How to act if he told you that he only sees you as a friend –

It’s certainly not easy to live in the friend zone, especially if you don’t know what to do if he only sees you as a friend. And it’s even worse when you only have eyes for her and your friend doesn’t even notice her.

But don’t worry! You can choose to get out of there! In this article I will give you some tips so that you can take your relationship to the level you long for.

1. Start by telling him the truth if you haven’t already

You can’t hide it forever. At some point you will have to talk to him about your feelings. So I recommend that you take courage and do it, unless you want to suffer forever.

2. Treat her differently than your other conquests

Remember that, as much as you may like her, she is your friend. Don’t treat her like you would any girl, because she’s supposed to be special. In fact, she continues treating her as you have been doing, but with that different touch.

3. Take her on a rare date

If she agrees to go out with you as something more, then go places you both love. After all, being friends they must have shared many things. You just have to agree and enjoy.

4. Give him some space

When you give her the big news, don’t pressure her. Give him some time and space to process the information. She might feel confused at first and she won’t have a definitive answer to give you.

5. Live reality

You can’t fool yourself and wait for her to change her feelings for you. You should always be clear that she could reject you and then you would have to live with that.

6. If you need it, take distance

If in the end she ends up rejecting you, then it’s best to take some distance. You need to cure yourself of that unrequited love and believe me you won’t be able to do it while stuck to her skirt.

But… What to do if he only sees you as a friend?

We never know how we will react when we are sent to the friend zone. In fact, it becomes a little difficult to process when we are rejected like that.

Likewise, it is too complicated to know what to do, when in reality your intentions are to be with this girl in a romantic way.

Believe me, I understand you perfectly and, at this point, after confessing your love and her not reciprocating it, it is best to forget about it and accept it; Maybe over time she will change her mind.

How do I know he only sees me as a friend?

Believe it or not, women give you some signs that you shouldn’t see them differently.

Many times they are even as subtle as a bullet, but a man in love is almost never able to notice, so pay attention to the following:

He introduces you to everyone as his friend. He never seeks to go out alone with you, but rather in a group. He tells you everything about the boy he likes. He doesn’t usually give you too many explanations. He treats you with affection, but never in a flirtatious way.

What does it feel like to be in the friend zone?

I’m not going to lie to you: being a best friend feels terrible. Just hearing her talking about those boys she likes is like an ordeal for us.

The worst thing is that this situation will never get better unless you are really honest.

I know! Many times we prefer to be the best friend than to lose her forever. But the question is how long you can stand being that way.

However, when you give all priority to the fact that she is happy, you will be completely forgetting about yourself.

It’s good not to be selfish, but sometimes you should also think a little about your happiness and what you really want.

Is there a way to get out of the friendzone?

Well yes! You need to start understanding that it is really you who remains just a friend and in order to get out of that hole you need to tell him the truth about your feelings.

Don’t be afraid of losing it! If she really loves you, she will either understand and give you time to process everything you feel or, in any case, she will date you and give herself a chance to be happy.

You must begin to make her see that, despite loving her, you cannot continue sacrificing yourself in that way, because it is not she who hurts you, it is you yourself who is hurt by listening to her and seeing how she is happy with other people while you are not.

I hope these tips have helped you know what to do if he only sees you as a friend, because I know what it’s like to be in that position and let me tell you, you don’t deserve it.

Do not wait more! Be encouraged to be honest with yourself and with others. In any case, you can’t make something worse that is already hurting you badly. It’s time to release what you have inside. Luck!

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