12 Signs that your partner does not love you and is not interested in you –

He no longer looks for you like before, he doesn’t give you quality time and the intensity in the relationship has decreased.

So if you want to know how to distinguish between whether he no longer loves you or if he just needs a little more time for himself, below we will give you 12 signs that he no longer loves you and is not interested in you.

It is important that you know that these signs are not an absolute truth, but they are a fairly accurate guide for you to analyze your partner’s attitude and see if your sixth sense is really correct.

Now, let’s start with the 12 signs that he doesn’t love you and isn’t interested in you.

Sign number 1: He no longer tells you “I love you”

If your partner stopped telling you that he or she loves you, what is the strongest sign that something is not right?

Although actions speak louder than words, showing affection with them is something that fills us a lot and constantly reminds us of what other people feel about us.

It is very normal for two people who love each other, in addition to showing it, to tell each other quite frequently.

So if you are already at the stage where the lack of the phrase “I love you” makes you think about whether that person still has feelings for you, unfortunately your intuition is telling you that something is not working and most likely they no longer love you. Especially if you tell him and he doesn’t respond the same way.

Sign number 2: Your intimate life has vanished

Another harsh and more than obvious sign. Intimate contact is one of the strongest bonds when you are in the early stages of a relationship. It is logical that as time passes and coexistence becomes more frequent, the intensity of the encounters decreases in relation to what it was at the beginning.

However, if you notice not only that your partner no longer hugs or kisses you like before (neither in public nor in private) and, in addition to that, you also do not feel that he gets excited by being next to you nor do you have sex, let me tell you that now is not working.

That our partner no longer feels the desire to be intimate with us is a clear sign that he does not love us or be interested in us in the slightest, although it is not the center of a relationship, it is a very important part of it; just like caresses, kisses and hugs.

Sign number 3: He no longer has time for you

If your partner has pushed you aside and all are excuses after excuses for not seeing you or not going out with you, and especially if you notice that this signal is combined with some other, it is because something is clearly wrong.

Now, if this happens a couple of times, it may really be a situation that is out of his hands and his work or studies are absorbing him in such a way that your attempts to share with him coincide with his occupations.

But if the issue becomes recurring and for every plan you have with him there is an inconvenience (on his part) not to see each other, then it is a clear sign that your boy no longer loves you and is not interested in spending time with you.

Sign number 4: It no longer comforts you when you feel sad

If something characterizes us as human beings capable of loving another(s), it is the empathetic attitude of putting ourselves in their place and comforting them when we feel that the person we love is sad.

If you feel like your partner literally doesn’t care when you feel down, sad, or upset, and even tries to disappear so they don’t have to deal with those moods, then they don’t love you anymore. It is inconceivable not to hug or cuddle our loved ones (and even more so our partners) when we see them affected by a situation.

Sign number 5: He no longer responds quickly to your text messages or stops responding

This is a very clear sign that the relationship is going downhill. When everything begins in the relationship, you haven’t finished receiving the message when you are already responding or calling to give you an answer, right?

But now it turns out that it takes hours and hours to respond to you or, in the worst case, it doesn’t even respond at all. Let me tell you that when there is interest or desire, there will always be a second to quickly answer a message, even if it is to tell you that he is busy.

Sign number 6: He spends more time with his friends than with you

It is clear that you do have time to share, but you decide to invest it in your friends or family. That is, excuses are only to spend time with you.

So if you notice that arriving late from work or going out to have a few beers with his friends has become a recurring habit, it is obvious that your guy no longer feels completely comfortable around you and avoids spending time with you.

It is completely healthy for him to spend time with his friends, but if he is in a relationship, it is logical that he also spends much of his free time with her or looks for a space where they can meet up with their friends.

Pay attention to what he does in his free time and how much of it he dedicates to being with you or for the relationship. The result of your analysis will be a conclusive answer about whether he no longer loves you or is not interested in you.

Sign number 7: He no longer flirts with you

We mistakenly think that flirting is only present when we start a relationship or are in the process of conquest. But it turns out that’s not the case.

A healthy and true relationship will always maintain that spark of flirtation, although there may certainly be a decrease in intensity or frequency.

And when we talk about flirting, we are referring to those intense, deep, mischievous and complicit looks between lovers; to those comments that flatter the other; to those touches and caresses that awaken desire…

Even those silly jokes between a couple or the nice words that come from trivial conversation are forms of flirting that keep the spark of love and passion alive in a relationship.

But if your partner doesn’t flatter you in the slightest; if he hasn’t even noticed that you cut your hair or did your nails; or if he simply doesn’t even notice that you put on your best sexy outfit to provoke him, unfortunately he’s no longer interested in you and love is probably fading away.

Sign number 8: You become a selfish person in many ways

They say that when someone loves you, it shows; but when you stop caring, it shows even more… there is no more true and lapidary phrase than that.

When your boy no longer loves you, unfortunately the center of his life is him and everything that happens to him and it brings out his most selfish side, by completely displacing you and making it clear to you that his work, his studies, his friends and his family They are more important than you.

He doesn’t even care when something is happening to you to support you. It seems that he passes by you without the slightest remorse.

And further evidence of this egomaniacal behavior is that even in bed he only cares about his satisfaction and does not take into account whether you are enjoying it or not.

Sign number 9: Compares you to other girls

There is nothing more annoying in life than being compared to other people. And in relationships this is something that should be avoided at all costs, since it is assumed that what we are looking for is to make the loved one feel good.

So if your partner now seems to find some faults in you and starts saying phrases like:

– “Why aren’t you like David’s girlfriend?”

– “José’s girl doesn’t get upset when we go out partying without her.”

– “Juan’s wife doesn’t even call him when we are working.”

– “Why don’t you wear more current clothes like my friend Cristina?”

Let me tell you that he is no longer interested in you and probably his feelings towards you are changing, because he begins to think that other women are better than you in looks or attitude.

Sign number 10: He doesn’t seem happy around you

If he no longer wants to spend time with you, if he no longer feels comfortable with who you are and what you do, if he no longer has nice and loving words for you, if the time he spends with you is simply out of obligation rather than just for fun… it’s obvious that that boy is unhappy with you.

So if you observe the little time he spends with you with attitudes of boredom, constant criticism towards you, moody, annoyed, anxious to leave… unfortunately that man no longer loves you and much less is interested in you.

There are things that are felt and women are very intuitive to detect when their partner is no longer comfortable with them.

Sign number 11: When you are together, he isolates himself

If every time you are together you notice that your partner becomes absorbed in his world, in his internal thoughts or in his cell phone, something is not right.

Perhaps, at first, your boy told you about his daily life, how work went, his plans and his dreams. But if now you notice him quiet, he hardly talks about his routine, his problems or projects, it is possible that he is not interested in you and that he has lost that special connection with you.

It is normal that someday we feel this way, but if you notice that this attitude is quite frequent in your partner, the relationship is not good and it is likely that love is fading…

Sign number 12: Your boy gets angry more often and things about you bother him

If you start to notice that your boy gets upset about everything, argues over trivial things and even criticizes your habits, then the tolerance level is at zero and this is something that is not conceivable in a relationship where two people love each other.

If your partner can no longer stand those quirks that you have always had since the beginning of the relationship (and at that time they seemed not to matter), then things are not working well at all and it seems that love has already packed its bags.

Nothing more disturbing than a relationship that becomes toxic due to absurd arguments every so often; where it seems like your partner is waiting for you to say something so they can attack you and argue.

And if this is not enough, pay attention to whether your partner has been able to bring up in discussions a painful incident from the past that he knows affects you greatly.

What to do if you think your partner no longer loves you?

If these things are happening in your daily life as a couple, let me tell you that there is little you can expect: he is no longer interested in you and he does not love you, because someone who loves us would never say things that they know would hurt us.

Remember that not all distancing is necessarily due to a lack of affection, but simply that your boy may already take it for granted that he has you safe and no longer feels the motivation he felt at the beginning of being super affectionate and detail-oriented. It could also happen that he needs a little space as a man (a breather, perhaps).

How many signs are enough to think that my partner no longer loves me?

These are just some signs that your partner may show and that are usually obvious signs that he is no longer interested in you and may have stopped loving you.

Of course, you should be clear that there are exceptions; However, it is unlikely that if you feel fully identified with at least 5 of these signs, what your heart is screaming at you is a lie.

If there is one thing we should not ignore, it is the words of our intuition, when it whispers to us that the person we love seems not to feel the same way.

What happens is that, deep down, we ignore these intuitions and become blind to what is obvious; simply because we superimpose our feelings and the hope that everything will be fixed.

However, do not fear or lose your valuable…