Not stopping using your cell phone is one of the things that kill love in a relationship the most.

When you fall in love and start a relationship, the whole world revolves around that person and you ignore anything else.

Well… at least it should be that way. A look on Facebook, a photo on Instagram or a quick play on Candy Crush are all things that get in the way of a relationship.

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When the cell phone kills love little by little

It’s bedtime, you go to bed, you take a little longer in the bathroom, because you want to get ready for a night of passion.

Today your desire is in the clouds and your husband (wife) is waiting for you in bed with open arms… just not! You arrive and he/she is focused on the cell phone. He/she looks at you quickly when you enter the room, but he/she doesn’t hesitate, he/she stays focused on his/her cell phone.

This image of your husband/wife looking at his/her cell phone can be repeated anytime, anywhere. When you go out to dinner, when you are on the couch after a hard day, when you are in the car or on the bus, or when you decide to spend a day at the beach to regain the flame of passion that the relationship has lost.

Or maybe you’re the one who spends all day on the phone. You spend all day posting pictures of yourself, even with your love and following other profiles. According to your Instagram, you make a happy couple.

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But have you ever asked your partner if he is really happy?

The cell phone was not created by the devil, but its abusive use can be hellish and even deadly for love. And there’s a lot more.

The notebook when you take it to bed to finish that work, the TV on in the bedroom before bed, etc.

Why not spend a Saturday afternoon with your partner doing nothing? You look at each other, touch each other, talk. Don’t you have anything to tell him/her again?

Do you need to keep replacing quality time with your sweetheart with frantic cell phone activity all the time?

Sometimes we boycott our relationship with everyday attitudes and gestures that we don’t even realize, when the reality is much simpler: a relationship needs attention.

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