How to forget the ex? Energetic Divorce Helps Break Loving Ties |

You know that person you broke up with ages ago, but insists on appearing in your thoughts? Or, if you’re in a relationship, have you thought about separating several times, but you don’t sustain that desire and always go back on the decision? It may even be that they have had several attempts at separation, but every now and then you are together again, feeling anguish, sadness and the certainty that that situation was not to live anymore. How to forget the ex or the ex if something is preventing you from breaking free from the other person?

In these cases, there are probably several factors bringing you together and it is important to take a closer look to understand each case. At ThetaHealing, we carefully observe thoughts and speeches, such as:

“Terminations are hard”
“I can regret it”
“I have a bad finger at relationships”
“I won’t find anyone better for me”
“He/she treats me badly, but at least keeps me company”
“I don’t know how to live alone”
“I depend on him/her to survive”
“All the interesting people are engaged.”

ThetaHealing directs looking at feelings

We also look for present feelings, such as guilt. It is common to find cases of people who justify the fact that they are still together so as not to bring suffering to their children, for example. “My son suffered so much the other times we tried to separate”, they say. Regrets may arise: “he should have separated me earlier, when I was younger”.

Thoughts and feelings like these generate energy hooks, which arise when there is an emotional attachment to the other person. When you feel anger, hatred or obsessive love towards someone, an energetic bond can be created between you in varying degrees of depth. If there is a very intense attachment, the separation becomes extremely difficult without something being done on emotional and energetic levels.

We often believe that it takes a long time to undo a love bond. The good news is that it doesn’t have to be this way! Unwanted links can be broken quickly if that’s the person’s choice

When someone comes up with this question in my office or online, the deep work is done to change limiting beliefs to libertarian beliefs such as “I am capable of being happy with another person”, “I deserve a happy relationship”, among others. Changes in feelings are made, teaching the person what it feels like to live without feeling guilty, without feeling angry, to forgive yourself.

In addition to the process of transforming beliefs, energy divorce is carried out. It is a very important technique in which the energy that connects two people is undone, if the person who is being treated so wants. All these processes are carried out in a session in which the therapist uses various ThetaHealing techniques to identify and undo the energetic bond such as intuitive readings, digging (technique) to find the root beliefs, energetic tests, among others.

Energy divorce: towards freedom

As an example of the results of these processes, I share the experience of a client who bought a house with her fiance, but the couple separated before the wedding. The house had been for sale for 5 years and no buyer was interested. She looked for me at that moment.

After 25 days of the service in which we worked on beliefs, feelings and energy divorce, she sent me a message in which she thanked me for the service and said she was very well, because she felt the disconnection with her ex-boyfriend from the bottom of her heart. She also said that the house had been sold. When writing this article, I contacted her asking for permission to comment on the case, she replied yes and updated me on her life:

“I met someone else, I’m dating! I am very grateful for his treatment, it was a watershed for me. That’s what was missing! Today I see how much care and affection I have for my boyfriend, something I didn’t have with my ex. I see that what united me with my ex was the fear of being alone, not liking it. Wow, I just have to thank you, today I’m with a more mature guy, it’s another level of relationship! I am really happy”.

We often believe that it takes a long time to undo a love bond, we are suffering for months, years and even decades with separations and betrayals. The good news is that it doesn’t have to be this way! Unwanted ties can be broken quickly if that’s the person’s choice.. And you, what do you choose?