Let go of the fear of loving |

Do you know people afraid to love? After going through painful relationships that had bad endings, some people close themselves off from new love and try to make a great isolation within themselves. Others think that getting into a relationship is a lot of work, it brings more hassle than good times. In these two examples, notice that such people harbor thoughts contrary to the attraction of new loves. Fear keeps them away from the possibility of being successful in their affective life.

In order to live new relationships, we first need to understand the process of the previous relationship not as something that went wrong, but rather that it worked in the period that worked, in which there was a good rapport. We create fears of loving when what we really have is fear of failing again. That’s why what we need is to change our attitudes towards relationships and say yes to a new possibility of loving.

If you consider yourself a person afraid to love, reflect:

Do you say no to love as a way of punishing yourself? Are you hiding from the world behind routines that keep you from getting in touch with new and interesting people? How much time has passed between your previous relationship and your current moment? See within yourself if it’s time to change your attitude and go in search of an interesting person who loves you.

Review your concepts of love, passion and enjoyment. Maybe what you need right now is a very different relationship than you’ve experienced before. If you feel this, don’t repress these urges, live what makes you happy with intensity. Feel entitled to choose what you want for yourself!

If you feel it’s time for you to open the doors of your life for someone else to enter, here are my tips:

First, find out why you closed yourself off. Try to free yourself from those thoughts and attitudes that closed your life for a while to a new person. Try changing up your routine a bit by going to different places or doing some kind of physical activity. Give yourself chances to love people who deviate a little from the profile you’ve always been attracted to. Relax your mind regarding this matter. Let the energy flow and believe that by having positive thoughts and attitudes about your goal, you are automatically attracting what you want closer to you.