What does it mean when a woman touches your hair? – Methods to flirt

Have you noticed a girl playing with your hair lately and you don’t understand why? Here we will explain what it means when a woman touches your hair and we will give you some tips to identify the reasons through her body language.

1. He’s doing your hair

Let’s start with the most obvious. Have you left the house without even looking in the mirror? Is there a lot of wind and your hair is dancing everywhere? Let’s be honest: Maybe he’s just doing you a favor by trying to make you look good by running his hands through your hair.

Stand in front of a mirror before seeing her and make sure your hair is combed. Also, carry a comb with you in case it is windy.

How do you know if this is the cause?

The way she does it is like a mother doing her child’s hair: she doesn’t focus on looking at your face, but on the task of tidying your hair and making you look put together for the world.

Observe where his gaze is directed and the movement of his hands in your hair: if it is a quick movement, but ensuring that each strand of hair is in the same direction, we assure you that he is just grooming you.

If the movement is slow, it may be a gesture of affection or that he is attracted to you.

2. She is nice

It is common for a girl to make these types of gestures all the time and it doesn’t necessarily have to mean something.

Pay attention to how you interact with other people (friends, family, acquaintances…); You will surely notice that she is almost always touching someone’s hair (playing with a friend’s hair or fixing a boy’s hair).

If you feel that when he touches your hair he does it differently than the rest, perhaps it is because he is trying to flirt with you, but… how do you know? Observe his body language and if you notice any of the following characteristics, then he’s not doing it just to be friendly:

Try to make eye contact when he has your hair in his hands. Make slow, delicate movements when touching your hair, as if to lengthen the moment. He may blush a little.

3. He’s casually flirting

This is what surely comes to mind when a woman frequently touches your hair, but… how do you differentiate when she is just being nice to you and when she wants to flirt with you?

Although there are many aspects that differentiate it, the main one is that it only does it with you. It is important to clarify that if he tries to flirt with you, it does not necessarily mean that he likes you and wants to establish a formal relationship with you.

What other signs give away that she is flirting with you?

To detect if he is trying to flirt with you, you must observe multiple signs of attraction and be sure of it. Here we leave you some of the most common and easy to detect:

Seek to make eye contact with you. Physical contact is usually prolonged. Whether touching your hair, your back, your arms…He reduces his personal space to the maximum to be close to you; while with other people he maintains a safe distance. He laughs if you laugh. He considers all your jokes funny. He seeks to touch your feet with his. He tries to groom himself every time he sees you: he runs his hands through his hair, adjusts his clothes, touches up his makeup…

4. He likes you

This is another of the most common causes and the way to differentiate it from a casual flirtation—or just a gesture of kindness—is the time she seeks to spend with you: the longer the time, the greater the interest she feels in you as a romantic partner. .

If, furthermore, she can spend hours touching your hair and making eye contact with you without saying a single word, then you can be sure that she is in love with you. Although she doesn’t dare to tell you in words, her behavior gives her away.

5. He is showing you affection

If it is a family member or a person who has seen you grow up, it is likely that they do it to show you that they love you. How to identify it? Because of the way he touches your hair: he does it as if caressing you, running his fingers through your hair.

It is also possible that lifelong friends or your partner do it. Contact is not usually frequent and does not last long.

How do you know if it’s just a show of affection?

He does not seek to make eye contact with you. He runs his hand over your hair as if playing or to fix it. He maintains a neutral body posture. Usually, you will be able to notice a smile on his face.

6. He likes how shine your hair

If your hair is shiny and soft, she probably touches your hair because she loves the way it looks and feels.

This cause is one of the most common and easiest to detect, since before touching it for the first time, he will compliment you on how much he likes your hair. He might ask you how you keep it so bright, for example.

You will also notice how he enjoys running his fingers through your hair and his visual fixation will be on the activity he is doing and not on you per se.

7. He wants to show that he has control in the relationship

Have you noticed that she is dominant and likes to be in control of everything? Perhaps this gesture is done to make you feel that she has you “at her command.”

What other signs to look for to verify this?

It is important that you observe other signs to be completely sure that she is doing this to show herself as the dominant one in the relationship:

He touches your hair firmly while telling you what to do. He aggressively invades your personal space. He can even make you feel intimidated. He interrupts any conversation you have. His facial expression is generally tense: clenched jaw and lips, frown, open eyes, staring… He does not respect other people’s belongings: he places his hands and feet on objects that are not his. His voice is firm and unfriendly when speaking. He maintains an upright posture at all times.

8. She is bored

Just as he gets bored and touches his hair, he is likely to do the same with yours if he trusts you.

To confirm that this is the cause, you don’t need to look at his body language but at the way he touches your hair: with subtle movements, he grabs a strand and plays with it.

He may roll it around himself or just play with it between his fingers.

By nature, women are affectionate and expressive about our feelings. So if he has suddenly started touching your hair frequently or in certain situations, you may be confused about the meaning of his behavior.

But do not worry! To differentiate the reason why he does it is not as difficult as it seems. Here we will describe the most common ones, some details in their body language and the context in which they do it, to help you identify the reason.

Women aren’t as confusing when it comes to knowing what drives them to act in certain ways. If it confuses you, it’s probably because you don’t know her or the people in her life well enough.

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