18 ways he shows interest in you and you still don’t notice it –

Did you meet the perfect boy? Are you dying for him but you’re not sure if he’s yours? This situation can put us in trouble because we don’t know whether to take the first step, wait for him to do it, or if you simply don’t have a chance.

These are the 18 ways in which men show you that they like you and maybe you don’t notice it yet:

1. Try to get your attention

From a very young age, men tend to want to get the attention of the girl they like and this can include the most ridiculous methods: joking, telling jokes, doing tricks on a skateboard, trying to show off their sports skills or their physique, etc.

The man interested in you will want to stand out in your eyes. Don’t necessarily expect a romantic gesture or statement. Boys have their own ways of doing it.

2. Establish contact

The most logical thing would be to say that the first contact is the look and yes, to begin with, it is; but in these times the most common contact will be through social networks. It will ask you for your Instagram or Facebook; If you are daring, your phone number to send signals of interest via WhatsApp such as good morning messages or the classic meme.

3. He is especially kind

It’s easy (and inconvenient) to confuse a gesture of kindness with flirting, but let’s be honest: a man interested in you will try to be the nicest one. He will ask you for things “please” and, if you coexist, he will make small gestures such as helping you solve a problem, letting you order first at the restaurant, among others. In general, he will want to like you as much as possible.

4. Take care of your appearance

They also care about their appearance, even more so when there is a girl involved. If you notice that your beau has a new haircut or dresses a little better than normal when you’re around, that’s a sign. Putting on lotion, starting the gym, eating healthy… when there is interest, it shows. Or haven’t you ever applied it on yourself?

5. He wants to be close to you

Whether through messages or in person, a man interested in you will want to be around as much as possible. If there is no interest, excuses come: “I can’t, I’m busy” in response to invitations and other classics of the ghosting.

But a guy who is fully interested in you will ask you out or might show up at the places you frequent. He will want to have you close even if you go with friends. There are thousands of excuses.

6. Shyness can get the better of you

Not all men are extroverts. There are those who become super shy when they are in front of the girl they like and there is nothing wrong with her, but she can be a little frustrating.

If you notice that he avoids your gaze, blushes, or simply seems nervous when he is around you, it could be—believe it or not—a sign that you intimidate him and he doesn’t know what to do.

I have met guys who even walked over me on the street and later I found out that they liked me. Looks are deceiving. If this is your case, be patient.

7. Use your body language

What a man does when he likes you, almost reflexively, is talk to the physical. It is unavoidable. He will improve his posture, making him look more confident; His gestures will be open to show you that he is available; he will smile; He will adjust his hair… All this is a little of what a man does when he likes you.

8. He wants to know about you

An infallible way to know if a man is really interested in you is when he starts probing you.

I’m not talking about annoying stalking or harassment; rather, it is a healthy curiosity to know more things about yourself: your musical tastes, if you have a boyfriend, what you do, what your aspirations are, etc. He will let you talk and listen to you attentively without falling into “yo-yo” to impress you. If he asks you about “what are you doing this weekend,” expect an invitation.

9. He gives you appropriate compliments

Forget about dirty compliments. The man with true and healthy interest in you will express his liking for your physique in an appropriate way and at the right time.

In addition, he will let you know how special you are, complimenting your intelligence, kindness, talent, strength or sense of humor. It will tell you how interesting you are because of that book you read or the series that has you captivated.

10. Interact on networks

It seems like a small thing, but if a man has nothing to hide, he will interact with you on social networks, leaving likes in your photos, comments and even making the occasional post or leaving hints on their Facebook wall, for example.

If you were not available, I would keep your profiles completely private or under focus. Another thing: don’t let it move you from one app to another; that is, from Tinder to Instagram, to say the least. If there is real interest, they will go to cell-to-cell messages; i.e. WhatsApp.

11. He respects you

Yes, even though it sounds like something your grandmother would tell you. The man who has genuine interest will respect you in every way; from your opinions to the decisions you can make in more personal areas. He won’t insult you or pressure you or ridicule you, and he won’t feel uncomfortable with you being yourself.

12. He is honest

He will talk about his feelings and personal life with complete transparency, so he wouldn’t have to tell you that he is in another relationship, for example.

If you want to go slow as friends, perfect; will let you know. The same if you want alone dating or something more serious with you. Even if there is discomfort on the subject, he will say whatever it takes to make things clear and avoid false expectations for both of you.

13. Live with your friends

You will have no problem at least trying to get to know your circle of friends and get along as best as possible with them. If they like you and you gain their trust, they could even help you in the task of winning you over. Know that having your friends as allies is a good ace up your sleeve. You also won’t be bothered if one of your friends goes with you from time to time.

14. He gets happy to see you

What does a man do when he likes you? Smile. It seems very simple, but that is a super obvious sign. If when you are together he seems more radiant, good, or he gives you a tender smile when you approach, bingo! That boy is drooling over you!

Men, in general, want to look serious, imposing, a bit “bad”, but when they like a girl it is inevitable that their sensitivity and joy will emerge.

15. He includes you in his plans

If, for example, there is a concert of a band they like, they will surely say something like “well, see you at the concert, right?” Or he directly proposes an outing or saves a movie ticket for you. Better yet: he invites you to an event that is important to him, like his soccer game or a friend’s birthday.

16. Your intuition says a lot

Don’t doubt your own intuition. Feeling like a man likes you, my dear, is because, yes, he probably likes you. That easy! Be honest with yourself. It’s also not about seeing things where there are none, but if you have that tingling that the taste is mutual, go further and check it out. The vibe doesn’t lie.

17. His friends start talking to you more

When his group of friends or his best friend adds you to social networks or meets you on the street and greets you kindly, it is because your boy has already told them about you and surely with a heart in each eye.

They will take this into account and will want to promote the best encounters between you and, of course, that you pay attention to the man in question. If you make a comment or joke about you as a couple, there will be no doubt.

18. He “mimics” you

It is common that when a man likes you he begins to try to acquire a taste for the same things as you. Let’s say you like yoga. The next time you talk, he might tell you about a documentary he just watched about Hatha Yoga; Same with your musical or literary tastes. Can be anything. He will want you to tell him more so he can share time and opinions with you.

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What does a man say to you when he likes you?

He gives you appropriate compliments and gets to the point with his invitations. In general, he will try to propose and talk to you in an extroverted manner.

Gestures that show that a man likes you

He will smile, he will discreetly fix his hair. If he is a more daring boy, he can use the classic wink, among others.

How to know if a man likes you? Test

Read the entire list we gave you carefully. If you answer yes to at least 8 questions, you will be leaning toward an almost definitive yes. He really likes you. Do you have any more doubts?

Verbal signs that a man likes you

He talks to you and will probably joke to make you laugh and feel more confident with him. He will want to talk to you a lot.

How does a man look at you when he likes you?

With insistence, curiosity. The most common thing is that she looks you up and down, but without making you feel uncomfortable, discreetly, and then she will fix her eyes on your face. She will look you in the eyes.

Is it clear to you how men show that they like you? If not, go over the list we just described once again and don’t hesitate any longer.

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