How to Treat Candidiasis: Eight Emotional Issues That Cause the Infection |

What almost no one talks about how to treat candidiasis is that the disease usually has its origin in an emotional issue, which triggers the proliferation of the Candida fungus. Of course, in cases of physical problems, specialized follow-up is essential to cure the symptoms of the infection, which involve specific habits and treatments.

However, while the woman does not also heal the emotions that are lodged in her uterus and vaginal canal, the tendency is for the disease to recur, which may return from time to time.

Candidiasis is the body’s way of communicating with us and signaling that something is wrong. A vaginal infection is your body’s wake-up call that there are emotional issues you need to address.

There are many external factors linked to the manifestation of fungi, such as food, habits, intimate care and vaginal pH. However, two people can have these same conditions and only one of them triggers candidiasis. Most of the time, the problem manifests itself due to emotional factors involved.

In this article, I explained the physiology of the disease and also taught some prevention habits. But, in this content, we are going to focus on the emotional causes so that you can understand how to treat candidiasis. Then, you can do a self-analysis and identify what your case is.

Candidiasis shows what bothers you, but you refuse to admit it

Our body usually stores cellular memories related to emotions, according to their location. For example, when we are overloaded in life, we have a tense and painful trapezius (upper back), an association that we are “carrying the world on our shoulders”.

When it comes to vagina, the physical manifestations of this organ are commonly related to feelings related to love, sexuality and relationships. For example, women who have been in a relationship for years that has clearly ended, for fear of being alone, or women who experience blockages in bed that prevent them from having pleasure.

Candidiasis can also be related to trauma or difficulties in expressing who we are.

For example, I’ve had cases of patients who brought emotional causes linked to candidiasis and had no connection with love or sexuality. These people had a “mold” in their lives that bothered them.

There was something that displeased them and they were reluctant to admit it to themselves, such as a job that did not give satisfaction or a family that prevented them from expressing themselves freely.

Therefore, you need to be open-minded to discover which of these situations you identify with. Usually, candidiasis manifests itself when there is a situation that bothers you, but you use excuses to yourself that everything is fine, that it is not so bad, or, worse, that the problem does not even exist.

A woman often acts like this out of fear of losing some situation, person or relationship, even if this is only bringing harm to her life.

I’ll give you an example: it’s hard to admit that the work that sustains me and brings me a life of comfort is precisely what is killing my body and spirit, making me unhappy. After all, assuming that would put me in a position to take action. So, I prefer to create beliefs that work is really hard, that it’s stressful, that we can’t always do what we like.

Regardless of what lie you may be telling yourself, your body is afraid of change and doesn’t believe it. So, he “screams” bringing out this “mold” in his intimacy, which is candidiasis.

Next, I deal with eight main emotional causes that are related to the disease. But it is worth emphasizing that each woman is unique and, therefore, you may not see yourself 100% in these situations. In addition, your case may have a little of each problem I mention. In this case, it is important to use this information to ask yourself: “What is this uncomfortable situation in my intimacy that I refuse to see?”.

1 – Having sex without feeling like it

This is often the most common emotional cause of candidiasis. When a woman does not want to have sex, but feels “obliged” to do so (either to please the other or out of fear of losing him, for example), the body acts like a soldier, putting itself in a position of defense.

Over time, candidiasis speaks louder and manifests itself in your life. The vagina understands that since you can’t protect yourself from what you don’t want – in this case, sex – it needs to act accordingly. So, you manifest candidiasis as a way to prevent sexual intercourse from happening.

There are several factors that decrease a woman’s libido. From stress, through physical issues, such as hormonal disruption, to love traumas that were recorded in the uterus and vaginal canal and stopped your sexual desire.

Instead of continuing to have unwilling sexit is essential to seek specialized help to discover the cause of low libido.

After all, in addition to candidiasis, a woman who forces herself to have sexual intercourse, without feeling desire, can cause fissures in the vagina due to lack of excitement, which further decreases libido.

2 – Candidiasis after sex

Candidiasis can manifest soon after sexual intercourse. The physical explanation for this is that we all have a natural bacterial flora that protects our private parts. When a woman does not have good intimate immunity and relates to someone whose flora is more acidic or alkaline than her normal pH, this causes candidiasis to manifest.

What nobody says is that when the vagina doesn’t adapt to someone else’s private part, it’s not just about physiological issues, but it also signals that there is an emotional cause linked to it. Below are some questions you can ask yourself to bring clarity to these issues:

Am I having sex with anyone simply to increase my self-esteem or reduce my lack? Am I feeling / I felt my body or my psyche disrespected in this sexual relationship? I feel / I felt that there was no kind of affective appreciation in this sexual relationship? ”, but “closing my heart”? Am I being treated as I would like? How do I feel after sex? Do I have all the sexual satisfaction I would like, good orgasms and feel complete after intercourse? Or in the end I always think it wasn’t so good or satisfying? Did I feel empty or regretful after this sexual relationship? Do I usually offer more pleasure and care to the other in bed than he does to me? Am I more concerned with giving than feeling pleasure? Am I ashamed of my body and does this affect my performance in bed? Normally, having sex brings me down even further in terms of my self-esteem?

3 – Poorly elaborated feelings from the past

All the hurts, angers and frustrations we experience, mainly in love and sex, are accumulated forever in cellular memories in our uterus and vaginal canal, until they are cleaned. When we do nothing to deal with these pains and pretend that everything is fine, these memories do not cease to exist, on the contrary, they increase and reverberate in different ways.

Then, the woman begins to experience problems of different types, whether romantic, sexual or, in more serious cases, physical imbalances, such as candidiasis. Past situations that were not well worked out, that is, when there was no forgiveness and release, affect your vagina and your heart, which “close” to a new relationship.

Thus, the woman transfers to her new love all the fears, expectations and pain that the past person caused her, as a weapon of defense so as not to suffer the same situation again. It’s like an emotional armor, which ends up reflecting on the body. Consequently, the vagina manifests an infection, such as candidiasis, as a symbolic way of preventing a new person from entering her and her life.

4 – Obey the ideas of the other to avoid intrigue and confusion

This situation can happen within a loving, family relationship, with the work team or in the social environment. In these cases, the woman accepts the other’s ideas or impositions with the excuse that she does not want to get involved in intrigue, confusion or even to avoid energy expenditure.

Sometimes, this becomes such a common habit that the least she expects it, she is blindly obeying the other, failing to impose her opinion and wishes. This woman quickly becomes someone very similar to this other, reproducing the same opinions, habits, routine, criticism. Thus, it loses itself, it no longer has brightness and authenticity.

It’s easy to identify this woman: she usually feels very unhappy and worn out in this relationship, but doesn’t want to give up. The excuses she invents are diverse. But, in the end, the fear is to change and leave the comfort zone that this other offers and start taking responsibility for herself.

Then, the vagina starts to itch, signaling this nuisance in your intimacy. Candidiasis appears, as if something inside you is crying out to be rescued. Your body “screams” for you to save yourself and go back to being who you were.

As long as you don’t give that cry of independence, it will be your pussy that will keep screaming.

5 – Being in a job you don’t like

Although this is a more uncommon cause, I have worked with some cases like this in the office. Women often force themselves to be in a job that does not make them happy and deceive themselves, telling themselves lies such as: “work is really difficult”, “it is impossible to find another job”, “at least here I pay my bills” , “I have a status in this company and I cannot give it up”, and so on.

So, this woman becomes more and more stressed and unhappy, accumulating a lot of anger: either at the boss, at the team, at the lack of time for herself or the family. The body responds to this by creating candidiasis. No accident one of the symptoms of the disease is itching. It can be paralleled with the situations that make you “itch with rage”, but even so, you submit to them, containing your anger and experiencing more and more stress.

As long as this person does not have the courage to remove this nuisance from his life, the problem will continue to manifest itself in the form of an illness.

Your body doesn’t believe any lie you tell, so it will be relentless in getting you to see what’s wrong and change.

When we trust and throw ourselves into life, opening paths in the direction of our desires, new doors open, everything is a matter of frequency. But for that, you have to have the courage to allow yourself to be happy.

6 – Not adapting to the sex of the partner

Many of the candidiasis patients I treated were in relationships and said they loved and admired their partner. However, all of them also experienced problems in bed. Whether it’s because they don’t feel pleasure with the pair, because the other didn’t like sex as much as she did, or simply because there’s no more chemistry in bed between the couple.

Sex and bodily connection are fundamental in a loving relationship. In the end,…