Eight Intimate Female Problems That Are Rooted in Emotions |

Have you ever tried to disguise that face of dissatisfaction? Did you make an effort to hold back the tears, but still the tear ended up flowing or was it clear that you wanted to cry? The body is the expression of our soul. When we feel something internally, the body manifests it and, sometimes, we can’t even hide it.

The truth is that medicine is divided into different specialties to help practitioners better focus on certain physical issues. However, we are a machine that works as a whole – not separately.

Therefore, if we really want to take care of some body dysfunction, we need to understand the root of this problem – which usually comes from dissatisfaction or disharmony in life and emotions.

If we really want to take care of some body dysfunction, we need to understand the root of this problem – which usually comes from dissatisfaction or disharmony in life and emotions.

William Reich, who originated orgone therapy – which today is called Reichian body psychotherapy – names unresolved emotions stored in the body as “armors”. These “armors” are muscle tensions that impede both blood flow and energy flow.

Many other sciences start from the same principle and even our western science is already considering such a possibility. An example of this is the World Health Organization (WHO), which defines health as “a state of harmony between physical, mental and social well-being – and not just the absence of disease”.

So, now that this correlation between the body and emotions has become clearer, let’s delve a little deeper into the knowledge of female sexuality. I invite you to observe your sexual difficulties and even the dysfunctions you present in this regard, as a path to self-knowledge.

This will certainly lead you to transform your sexuality and also different sectors of life, after all, as you can see, everything originates from the silence within us.

See below what some sexual dysfunctions and difficulties signal:

URINARY INFECTION (CYSTITIS)

It signals that your emotions are inflamed. It happens when we don’t allow life’s situations to follow their normal flow and we contain emotions – just like we contain the flow of urine, holding the pee and leaving it to go to the bathroom later. This ends up causing a urinary tract infection.

When you hold back the tears, you are also holding back your sorrows, preventing those waters (tears) from flowing through your body. It is worth remembering that water symbolizes emotions.

Physically, the bladder is the organ responsible for retaining the body’s water and filtering it, eliminating what is not useful and giving back what can still be enjoyed. Metaphorically, this has to do with your ability to take advantage of life’s emotional lessons, filtering, eliminating or enjoying each experience that presents itself.

Tips for the problem

To prevent urinary infection, let go of what doesn’t belong to you anymore, get rid of repressed emotions, let go of hurts, don’t hold your emotions anymore, cry. Also don’t hold your urine, put yourself first, work or any other responsibility can wait.

When the infection appears, the person feels pain when urinating. This physical discomfort can be compared to the pain of letting go of what you don’t want to lose, or the fear of moving on.

If you are already suffering from cystitis, the tip is: when you go to urinate, sit on the seat and relax. Pay attention to your perineum (region between the vagina – or the scrotum – and the anus), which should also be very relaxed.

After urinating everything, count to three and force again to get the rest of the urine out. It is this rest of urine that usually leads to cystitis – characterized by muscle tension, which is nothing more than a reflection in the body, of the act of holding on to what we need to let go.

CANDIDIASIS

Candidiasis, like cystitis, also suggests that your emotions are contained. But in addition, the problem signals that you are forcing yourself to do things, without wanting to.

The symptoms of candidiasis are: itching, bad smell and thick, yellowish or white opaque discharge. You can make a comparison with those situations that make you “itch with anger”, but still let yourself be submitted to them.

For example: having sex out of obligation, without feeling like it; or being in a job out of necessity but not taking it anymore, holding back anger and experiencing a lot of stress.

Tips for the problem

The emotional tip, to prevent the problem, is to learn to say no, to listen and respect yourself more. This means that you must listen to your inner voice and, if you don’t want to do something, look for ways out instead of being inert, don’t submit to what is not part of you, respect yourself more.

The physiological tip is: use intimate vaginal PH soap, this is always the best way out, as the product maintains the acidity of the vagina, which is your woman’s protection against fungi and bacteria. To spice up sex, many people spread products with sugar in their intimate areas, such as chocolate or condensed milk.

This type of practice should not be adopted, as glucose alters the vaginal pH, which can lead to diseases such as candidiasis. There are specialized products, in sex shops, that imitate sweets, but do not have glucose. These are great options.

Bartholinitis (inflammation of the Bartholin Glands)

The Bartholin gland is located at the lateral ends of the vaginal wall and has the function of lubricating the vagina during the sexual act, to facilitate the sliding in the act, making the practice more comfortable.

Bartholinitis, in turn, happens when this gland becomes inflamed.

To understand the emotional issues behind this problem, you need to know that the Water Element represents emotion. So, the liquid released in the sexual act symbolizes the emotional delivery at this time or the difficulties that the person faces.

For example: anger, rage or contained nervousness, which can generate inflammation of the gland, causing Bartholinitis.

Tips for the problem

To prevent the problem, vent your feelings to your partner, remove it completely from your heart. As these emotions are cleared, understood and forgiven, the gland will also leak the inflammation out, healing the problem.

The physiological tip is to perform the perineal massage (learn how to do it here)to allow the flexibility of the tissue and the possibility of expelling the pus, contributing to the better functioning of the gland.

VERY OR LITTLE SENSITIVE BREAST

Within metaphysics, the breast represents the feminine maternal side, warmth, the woman’s ability to give affection and love without fear.

See if it makes sense to you: Women with large breasts, who hug hard and warmly, tend to convey a feeling that they are more motherly and affectionate, creating an atmosphere of intimacy and warmth. Therefore, the breast also represents the ease of dealing with giving and receiving.

That is, the ability to surrender and win more easily. If this part of your body is very or very little sensitive, try to self-assess yourself, identifying if you have been donating enough within your relationships, if you are managing to express your maternal side and also if you are well resolved with your maternal and feminine issues.

Tips for the problem

Donate your love more, hug more often and in a more welcoming and true way, surrender to relationships and act with more sincerity and transparency, without fear of judgement.

For the physicist, the tip is to sunbathe the breasts, at appropriate times, as this tends to normalize your nerve endings and increase your resistance and sensitivity. Another possibility is to offer different stimuli to the breasts, such as: vibration, gel stimuli, sensations of heat and cold, touch with thick gloves, etc.

This will help the very sensitive breast to gain resistance and the less sensitive one to awaken the nerve endings and improve their sensitivity.

PAIN IN SEX (DYSPAREUNIA)

Pain during sexual intercourse usually occurs in the vaginal walls, at the time of the act, but can also arise after sex, in the lower abdomen.

Dyspareunia is a protective response of the body for the woman not to feel pain, be it physical or emotional. For example: you decide to have sex with a person that you know deep down that you might regret it later. In that case, your vaginal musculature tensions and you feel pain in the sexual act.

Another reason for pain is muscle nodules – also called breastplates – which are installed in the vaginal canal and, when they rub against the penis, cause pain. These nodules can be acquired by trauma or sexual defenses, or any other sexual, amorous, maternal content or related to self-esteem.

Pain in the vaginal muscles represents the lack of flexibility you have in love or your sexuality.

This can happen for many reasons, such as: conflicts with your personal identity and beliefs; repressive creation; or the desire to break free and let go for sex, but without the courage to do so, which makes her feel trapped. To try to solve the problem, think about the lack of flexibility that you tend to adopt in these areas of life and try to adapt to the situations that life presents you with.

Tips for the problem

To prevent the problem, allow yourself to receive pleasure, trust who is with you and, above all, yourself. Feel the desire and excitement and conduct intercourse at your own pace, realizing what your emotional pains are in love and sexuality. Also, talk, forgive and then let the pleasure of experiencing other emotions speak louder.

ANORGASMIA (absence of orgasm or difficulty reaching it)

Anorgasmia is not a physical dysfunction, since the orgasm itself is emotional. When a woman has a dysfunction in this regard, there is often nothing so serious.

We must remember that every female physiological process for sexuality is very complex, and even has a system just for that, like the female sympathetic nervous system.

Therefore, for a woman to be able to enjoy the peak of this pleasure, she must first have followed the steps that will prepare her body for it:

first the desire for sex and for the partner, then arousal (which are the responses of desire in the body, such as lubrication, increased cardiac output, respiratory rate, etc.).

For example: a woman who is woken up in the middle of the night by her partner, who wants to quickly start the sexual act. As she did not go through the desire and excitement before sex and could not prepare her body, it is likely that – in addition to feeling pain, because the vagina will not be completely open to receive the penis – she still will not reach orgasm, since there was no blood. enough to fill the urethral sponge and so many other necessary parts.

Furthermore, the neural inputs will also not be aligned with the rest of the body. Therefore, even those women who manage to reach orgasm without desire and excitement are still not exploring the full potential of that climax – which often causes doubts…