11 signs to assume that they don’t love you and what to do –

If you don’t know very well if they really love you, you’ve come to the right place, since here I bring you 11 signs that people show in their behavior when the feeling is not true. Plus I’ll tell you what to do when they don’t love you.

These are the 11 signs to assume that they don’t love you. If you identify with several of these signs, don’t hesitate: they don’t love you anymore.

1. He always changes your plans

You’ve asked him out, but at the last minute he tells you that he can’t go without an apparent explanation. Is this situation familiar to you? Does it happen to you very often? Maybe it’s because he doesn’t love you and doesn’t dare tell you.

2. He doesn’t support you

It is very common for a person not to support you or care about your well-being if they do not love you. You can observe this behavior if, for example, you have had a bad day and you want to vent, but he chooses not to listen to you, ignores you, or simply changes the topic.

3. Forget important dates

Forgetting your birthday, the anniversary of the relationship, or some event that you had planned for some time are clear signs that the relationship is not going well and it is probably because he no longer loves you.

4. He is not responsible for anything

From small things like who does the dishes to managing finances, the things that need to be done seem to be all yours.

Instead of sharing responsibility, you have to constantly take on everything so that things somehow flow. This behavior is typical of people who don’t love you.

5. You are the one who should always start the conversation

Do you find yourself constantly calling or texting him? Doesn’t he talk to you if you don’t talk to him first?

If he doesn’t make an effort to see you or keep up with your life, it’s a sign that he doesn’t care enough about you to include you in his world and be in yours.

When someone cares about you, no matter how busy their schedule is, they will find the time to be with you and hear from you.

6. He prioritizes his friends over the relationship

A healthy relationship gives each member their space to see their friends and have a life outside of the relationship. But if he constantly displaces you for hanging out with his friends, it’s a sign that you’re not his priority.

If you are alone at the times when you should be with your partner or he or she is missing important moments in your life to share with his friends, it shows a clear imbalance in the relationship and you should rethink it.

7. He always blames you

If when you try to talk to your partner about the things that are bothering you, he just gets angry and blames you instead of accepting what you tell him. What he is doing is deflecting responsibility in the relationship from him without considering your feelings.

8. There is no mutual respect

From ignoring you to not supporting you, if your partner doesn’t take the time to think about how their actions make you feel, they aren’t giving you the respect you deserve.

A relationship without mutual respect is not beneficial. “Respect is celebrating each other’s differences and the mutual potential to grow without imposing our own beliefs.” Write this down and don’t forget it.

9. He doesn’t share things about his life with you

If he doesn’t introduce you to his family, he forgets to tell you about important moments in his life such as achievements or goals achieved, it means that your partner doesn’t let you into his life.

If you’ve been dating for more than 6 months and he still hasn’t introduced you to his friends or family, it means he’s manipulating your perception of him, since the best way to know what he’s really like is to get to know his inner circle.

10. He hates it when you leave your things at his house.

It is normal to leave things at your partner’s house, but if it bothers him that you do it, it may be because he feels that you are invading his space and that you are tying him to you, so he does not feel ready for that “kind” of commitment.

11. They don’t discuss the relationship

It may sound strange to you that arguing is a crucial part of a relationship, but when someone cares about where the relationship is going, they constantly wonder what needs to be done to work out the details.

In fact, couples who argue healthily spend more time together than those who don’t, because they talk about what affects the other and seek to solve it.

What to do when they don’t love you?

The important thing is not to force things and let everything flow. Keep in mind that self-love should always come before what you feel for another person. Don’t hesitate to take a step back and reconsider the relationship if you feel like you are no longer loved.

When they don’t love you, is it better to walk away?

In my opinion, if someone doesn’t love you, it’s best to walk away, since staying where they don’t love you is only going to hurt you. Remember that first comes you, your self-love and your happiness.

How do you know when someone doesn’t want you in their life?

It’s actually quite easy to realize when they don’t want you in their life, although by human nature we tend to ignore those signs. Some of them are:

– He evades you every time you look for him.

– Leave your messages unseen and/or not answer your calls.

– Ignores you.

– Abuse is part of the routine, both with their actions and their words.

How to stop loving someone who doesn’t love you?

They say that no one controls the things of the heart, but luckily there are things you can do to trick your mind until the wound heals and you can stop loving him:

1. Recognize that pain is normal

Accept and give yourself time to overcome the grief. Yes, duel! The fact of having to leave someone you love is a grief and you live all the stages as if it were the loss of a loved one.

2. Recognize that you cannot force him to love you

It is something you must learn, since many times not even you have control of your own emotions, so imagine: if you do not have control of yours, how can you control those of others?

When they don’t love you, does it show?

Of course! In addition to feeling it, you will notice it by the way he acts towards you. Honestly, it’s even more noticeable when they DON’T love you than when they love you.

The fact that he doesn’t treat you the way you think he should or that you feel bad when you think about the relationship you have is a clear sign that things are not going well and he probably doesn’t love you.

How to accept that he doesn’t love me?

Some things you can do when they don’t love you are:

1. Distract your mind by doing things that make you feel good

Being told that they don’t love you or that you feel that way affects your self-esteem and you will surely begin to question whether you are worth it. So do things that remind you how valuable you are.

2. Talk about it

It may be a cliché, but it really works to talk about how you feel. Seek to talk to your close friends, a family member or a therapist who will listen to you and advise you.

What to do when a woman no longer loves you?

You can do two things:

1. Accept that they no longer love you

If it is the decision you make, you should cut off the relationship and all contact you have with her.

Maybe it’s a difficult situation, but it’s good if you feel like he doesn’t love you anymore and there’s nothing else you can do, otherwise you’d be hurting yourself.

2. Try to win her back

In case you think that she no longer loves you because the relationship fell into routine or they are in a bad moment, you can try to win her back with details that you know she likes:

– Invite her on a date and try to make it romantic.

– Buy her candy, flowers or lingerie.

Why, if he doesn’t love me, doesn’t he leave me?

There are many reasons why a person stays in a relationship, even when they don’t love you. But some of them are:

1. Maybe he is in denial that love is over between the two of them. What should you do when you feel like maybe this is the reason? Sit down and talk to him sincerely and calmly.

2. He doesn’t want to be alone.

3. He wants regular access to sex. If you think that this is the reason why he is still with you, you should end the relationship, because sooner or later you will get hurt. Although sex is important, it is not everything in a relationship.

4. He thinks it’s an adult relationship without romance involved.

Things of the heart are difficult, especially when it comes to things like knowing what to do when they don’t love you. But everything is temporary in this life: enjoy if everything goes well and walk away when you know that there is no love involved.

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