How to send messages to the man I like – 9 steps

To start give the matter timedo not take the first step immediately, because if he has given you the number that same night and when you get home you are already sending him a loving good night message, whether you want it or not, the signal you are sending is that you are desperate for a relationshipand that scares most men.

You may like it, but take it easy and wait a few days at least.

If you decide to take the first step of sending the message do it with confidence. Greet him and avoid phrases like “do you remember me?” or “we met the other night…” A simple hello, how are you, is enough to start the conversation.

Avoid above all messages that are too long or complex, that is, don’t get confused! “This morning going to work I saw a red car and I thought about you because you told me that you had a red car, so I told myself I’m going to write to him and see how he is, how has your week been?” NOOO!, nothing better than naturalness, a short greeting message to start the conversation.

If after sending two messages he doesn’t respond to you, Don’t continue insisting any more. Just because you’ve exchanged numbers doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll meet again, and the last thing you can allow yourself to do is look desperate or a stalker.

Maybe he doesn’t respond to you at that moment because he is busy, but if he is interested really will do it, have no doubt about it.

Don’t get anxious waiting for one immediate response, because the only thing you will achieve is destroy your nerves. Send the message and leave the cell phone to continue with your activities, again if he is interested he will respond.

If he makes contact with you, do not respond quickly and desperately either, think what you will say and take your time to answer calmly.

Nothing of compromising messages or phrases with feelings that it is still too early to express. “The other night I had the time with you like never before with someone I had just met,” these types of sentences will most likely make the other person feel surprised and in some cases scared. Go calmly, because being so honest won’t get him to notice you more.

If he cuts off the conversation, don’t insist any more and wait for him to write again. It is also good that from time to time you are the one to cut the thread of messages, this will subtly demonstrate that you are interested but that you have occupations and a life, a sign that is always positive because it indicates that you don’t get obsessed or hooked easily with the people.

If you have something important to say, such as rescheduling an appointment, canceling it, or addressing any other more serious topic, it’s best to call and not use messages.

And if you have finally followed all this advice, you have written to him a couple of times and he still does not respond to you, the message is clear: he is not interested in youso do not suffer or let your ego get hurt, continue with your life normally and without the issue overwhelming you too much.

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