How to leave a man wanting you

When a man wants you, that is, he likes you a lot and wants to spend all his time with you, it shows in the following:

He calls or writes you daily: This is one of the easiest ways to know if someone cares about us. When someone is interested in us, they look for a way to be in constant contact with us. Therefore, if he always says good morning, good night, asks you how you are and what you are doing (in other words, if you are talking all day), he really cares about you.If he tells you to meet frequently: Friendship and couple relationships are sustained not only by talking, but above all by seeing each other. Physical contact is important to keep the flame burning. What’s more, if the other person is usually very busy, but despite this, they always find time to see you, it means they care about you, a lot.If you have details with you: The details are also very, very important. If a man usually brings you gifts, either because he remembered you when he visited a place, or because he remembers when you had your first kiss or when you met, it is a clear indication that he constantly thinks about you and loves you.If he hugs you and kisses you with passion: Now let’s go to the sexual sphere. How to know if a man wants you a lot? Clearly the answer lies in the way he acts. Desire is seen in passion, so if he hugs you and kisses you intensely, as well as if he cannot remove his body or his hands from you, it means that he wants you madly.

However, it must be remembered that each person is different, and that a shy man will not act in the same way as a more extroverted one. So we remind you to always pay attention to the details: how he looks at you, if he blushes when you are together, if his eyes widen when he sees you in a pretty dress, etc.

You may also be interested in this other article on How to know if he likes me.

Normally, after a first date we wonder if he liked us, if he will want to see us again or if, on the contrary, love has not emerged. It’s important to put attention on there are things that cannot be forcedso if you’re not their type of girl or guy, unfortunately, there’s not much to do.

Many things intermingle in love: tastes, chemistry, self-esteem, past experiences… so, no matter how much we try to like him, it is not always in our power to make it so. The best is that show yourself as you are and, if he likes you, believe us: he will want to see you again.

A man, like a woman, cannot stop thinking about someone due, many times, to reasons such as those we will see below, so we recommend that when you are with him you try to leave a mark on him in these ways:

Make him feel admiration for you: Admiration is one of the most powerful factors when it comes to making someone fall in love with you. Many platonic loves are, in fact, pure admiration for someone. So, if you want him to not stop thinking about you and look for you, the best thing is that you show him without hesitation your way of acting and thinking, because the truth is that when someone has their own personality and shows it without fear, no not only falls in love, but sometimes provokes admiration, since not everyone is capable of showing themselves as they are without fear of what others will say or what others may think.be interesting: people who have a passion for something, be it music, painting, writing or reading, among others, awaken a real passion and curiosity in others, since they can teach them a world that the other does not know. Or even if you both share the same passion, that may seem interesting too, since you can discuss things that would be impossible with other people.Be somewhat independent: Independence, although it seems fascinating, captivates others. What’s more, when we are in love with someone, the fact that someone is independent and okay with themselves is especially attractive. When, on the other hand, someone is very sad and constantly needs attention from others, this can have the opposite effect.

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If what you are looking for is for him to become addicted to you, we advise you to do the following:

be sensual: Sensuality is one of the strongest points when it comes to making a man addicted to you. And we don’t mean being sensual only in bed, but also in our movements and in our way of speaking. This is pure and simple flirtation. Coquetry well used can be like a sweet candy that you’re dying to try but can’t.Play tug of war: and when we say this, we don’t mean playing with that person’s feelings, but rather keeping an eye on him and showing him our affection, but also reserving space for ourselves. This is a factor that creates addiction for many people, especially when the affection shown is also loaded with passion. This way, when you are dedicating yourself to yourself, he will probably miss you and want you to give him your full attention again.Meet and talk to other people: and let him know it. By doing this, he will realize that he is not your priority and/or that you do not need him, which will make him try to be your priority and make you pay more attention to him.

However, we remember at unCOMO that we must try not to hurt or play with the feelings of others. It is not ethical or pleasant for the other person.

Each person is different, so each person’s reactions will also be different. If we talk about leaving a man wanting to have sexual relations with you or wanting to stay by your side longer, the following could happen:

that I look for you desperately: that is, he is anxious and crazy about you and seeks by all means to conquer you and, in some way, “catch” you too. make him feel bad: If the boy is sensitive, he may think that he is doing something wrong with you and that, ultimately, it is his fault that your relationship is not going any further. If this is the case, try to smooth things over with him, because you could end up hurting him.That he has no interest in you: There is also the possibility that he has no interest in you and simply does not react to your flirting, or that he does so in a polite way so as not to hurt your feelings.May I only look for you out of interest: It could also be the case that he realizes that you are trying to win him over and that he pretends not to notice because he is only interested in having a carnal relationship with you.That he doesn’t want to know anything more about you: There is always the possibility that a man will end up getting tired of the tug-of-war and prefer not to continue in that situation. That wouldn’t mean that he doesn’t like you, on the contrary, he may feel a real interest in you, but if he feels that you are playing with him, he might prefer to end the relationship so as not to get hurt. If the latter is the case, we recommend that you stop trying to conquer him as you have been doing until now and leave him some space so that he can think clearly about what he wants to do with your relationship.

These could be some consequences of leaving a man wanting. Some, as we see, are more positive than others. He always thinks how far you are willing to go to get his attention and, above all, try not to hurt feelings of the other person.

However, at oneCOMO we are forced to ask you, why do you want to leave a man wanting you? Although at first the answer seems very obvious, we want to remind you that it may be for one of these reasons:

Low self-esteem: Self-esteem is very important and will be throughout our lives. In fact, it can influence us not only in our relationships, but also in our friendships, in our work, and even in our children. Sometimes we look for tricks to make a man like us simply because we think that we are not valid enough to make him like us. Remember that attraction happens naturally and that, when there is love, it is not necessary to force things so that the man does not lose interest in you.Insecurities: Another possibility is that, for one reason or another, you are a very insecure person. This, although it may seem the opposite, is something different from low self-esteem. Insecurity can arise for multiple reasons, among others for not valuing oneself enough, the truth is that some people are safer than others by nature. If you have a problem of insecurity, it is advisable that you try to work on this situation. To do this, this other article on How to be a confident and determined person may help you.Fear of being alone: There is also the possibility that what is really happening to you is that you are afraid of being alone. For centuries, society has placed special emphasis on finding a partner no matter what the cost, especially if we are women. This very untrue message has marked our lifestyle and our thinking so much that we already have it as an absolute truth and, where it is worse, in the unconscious. Remember that it’s okay to be alone. Everything comes with time, and if it doesn’t, nothing happens. Love manifests itself in many ways and, if we stop to think about it, we receive it daily from various people.Need to be accepted: Another possible reason for wanting to leave a man wanting you is because of the need to be accepted. As human beings, we are sociable by nature, so wanting to be accepted is something that should not surprise us. The problem is when that natural desire becomes a need, sometimes even agonizing. When this happens, there is another problem behind it. Do we need to be accepted because we don’t accept ourselves? Do we need to be accepted to feel more secure? These are some of the possible questions you could ask yourself.emotional traumas: by…