It doesn’t have to be perfect to work.

“For love, there is no mountain high enough, there is no path too difficult, there is no impossible challenge, there is no horizon that cannot be reached”

A love story shown on Programa Fantástico touched a lot of people. And it’s no wonder, the video that “god viral” on social media is proof that unconditional love, the one that is so much aspired to, is not just a possibility: “For love, there is no mountain high enough, there is no path too difficult, there is no impossible challenge, there is no horizon that cannot be reached”.

Relationships, in general, play a key role in human satisfaction. Of course, the person may not live in a loving relationship and feel good that way, because other relationships, such as parents, children and friends, for example, may be satisfying enough. The fact is that relating well is an important aspect for our well-being and must be treated with care and genuine attention.

The problem arises when we expect love to happen our way; when we don’t understand that people love the way they know how to love and also show it in their own way. This issue is usually even more poignant in love life, subject to endless demands, each one wants to shape the other and feels rejection because it doesn’t happen. In these cases, what is evident is that the problem is not in the relationship, but in the one who has not matured enough to understand the loved one as he or she is.

Not meeting expectations is not a lack of love, but demanding perfection is very close to it. Nobody is perfect, therefore, no relationship can be. The video’s relationship is also not ideal, what makes the difference is the acceptance that it is possible to love and be loved, despite all the physical and moral deficiencies that each one can present. Therefore, any union can be favorable as long as the pairs decide to accept each other and together seek healthy ways of interacting.

With the exception of acts that affront the moral values ​​of each one, as well as violence in any manifestation, I have observed, with my work, that much can be done before concluding the end of the relationship. Good strategies, behavior changes and a good dose of patience are timely measures that promote harmony and increase satisfaction levels in the relationship.

The fact is that love can be lived in its fullness, it is enough that people decide for it and put into practice the necessary changes and adjustments.

Suely Buriasco

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