These are the caresses of a man who is NOT in love with you

Really he is in love from my? Are for love the caresses? Don’t worry, we’ve all asked ourselves these questions.

And it is logical because sometimes we can confuse gestures of chivalry with love. Or, even worse, we sometimes confuse gestures of lust with love.

If you are dating someone and you have doubts about their feelings, pay attention to their caresses, because they are the key to knowing whether or not they are in love with you. And no, we don’t say it, but an expert says it.

There is a theory called Economy of caressesdeveloped by the psychologist Claude Steiner which basically states that human beings need “external caresses” to complete our development both personally and in any relationship.

Steiner was born in Paris, but his family moved with him to Mexico in his childhood. He later moved to the United States where he had a brilliant career, which made him a famous psychologist.

For Steiner, a caress not only has to do with touch, but also with looks, smiles, messages and affectionate gestures. And from his perspective, most humans live in a state of caress deficit.

That said, with this it is relatively easy to realize a person’s feelings towards you.

Some signs that he does NOT love you are:

1. Petting only when you want to be intimate.
2. He talks to you “nicely” or says nice things about you, when he wants something in return.
3. He takes you by the hand, not to make you feel protected or accompanied, but rather pulling you along.
4. Find a way to “compliment” yourself first before mentioning something you consider a flaw.
5. He treats you roughly, disguising it as play or making you feel like an object.

Now that you know, don’t confuse kind gestures with real affection. And, even more importantly, accept that caresses are necessary, both giving them and receiving them. Try it with your loved ones and you will see progress in your well-being sooner than you imagine.