5 tips on how to make a shy girl fall in love with you –

Being shy doesn’t mean not being passionate or wild. It is simply a feeling of insecurity or shame that a man or woman feels in unfamiliar social settings.

And although shyness is usually an initial impediment in a relationship—both for the shy person and for their potential partner—it is a condition that implies, in most cases, valuable moral standards.

A courtship with a shy person has every chance of being rich and satisfying.

Let me explain why I tell you this.

I had a very shy but passionate, romantic and loving girlfriend. It was a satisfying relationship for both of them. When we broke up after 8 months because she had to leave town, she wrote me a text and I quote:

“Dario, look for a shy woman. Besides loving you, she will never abandon you because she will be very shy to be with someone new.”

We already know that shyness, in both men and women, will be an impediment in the seduction process and in fully enjoying a social life.

Despite this, introverted girls are generally less demanding than others and, when they overcome their shyness, it is to spend an unforgettable moment with them. Of course, for that to happen it takes time and patience.

Being impatient is not bad for many things, but for dating a shy girl, it is. That’s why I invite you to really think about whether you want to make a girl with these characteristics fall in love with you, because you could get bored.

How to recognize a shy girl?

Their body language is sensitive and when something makes them uncomfortable or upset, it shows.

His face will spontaneously blush when you talk to him. Her hands will sweat when interacting with others in any social circle, especially when she is with strangers. Additionally, she will be distant and have little eye contact with others.

These are all signs that will tell you that you are with a shy girl, but that is why you will not be a “Don Juan” and you will throw the entire repertoire of seduction at her. Remember that she needs time to feel comfortable with you. You shouldn’t spoil it by behaving like a lion after her prey.

Approach her without violating her comfort and privacy zone, with a friendly, conciliatory and sympathetic tone of voice. Ideally, you should also make her laugh as many times as you can. Laughter is the key to success.

1. Be safe and harmless

Shy girls are up to 100 times more sensitive than extroverted girls about their insecurities about their place in society.

Many topics, especially those of love, current affairs and sexual relationships, will make her feel very uncomfortable in public and private places.

2. More than a friend, be a confidant

Be the closest to her without being her boyfriend yet, but not just a friend either. You must make the bonds of trust increasingly stronger so that she opens up and trusts you.

Help yourself with subtle questions to identify in which situations she feels most comfortable. Find out about her tastes: if she is a fan of art, sports, outdoor spaces or, on the contrary, if she likes movies or simply staying at home to watch series or read. All this information will be useful.

During the date, avoid being loud in front of other people or in public. Typical self-destructive tendency that ruins all the effort and time of conquest.

Once he trusts you and opens up to you, take advantage and mark the moment. Play psychiatrist and listen to her carefully. Only interrupt for short questions. The doors will be opening and you don’t want to get in the way.

The relationship with your shy girl is just beginning. It will be complicated, it will require effort from both parties, understanding and patience, but satisfactory when it has been consolidated. Don’t skip any steps and give it time.

3. What you must remember is that you will never stop being an introvert

She might have features that surprise you, but she will still be shy. Be careful not to forget, because a mistake will make you lose many points and her trust; If it is lost it will hardly recover.

Learn to differentiate between an introverted girl (due to social, family problems or psychological disorders) from a shy girl. They are different cases.

Be kind, friendly, attentive, funny, thoughtful, affectionate, but not a father to her; Nor is it a nuisance that he always wants to be by her side. Your place is in the middle of both extremes.

4.- Always be a gentleman

Shy women lose interest when they are seduced with drinks or parties where alcohol is the protagonist.

Be a gentleman in all aspects. Seduce her with your intellect, talking to her about how the world works, your ideas about life, the things you would like to change and how you would do it. In this case, the wallet will not kill the hunk.

Don’t be direct on the first, second or even third date. Don’t tell him face to face that you like him yet, rather let your actions speak for you. Saying it on the first outing may be inappropriate for her and counterproductive for you.

Don’t talk about dating yet. Be friends with her until she shows signs that the relationship has leveled up. It will happen without literally telling you. Be patient and, while that happens, enjoy all the moments with her.

Don’t pressure her or reproach her for her shyness. If you don’t speak on the date, it doesn’t matter; It’s not because he doesn’t want to, maybe he still doesn’t know what to say.

Remember, laughter is our key to success in conquering any girl, shy or not. You don’t have to be a comedian, just know how to use the words and situations of the day to make her laugh.

Share moments of laughter with her, as they are the ones that stay in your memory the most because of the good feelings they provoke.

Go to the movies to see a comedy, buy her a bouquet of flowers but don’t give it to her in public. Send it to his house. Instead of the typical little note, leave a nice, short joke on the card.

You already know how to act. Let’s go for it!

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