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What does it really mean to be the “right person”?

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There are those who look for love in life, someone who can make those looking for him happy, but what happens is that, in this search, many people are frustrated because of the sentimental and loving disappointments they face.

It is not possible to count how many marriages are ending at the exact moment I write this text, nor how many couples fights are developing right now, but they are certainly not few.

Human beings seek happiness in others, it has always been that way. The maxim is the following statement:

“I’m looking for someone to make me happy

The truth is that most people spend their whole lives basing themselves on this statement, on this search for someone to make them happy and that is exactly why they always find frustrations, because the right thing is not to find someone to make you happy, but someone that YOU can make happy.

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How many people do you know who have gone through hell in their love life? You are probably even one of them, who never had relationships that worked, always suffered and always ended all the relationships he started, and for the most different reasons. Sometimes they broke up with you, but other times it was you who couldn’t take it anymore and broke up. The question here is one: You were never happy with anyone.

And maybe you always say to others and to yourself:

It’s just that I still haven’t found the right person

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Let me tell you something about this “right person”: It has to be you.

It’s no use spending your whole life looking for the right person if, when you find them, you’re the wrong person.

It is precisely here that many sin, because they want to fill a hole in their lives with someone, this is not what has to happen. The street of love life cannot be filled with a filler. In fact, your love life can’t have holes, it has to be very well paved, asphalted, painted and trafficable.

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When you finally find someone to relate to, you have to be ready for that someone, because there’s no point in getting someone ready if you’re not ready.

You don’t put clean water in a dirty glass, you have to clean the glass first. That’s what has to happen to you, you have to cleanse yourself of everything that prevents you from being happy. That means you have to take care of yourself.

What is being the right person?

“To be the right person is to be a clean glass.

See that the glass may not be the most beautiful or the most expensive or the biggest, but one thing is for sure: It has to be clean.

If you want to be the right person, cleanse yourself of everything that makes you the wrong person. For example:

  • You haven’t healed from emotional trauma experienced in other relationships;
  • You are easily hurt;
  • You feel very jealous;
  • You have obsessive behavior;
  • You don’t trust anyone;
  • You act on impulse, you give yourself to anyone;
  • You don’t know how to analyze the person before getting involved;
  • You get carried away by emotion and don’t know how to think rationally about your sentimental life;
  • You don’t know how to choose well with whom to relate;
  • You can’t be happy alone, you think you have to have someone to complete you;
  • You are an ignorant, thick, stupid person;
  • You think everything has to be your way;
  • You live in binges, parties, drinking, promiscuity and no-strings-attached relationships;
  • You don’t believe in love;
  • You think everyone is the same and will betray you;
  • You betray;
  • You lie;
  • You don’t trust yourself;
  • You love others more than yourself;
  • You carry with you an exaggerated machismo or feminism;
  • Etc., etc., etc.;
I could spend hours and hours here writing about what makes you the wrong person, but read the statements above again and realize that everything that can harm you in a relationship is what keeps you from being the right person.
If you identified with some of the topics above (or others similar to these that I didn’t describe), then you are NOT ready to relate to someone, first you have to take care of your emotional, eliminate these things from within you, get rid of these behaviors.

This is all a process that takes some time but it is possible if you put in the effort and within weeks you can change that and become the right person.

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Of course, you won’t be perfect, you’ll always make mistakes, but that “thick”, those ugliest attitudes and flaws you have, you have to eliminate if you want to become the right person and be happy.

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