How to meet girls on Instagram: proven method –

When you think about looking for online dates, surely the first thing that comes to mind is Tinder, the popular dating and dating app. And yes, it is a very useful tool, but it is not the only one you can use to find dates.

Although Instagram was not initially designed to be a flirting tool, with a little originality and a few tricks, you can use it to get even better results than on Tinder.

What do I need to meet and attract girls on Instagram?

Anyone can do it, but it will definitely help you a lot to have an album with lots of photos, updated and interesting, and have as many followers as possible.

The more popular you are on Instagram, the easier it will be to attract any girl you like. And even more so if their interests are related to what you publish.

Step-by-step guide to meeting girls on Instagram

1. Determine the type of person you want to attract

There are thousands of types of girls with Instagram accounts. For your strategy to work well, instead of trying to attract as many as you can at once, it is best to focus on attracting the attention of women with the profile you want.

You must then define what qualities you expect to find in a woman. To give an example, perhaps you are looking for girls between 20 and 30 years old, lovers of animals and outdoor excursions. Or rock concerts. Or maybe they have a fitness lifestyle.

It is very useful that you make a list with these characteristics, because it will help you define what type of places they visit and thus it is easier to start searching for them, because you can start from the public sites that respond to their interests.

2. Use Instagram location tags or GeoTags

Have you noticed how lately social networks almost always give you the option to add a tag with your location when you upload content?

Well, Instagram is no exception. More and more users of this platform accompany their photos with information about where they were taken. This is an invaluable opportunity that not even Tinder’s premium plans offer you.

Let’s take as an example that you are looking for women who are interested in nature, and that you know of a nearby ecotourism adventure sports park. In the option that has the magnifying glass and that allows you to search for users or content, you are going to write the name of that park.

The official account will surely appear, but, if you look closely, the option to search for photos tagged with that location will appear just below. You can also select the option in the search to filter results by nearby locations. This is especially useful for more generic searches, such as universities or gyms.

Now, open the location that interests you and start searching until one or more profiles appear that catch your attention.

Consider that you only have real hookup opportunities with about 10% or 20% of these women, because some have boyfriends, others barely check their Instagram, and let’s face it! some are not interested in flirting with you.

However, a 10% or 20% chance is still an excellent and very optimistic figure.

Remember that Instagram detects if you suddenly start sending mass messages to a certain population, and can banespecially if you do not have a very relevant profile, because it may consider you spam.

So the recommendation is that you do not exceed ten messages per hour. Either way, this is a sufficient figure to start with.

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3. Make a strategic first contact

That you already have an excellent dating prospect in the scroll It does not mean that you are going to send him a message right off the bat, without preparation.

Remember that when an Instagram user whom we don’t follow sends us a message, it appears in the “message requests” folder, and many girls, especially the pretty ones, are already used to ignoring it.

So the key is to get him to follow you. To do this, the first step is to give like to two or three of his photos (choose those that show his interests, over those that show his attributes), and make sure you have a profile photo and username that catches his attention.

The more in line your content is with their interests, the more likely they are to start following you, and then yes, you now have a clear path of messages.

4. Send him a message that piques his curiosity

Nothing about “how pretty you are” or a common “hello beautiful, how are you?” Trust us, that’s not going to give you extra points or motivate her to find out who the hell you are; quite the opposite.

What you have to do is send him a message that makes it clear that:

What they publish caught your attention. They have common interests. You are interested in their opinion or point of view on a topic.

For example:

Hello Ana!

I really liked the photo you posted in the deer park, I go there frequently and I think it is beautiful. The panoramic view of the photo caught my attention. Did you use a wide angle? I see that you like photography like me, but you do it much better than me.

Do you have any tips to make my shots look this good? Greetings!

This strategy is in-fa-li-ble.

Because? Because at the same time you flatter her, pique her curiosity and awaken her desire to help you with something that she masters and – according to her – you don’t. Most likely, Enchanted with Life will give you all the advice you are asking for.

5. Ask her out

Now is the time to thank you for your help. How about you buy her a coffee? It is a direct invitation, but not so suggestive or aggressive. For example you can send a message of this type:

You: Hello lucero! I was looking for some photos of Puerto Ángel because I will visit that place next week, and your shots caught my attention, they are very beautiful; It seems that you know the place well. Is there a particular place, cafe or restaurant that you recommend I visit? I ask you because it is the first time I go. Thank you very much for your help!

She: Hi Sebastian! Yes, Puerto Ángel is beautiful, I live here. You can’t miss visiting restaurant X or cafe X, and on corner

You: Wow! Thank you very much for your help. I owe you a coffee (or a churro, hehehe). I’ll be there between such and such a day, would you like to act as a tourist guide for this poor soul for a while?

Without a doubt, the best tone you can use is a casual one. As if the proposal had occurred to you at the moment, making it seem spontaneous.

Remember that before making a proposal, it is important that you have thoroughly analyzed the girl’s profile and publications so that you know as much as possible about her and her interests. The idea is that they have something to talk about when they meet.

6. Get his number

The moment she agrees to go out with you, even if she is vague and non-specific, ask her for her phone number. It is important so that they can pass their communication to WhatsAppwhich is more fluid.

When he gives it to you, don’t go straight to sending him a message. Thank her and allow at least 24 hours to pass before greeting her. Remember to stay away from direct flirting expressions, such as “pretty”, “pretty”, “beautiful”. It’s not yet the time to use them if you don’t want to come across as just another guy who just wants to pick her up.

When you send him the first message by WhatsAppsimply say “Hi, I’m X, from Instagram, this is my what’s. Greetings”. Remember, keep things casual and lighthearted.

7. Post something that catches your attention on Instagram

Now that you have two lines of communication open with her, you need to get genuine interest on her part. Luckily, you have already reviewed her profile and now you can know that she is fascinated by cats, that she studies psychology and that she is a Real Madrid fan.

You have plenty of opportunities to upload a photo hugging your cousin’s cat, a famous quote from a famous psychologist or with your friend’s Real Madrid shirt on.

When they see that content (remember that they are now following you) it is very likely that they will comment on the photo, or at least like it. From that moment on, you can send them messages to make the appointment, like this:

Hello gorgeous! I see you also love cats, hehe. We’re scheduled for Friday, right? Is seven o’clock good for you?

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8. Grow their interest

Now, all you have to do is wait for the date of the appointment to arrive, but you must also focus your efforts on increasing the expectation and their positive predisposition towards you.

You do this by adding posts that you know they might like. But don’t fall for the obvious. Also upload content that shows that you have an interesting life.

Don’t forget to respond to all comments from other followers or friends. This way you let her see that she is not the only one who is interested in you, and you add many points, along the way. Also remember that the most important thing is that you be yourself, and that things are natural.

As you can see, meeting girls on Instagram is easy. It has many advantages over contact platforms like Tinder, as it allows you a more strategic approach, gives you a greater number of women to access and greatly increases your chances of a successful hookup.

If you don’t have an Instagram account, or have forgotten about it, try to reactivate it with frequent and interesting posts for at least a month before making your first attempts.

If not, the lack of publications can cause distrust and cause you to miss out on many valuable opportunities.

What did you think of these tricks? Tell us in the comments what strategies you use to flirt on Instagram!

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