Don’t get attached to someone who only looks for you for interests

Don’t fall into a near relationship. Don’t let anyone consume your mind and heart. Don’t let thoughts and worries keep you up at night.

Don’t let unanswered messages distract you from the life that is happening right before your eyes, with people who care about you.

Don’t create feelings for someone who only comes to you when they need you. Don’t bond with someone who doesn’t actually like you, because you don’t deserve someone who only comes when you’re alone – you deserve someone who appreciates every moment in your company.

You can like someone with all your heart, but if that person only wants to be by your side when it’s convenient, they’re not worth your time.

You need someone who is with you at all times, even in the unglamorous moments, in the boring, difficult and complicated moments in life, because there will never be ups without downs.

You need someone who is there for you when your anxiety is high – someone who understands and doesn’t try to downplay or correct you. Someone who is there when you have a horrible day and you want to cry – someone who comforts you and makes you feel that everything is going to be okay. Anything less than that is not worth your time.

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You deserve more than someone who only wants to be with you when it’s convenient, you deserve more than someone who doesn’t treat you as a priority.

You are not an option.

You are a wonderful person, with a huge heart, full of life, and you deserve someone who will appreciate it, who will value it, who will give it real importance.

You aren’t too much or too little, you don’t love too much or feel too much, you don’t have to change a single thing about yourself to make someone feel attracted, because you are interesting the way you are.

Your thoughts and emotions are relevant and anyone who makes you feel like you’re not important is someone who doesn’t deserve your time anymore.

You need reciprocity, you need someone who can feel deeply, who can fall in love as much as you do.

Sometimes you meet a person who may seem perfect, but the perfect person won’t make you wait days for a message. Someone who is really perfect for you won’t just call you when it’s convenient. Someone who is ideal for you will make you feel special – they won’t make you feel empty, broken and worthless.

You are worthy of sincere love, worthy of someone who recognizes how valuable you are; and you will find that someone.

You just need to let go of those who were never there for you in the first place.

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Becca Martin