Sometimes it’s necessary to be alone with yourself

Sometimes it’s okay if you don’t have all the answers and want to look for them yourself. It’s okay if you don’t want anyone to disturb your silence.

It’s okay if you want to take a different road and get lost on your own, rather than asking for directions to a place you don’t want to go. Sometimes you just have to be alone when people suck more than they inspire you. When they judge you more than they understand you. When they make you feel even more alone.

Sometimes it’s okay if you’ve been alone for a long time and still want to be alone, because you’ve never been the kind of person who looks for quality in excess or the kind of person who needs someone around. You’ve always looked for intensity, honesty, compassion and strength.

You’ve always looked for people who don’t show up very often. You’ve always been attracted to people who aren’t your everyday cup of tea. You’ve always been moved by people you only meet once in your life and that’s why you keep finding yourself alone, because those aren’t the people who are going to ease the way for you, because they’re also on a journey to find themselves. and on a mission to change the world.

Sometimes there’s nothing wrong with facing your own fears and learning everything about yourself, including the hard things, the things you’re not proud of, the unpleasant truths you hide from everyone. Sometimes you need to face and forgive yourself. You need to look in the mirror and say that even if you’re not perfect, you’ll still love and accept yourself, because that’s who you are and that’s that.

Sometimes you will have to break your own heart when you realize you’ve had enough and cared more and loved unconditionally and gave your heart to people who didn’t deserve it and now it’s time to find yourself again. Now it’s time to take the pieces back, polish and start from scratch. Now it’s time to remember who you were before you invested every bit of it in someone else and lost your value.

Sometimes it’s good to let yourself be who you really want to be, and for that you need to get away from everyone who’s asking you to be someone you’re not, and everyone who’s telling you what to say or what to do and all who don’t know what you’re going through, but give you advice you didn’t ask for.

Sometimes you need to be alone to meet God and listen to him, ask for guidance, help, ask for forgiveness and more love. Sometimes you need to be alone and keep looking for meaning while searching for answers within yourself. Only then will you surely find them.

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