She’s yours, man… And those who don’t take care of it, lose their turn.

No matter who you know or who you are with, she will be your favorite.

You will remember her when night falls and you have no one else to hug, you will remember that on cold nights, she could be your warmth. At dawn, when you open your eyes and realize that your arms are entwined with the pillow, you will miss that security blanket she provided you every day. You will miss having someone like her in your life, a person who gave you the best they could be and who, despite the differences, was always willing to make it work. You will feel a tightness in your heart and you will remember that sweet way of her cuddling you. From the silly jokes, the awkward and shy smile.

You will kiss other mouths, taste other kisses, but hers will be the most intense.

When you are in a busy place, you will smell her perfume in the air and you will quickly look around trying to find her in other faces. When you turn on the car radio, that song that she once sang softly in her ear will play. You will close your eyes wishing to forget and this attempt will be a failure, because she will become even more present in the longing for her. When nostalgia takes over your attitudes, you will return to that restaurant you once went with her just to enjoy the sadness you will be feeling, it will be an invalid attempt, the restaurant has changed its address and the memories no longer exist.

You’ll fall in love with other lips, who knows, but none will be able to top hers. After spending a phase of your life on a Ferris wheel and putting your feet back on the ground, you will come to the realization that living is not a game. That not always the initial point of departure will be the place of disembarkation.

Many times, we miss out on unique opportunities and when we realize how incredible it could have been, reality makes itself present to show us that the past can no longer be part of the future. It is exactly at that moment that fate will play a trick on you and you will have to be mature enough not to throw everything away. Without even waiting, one day she will pass by your side and you will no longer recognize her. As the seasons change, people renew their feelings. Something inside you will make you sigh again. And you will finally realize that that feeling you swore you had overcome, will again take your peace.

She went by so fast, you’ll look back and want to run away or scream for her to wait for you. At that moment, you will take a deep breath, turn your face and continue walking in the opposite direction of her. When he gets home, he will close himself in his room, lie down on the bed and let the tears fall uncontrollably. Just you, who swore to be strong, is going through a phase of fragility. After so much crying, you will realize that life teaches us to lose and that no matter the size of the pain, that’s what makes us grow.

And finally, you will take small steps and leave the past in an even more distant reality. Take a deep breath and understand that as much as we want someone very much, certain things don’t repeat themselves and maybe never come back. And that this whole process between loving, suffering and forgetting, is part of any human being who is of flesh, soul and heart. So you, who didn’t have an ounce of sensitivity, learned by force that to fix a broken heart it’s not enough to just glue the small pieces, a complete renovation is advisable.

You are able to deal with all this missing you are feeling, believe me. However, homesickness will become more and more frequent. Until the day she conquers your pride and you go looking for her. Don’t wait too long, it might be too late. Don’t be absent from a love, people can get used to emptiness and live well alone. Or looking for someone who completes you, who truly loves you and is willing to fight for a relationship. Open your eyes wide, notice and insist. Do not give up.

Yes, your time has come to suffer, cry, repent and learn to value and love those who are with you and walk by your side. Don’t forget that time passes and happiness is urgent. Get used to the pain, after all, a love when true, will never be forgotten.

This is eternal love. However, it is not mandatory to end up together.

Follow your life wisely.