No one deserves to be betrayed, especially when you’ve invested the effort, time, and energy into building a healthy relationship with someone. If you’re having doubts about your partner’s loyalty, let’s look at some clear signs of unfaithful people so you know exactly what to do in such a situation.

Signs of an unfaithful partner are usually not difficult to understand, and if you spot most of the ones mentioned below, the worst could be true and it’s time to act!

If you pay attention, you can even see the physical signs that your partner is cheating on you, and you will even know the signs that he or she cheated on you last night.

22 sure signs of an unfaithful partner

trust and honesty are the two most important pillars of any relationship. Without them, no courtship or marriage can thrive.

So if you have a hunch that your partner isn’t being honest in the relationship, turning a blind eye to it isn’t a smart move. If you’ve often asked yourself, “Why do I feel like he or she is cheating on me?” it’s best not to ignore that hunch.

Then, how to know if your partner is cheating on you? Keep going down and see the 22 Clear Signs of an UNFAITHFUL partner!

1. The wardrobe starts to have more sexy and attractive clothes

This is more for women. If you notice that your girlfriend or wife is constantly buying new clothes and lingerie, but it seems like she never wears them in front of you, something could be wrong. A significant change in her wardrobe could mean she is dressing to impress someone other than you.

2. Change in appearance and body awareness

You enter the room and notice a sudden change in your appearance. Maybe a different perfume that he/she has never used before, started having new habits that he/she didn’t have a little while ago, etc.

Suddenly, he starts to worry about his appearance and is interested in getting in shape with methods that have never appealed to him before. He/she signed up for the gym, does yoga and eats healthy.

If he/she does all this then it could be one of the signs of infidelity. However, do not make your judgment based on this factor alone.

3. Your privacy becomes your top priority

Previously, his/her life was an open book. Your cell phone didn’t have a password (or you knew the password) or asked you to check your messages for them.

But now, he/she locks his/her cell phone whenever you enter the room, never sends messages in front of you, leaves the room to answer a call and even added a password that you don’t know.

You might be tempted to check his/her cell phone just to see what he/she is secretly hiding. Acting suspiciously around you becomes common in nature—one of the classic signs of an unfaithful partner!

4. He conveniently ignores you when necessary

Of all the signs of an unfaithful partner, this one hurts the most! Whenever you make an effort to call or text and he or she ignores or doesn’t even bother to answer for several hours, something is definitely wrong.

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If this happens on a daily basis, it means that he or she is actually ignoring you on purpose, perhaps because of someone else.

If they are happy and bubbly when they are away from you and when you arrive it seems like that happiness evaporates, you need to seriously examine the reason for this behavior.

5. Has he/she fought with you more often?

While he/she may have many real reasons to start a fight, sometimes it feels like he/she is just doing it to get you apart.

He/she no longer considers you the love of his/her life and may be comparing you to his/her lover, signaling that the relationship is teetering on the brink.

If the frequency of fights has increased to an alarming level and most fights are started by him/her and often for no apparent reason, it is a sign that he/she is cheating on you. If fights are getting ugly, you need to know that there is more to his/her anger than meets the eye.

6. He/she lost his/her caring nature

This could mean that he or she is getting ready to move on, perhaps with someone else. Some other signs of an unfaithful partner include taking you for granted and making you feel bad about yourself or pointing out your flaws on a daily basis. Getting you to the point where you yourself want to end the relationship.

7. Intimacy starts to fade in your relationship

There are physical signs that show a decrease in the levels of intimacy between the two of you. While it is quite normal in longer relationships for intimacy to wane over time, there seems to be an air of unwillingness to achieve the same level of intimacy.

8. He/she has a new circle of unknown friends

If your partner starts to have mysterious friends who are taking up most of your time and those you don’t know, then chances are they are cheating on you.

He even seems uninterested in introducing them to you. If this has been happening, you better get to the bottom of this situation!

9. He/she makes plans that most of the time don’t include you

Your outdoor activities have increased. New plans are emerging day after day without you around. You are not consulted or invited to these inexplicable tours.

But he/she seems very eager to enjoy them. In this case, it could be one of the signs of an unfaithful partner and proof that they have someone else in their life.

The very fact that he/she doesn’t want to make plans including you shows that he/she is no longer interested in spending more time with you.

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10. He/she is too busy for you

The surprise visits that once brought him so much joy no longer seem pleasant to him. He/she pushes you out and often puts off his spontaneous gestures because he/she is hiding something.

He/she barely has time for you, claiming he/she has a busy schedule. Last minute canceled dates become so frequent that you hardly have time to see them.

11. Your schedule piques his/her interest

He will keep constant control of your schedule because he obviously wants to avoid getting caught by you in the act.

He/she will keep asking where you are and you may think he/she is worried or acting strange, but it’s just his/her way of being careful.

12. He flirts with other people in front of you

If you notice that he/she is flirting with other people, such as friends or colleagues in your presence, it means that he/she doesn’t even respect your feelings.

This is definitely one of the most alarming (and also painful) signs of betrayal.

13. He keeps hinting that he wants to break up with you

Even if he/she can’t directly reveal about the affair, he/she always gives you subtle hints that he/she wants to end it.

He/she continues to highlight the points of difference between the two of you that didn’t bother him/her before. Discussing silly topics became frequent.

14. He/she does his/her best to protect his/her dignity

Deep in his/her heart, he/she knows he/she is doing something wrong. Therefore, if you ask him about his daily whereabouts, he/she will have tantrums and become extremely defensive or even go on the offensive and try to turn the tide.

He/she will try to protect your dignity and image as a loyal person and manipulate you into believing him/her again.

This is what is known as fault of the infidel that affects all people who surrender to infidelity.

15. His family and friends no longer matter to him/her

The people closest to you are no longer important in his/her life because you have lost importance to him/her.

He/she is losing feelings for you and therefore the people close to you start to matter less as a result. Lost feelings = one of the signs of an unfaithful partner.

16. Remember, the eyes don’t lie

One of the visible signs of an unfaithful partner is restless eyes.

Do you want to know if your partner is cheating on you for sure? Pay attention to your eyes.

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A person who sincerely loves you will have enough confidence to express their feelings while making direct eye contact with you.

But if during intimate moments he avoids looking into your eyes, this could be a sign of betrayal that should be taken into account.

17. You two can’t communicate with each other like you used to

As your partner has been physically distant from you, it becomes impossible for the two of you to connect emotionally as well.

Thus, the two of you fail to communicate your thoughts and opinions to each other as before, and misunderstanding becomes rampant in your relationship.

Both cannot talk to each other in advance and are always distant. This lack of communication may exist due to a problem of trust in the relationship caused by the betrayal.

18. Have you been unfaithful to him/her in the past?

Maybe you’ve had an affair in the past and he/she caught you in the act. Even if it looks like he/she has forgiven you, it could be that his/her betrayal has left some scars.

Because of this, he may also indulge in infidelity to get revenge on you. If this happens, you should talk to him/her, resolve your issues and think about forgiving him/her, rebuild your relationship again, or move forward each on your own.

19. He says he’s not ready for a real commitment yet

If your partner keeps saying he’s not ready for a commitment to you, it could be one of the signs that he’s cheating on you.

However, it could also mean that he or she is simply afraid of commitments. So don’t be too quick to judge.

20. He/she has trouble expressing his/her love

At the beginning of the relationship, he used to call you just to say “I love you” and that he was missing you and always said something reminded you of you, but now, he hardly expresses his emotions.

21. His personality has changed

As he/she is under the influence of someone else, you will notice changes in his/her personality. Instead of subtle shifts, there will be drastic shifts in their perspective and viewpoints that will clash with yours.

Leading to more fights you can’t resolve.

She may make drastic decisions and behave recklessly because she is consulting the other person in her life and applying herself to your relationship.

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