How to get a man excited

In general, men have sex more than women, for physiological and cultural reasons. Testosterone, the hormone responsible for desire (in both sexes) is present in their bodies at higher levels. In addition, male libido is more stable, while ours fluctuates thanks to hormonal fluctuations. But sexologist Ana Canosa warns that generalizations should not be confused with absolute rules. For various reasons, men’s desire can also fall, and today it is very common for women to complain about their partner’s sexual indifference. In the past, that didn’t happen – not because men were more fiery, but because it wasn’t good form for a woman to explain that she liked sex and wanted more.

voyeurs by nature

“Voyeurs by nature, men are aroused simply by seeing women’s underwear or body parts, such as breasts, hips, buttocks. Unlike women, they are capable of wanting sex with a partner because she has a certain attribute, and not for the whole thing”, says Ana Canosa.

quickie power

Men are easily aroused and often use sex as a means of unwinding. And, despite the liberalization of customs, it is as if they are still more allowed than women – both to masturbate and to have sex without commitment. For them, a quick fuck can be very exciting, while the woman takes pleasure in the slow game of seduction and foreplay and tends to value the emotional side. In the female view, slower sex can mean the partner’s attention and interest.

dressed to fuck

If women know that men are visually aroused, it doesn’t hurt to take great care in production. “Most of them are stimulated by what their partner wears before and during sex,” says sexologist Oswaldo Rodrigues Jr. There is no shortage of admirers of lingerie and pieces like garter belts, corsets, revealing panties. What matters is that the woman chooses something that she also likes and feels free to play that way.

feminine touch

Yes, they like to be touched on the penis. (And they love to be praised for their virility). But if you search your partner’s body, you can discover erogenous areas that he may not even know about. It is worth expanding the caresses throughout the genital area and the perineum (between the scrotum and the anus). In addition, the partner can stimulate both by touching him with other parts of her own body, such as the back, breasts and feet, without forgetting the erotic potential of the lips and tongue. Oral sex is welcome, as well as handling the male organ. Oswaldo Rodrigues Jr. remembers that the touch on the penis should not be light, but firm, with movements similar to those of masturbation”.