls who are more fulfilled by a spontaneous way of being than by a good physique and body.

That they prefer a rich conversation with someone with a lot of general culture, than with a boyfriend who only talks about football and wrestling. The important thing is to be there, not to be nosy, just to be there, so that she notices it.

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Because justifying yourself with “If he doesn’t cheat on him with me, he will eventually cheat on someone else” is wrong – What not to do

Many think that this concept is fine, but it is not. Don’t think that withdrawing from the game when the girl has a boyfriend is a bad move because, according to you, she will cheat on him sooner or later with someone else. Incorrect!

Believing that a girl who gets along with you would be willing to do it with anyone else is a symptom of low self-esteem. Come on, you’re better than that and you have your charms!

The world of feelings is full of complications and blocked paths that make it difficult for us to find that special person. If we get her and she has a boyfriend, then she leaves things as they are, and continues living. If that girl is for you, she will be for you some time later no matter what.

Be his friend. It might be hard because you’ll see her with the other guy, but if that’s what you want, do it!

If it happens to you, give them a present or write to them after important moments, such as a meeting in their office or the presentation of a project: “Hello, how was your day?”, “You sure impressed them!”, things like that. that style.

What in my humble opinion you should not do is stoop low. Don’t be the villain of the movie. Be the hero who knew how to wait for his moment with integrity or who knew how to recognize that that special girl, after all, was not for him.

Forget about trying to steal the girl. If you are determined to ruin other people’s relationships and nothing I say will change your mind, you have some growing up to do.

My friend, in your city there are plenty of beautiful, charismatic and intelligent women, just the way you like them. Find her and conquer her, as long as she is single. Luck!

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