The Tower: Tarot card calls for changes in love

One of the most frequent themes of a Tarot reading is love.. This is an indisputable fact, given the need to know what the arcana reveal about personal contact, about sex and about the continuity of a romance, for example. It is part of human nature and a characteristic of our society: affection affects us.

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When a relationship is going great and suddenly, for some reason, everything goes wrong? This being the initial reason why most seek a tarot reader, it is almost obvious when the card called The Tower appears: affective neglect in sight.

The Tower shows lightning causing a very tall building to explode. The destruction throws two people out, almost approaching the ground. This ancient Tarot image represents sudden changes, the strong shake of reality and the end of comfort for the people involved in the catastrophe.

How far do you think love can go?

Love is the most neglected field of life. Believe it! A lack of emotional coherence causes us to project onto others what we want to see, hear, or even have. As if the person were a kind of robot that should reproduce our desires.

When an arcane like The Tower refers to the situation of a relationship, a systematic reassessment of the emotional posture of the person in question is necessary. Generally, the arcane indicates that one of the two people involved does not pay attention to the structures of coexistence, the solidity of intimacy and trust.

In fact, a common mistake is to believe that the relationship, in a few days, is already established as an indissoluble and eternally pleasurable involvement. The reality of love is not that. Love is commitment and also creativity.

A daily challenge to measure your mood, your patience, your dedication and your own desires is to exercise your affection with questions like:

• “Would I be that person I love so much?”
• “How can I do my best right now?”

Adopting a less authoritarian posture and putting aside all expectations can be a new affective path to be followed.

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The big chance to renew your love

In the context of love, therefore, The Tower is a sign that devastating storms are to come, but not just to cause irreparable damage. On the contrary, this arcane suggests the need to purify your attitudes and also your opinions regarding love.

When there’s nothing left but the ruins – and what lingers are arguments or a probable emotional distance – it’s time to “clear the ground”.

Renewing your relationship is entirely possible and must start with you. Leaving hurts and wounds behind is the same as cleaning your heart and approaching in an open way to dialogue and problem solving.

The more you are willing to change your affective behavior after so many shocks and scares, the faster you recognize the true meaning of love in your life and how necessary it is for your well-being.

After emotional disasters, accepting the pain and especially accepting the cure by making yourself available to recognize your mistakes, you end up reinventing your way of experiencing affection with those you love so much.

The power to bring the loved one back is in the sincere recognition that the relationship collapses when there is no firmness and balance in the way it has been built.

The Tower is therefore the best sign that devastating storms are approaching to make you see better what you are doing with your own heart. Listen more and talk less.

There is no need to defend yourself when all seems lost. Just admit how much you make mistakes and show how much you really love.

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Leo Chioda (l.chioda@personare.com.br)

– Leo Chioda is a writer and one of the main tarologists working in Brazil. Graduated in Letters from UNESP, he is currently developing a thesis on poetry and alchemy at USP. He has subscribed to the Café Tarot blog and social networks since 2006, where he publishes associations between the arcana and popular culture, literature, music and cinema.