Step by step: How to masturbate with your fingers

Masturbation is something very natural, but as women, it can be foreign to us due to certain prejudices and stigmas that must disappear now.

If you find yourself wondering how it’s done, don’t worry, it’s never too late to learn, especially about female masturbation.

Here we tell you step by step how to masturbate with your hands.

How to start?

First, find the time and place to do it. Masturbating is something very intimate and private, you don’t need someone to interrupt you.

And then now, to touch it has been said?

Not necessarily. If you need visual support, get it (i.e. look at photos, use your memories, read something erotic, or whatever you prefer).

Many sexologists believe that the largest sexual organ we have, then, use what you see fit to eroticize yourself.

I lay?

If you’re comfortable like that, go for it, but you can also raise your legs as high as possible (we’re talking knees over your shoulders) to help you reach the inner parts of the clitoris.

Lying face down is also a good position and many girls like it this way, although it can be more difficult to access the clitoris.

How do I touch myself?

The most common and easiest way is to use your index and middle fingers. If you are not naturally lubricated, or if you wish, feel free to use lubricant.

To begin, slide a finger between your vaginal lips, explore and recognize your vulva.

If you don’t know where your clitoris is, it is located at the top of your vulva, it is like a small button and its only function is to give you pleasure. Spend your fingers exploring your vulva: when you feel a small lump that gives you a different sensation than the rest, there is your clitoris.

Then, if you are going to use it, put a little lubricant on the tips of your middle and index fingers; Slide them back and forth, together, from the vaginal opening to the clitoris.

Play with your clitoris a lot with circular movements, explore movements and let yourself be carried away by what feels best.

When you’re ready, try inserting one finger at a time and then slide a couple into your vagina, curving them slightly. Slide them in and out as you please.

Many women don’t need penetration when they masturbate, but if you want to try it, try moving your fingers in and out of yourself slowly (or quickly if you prefer) while continuing to play with your clitoris.

Continue as long as you want, masturbation is about you discovering what you like and how you like it.