15 tricks to approach and talk to the boy you like, talk to your CRUSH –

In love life, many suffer from not having many options to have a partner.

And the reason you don’t have many options is because you go out all the time but you DON’T meet new people.

And the reason why you don’t meet new people is that you wait until you have the perfect phrase to say to get to know that person, you sit down and look at the person you want to talk to and you don’t do it because you want to look good.

Think about it this way we are all trying to look good to others, we are all nervous about being vulnerable by going up to someone else that you don’t know and talking to them and making a fool of themselves or doing something embarrassing.

For that reason, people, instead of being open to meeting new people, have that annoying attitude of not having many friends, which is what happens when you go out at night and see those intimidating looks, when in reality most would like to meet more people.

1. If you meet him in a restaurant, ask him to borrow the salt and if he is in a bar, ask him if he can take your photo

Many psychological and sociological studies have shown that men and women fall in love in different ways. While the women do it through what they hear, the boys feel Cupid’s first crush through his gaze. So your main goal is to get him to look at you and be hooked on your feminine appeal.

Information is power and now that you know this, it is time to act. If you meet him in a restaurant, cafeteria or bar, you’re in luck because in those places there are many excuses to encourage him to look at you and he won’t even realize that everything has been planned.

So you take action by asking him to borrow the salt or asking him what he’s drinking.

If you approach his table to ask for salt, it will be inevitable that he will turn to see you as you walk away and that is where you must look very sexy. But yes, don’t forget to remove the salt shaker from your table to avoid suspicion.

In the bar you have everything to win, gather your courage and go to his group to ask if he can take a photo of you with your phone. With a little luck he will ask you to stay with him and may even buy you a drink.

2. Bump into your crush on the way to the bathroom

“Fate is the one who shuffles the cards, but we are the ones who play,” is a very popular phrase from the British writer William Shakespeare. So based on that premise, why don’t you make destiny work a little in your favor. How? Let’s see:

This technique will need your maximum attention because you will have to go to the bathroom at the same time as the boy you like.

When you notice that he leaves the group to take the path to the bathroom, you should do the same but faster to be in the hallway before your crush.

Once you have him very close, bump into him and apologize. After that he will know that you exist and if you pass by him again, while the evening goes on, much better.

He can think two things at that moment:

The first: That destiny is placing you on its path and that is just what you want.

The second: That you are using all your cards to promote an approach and Bingo! You also get all the chips.

From this to starting a conversation there is only one step. So go ahead, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

3. Be a different girl: change roles and send her a drink

Of all the tricks to get closer to your crush, this is one of the ones we like the most because it makes you look daring, self-confident, sexy, modern and it is almost impossible for him to refuse to meet you.

Surely you have already seen in many movies the typical scene where the protagonist sends a drink to the girl with the waiter. Well, it’s exactly the same, but this time it’s you who takes the initiative.

When you receive the drink you must be prepared, because he will look up to look for that woman who dared to break the mold. You will be there to greet him and toast him from the other end of the room. That will make his heart race, it will leave him wanting to meet you!

Some tips for this strategy: You already looked daring and interesting, but you can give it a little more intensity by being enigmatic. How? Send him your phone number written on a napkin along with the drink and the moment he looks up to see you, just say hello, raise your glass and leave the room. We assure you that he will not resist and he will have to call you.

4. Make him smile by making faces

Men love fun girls and you can show him from the start that you have a good attitude towards life, that he will always have a great time with you. This is very easy to achieve, when you are close to him, make faces until you get a smile, your crush will feel intrigued with your personality and will have no choice but to come and meet you.

It will also be very fun if in a few years, when you already have a formal relationship, they will say that you met because you started making faces at them. It will be a good memory and they always smile with this.

5. Go out on the floor to dance alone and while you do it don’t take your eyes off him

What better way to get noticed by the boy you like than by showing how good you are at dancing? With this technique he will be the one who approaches you, but you will be the one who pushes him to do it.

There is something you should not overlook. If you are with your group of friends and you are not indifferent to this boy, it is very possible that he will feel intimidated to approach you. So if you separate yourself from the group, dance alone and also stare at him, you are leaving the option open for him to take control of the situation.

If your crush is still too shy or clueless to pick up on the signals you are sending, you will have no choice but to go to where he is, take him by the hand and ask him to dance.

Don’t be shy! A scientific study showed that people who dance are happier. Yes, just as you hear it. In addition, dancing improves your confidence and reduces anxiety levels, therefore while you are moving your body, you are simultaneously sending positive signals to that boy who melts your heart.

6. What if you pretend you know him but you don’t remember where?

This technique has been used by boys for a long time and you can be sure that, just as it works for them, it will also work for you.

This plan goes like this: Go up and say hello, tell him that his face looks familiar to you and you think you know him from somewhere but you can’t remember where. This will give you the opportunity to continue the conversation, ask him where he works, what university he attends, you can even find out if he is single.

When your crush gains trust and you realize that there is attraction between the two of you, why not confess that you did this to talk to him?

7. Ask a friend to introduce you

If none of the previous techniques suit your personality or you simply do not dare to take the reins so directly, then it is necessary to resort to a plan B by asking a friend to introduce it to you.

Keep in mind that this will only work if you both have a friend in common. The good thing about asking a friend to introduce him to you is that you are on the safe path, you don’t have to make plans, or be nervous because you don’t know what to expect.

In addition, that friend you have in common can also help you by giving you some clues about the things he likes and it will depend on you whether he feels like meeting you again.

8. Ask him who is winning the game or what his team is

Sports bars are more than suitable places to flirt with a guy, these places are the classic of the classics and never go out of style. The reason? Leisure activities and sports promote social contact, so if they are in a sports bar it is your opportunity to promote a rapprochement.

Try asking who is winning the game and show interest in the activity. You’ve probably heard the term “sporty girls”, if not, let us tell you that these are girls who like sports and also practice them.

Being a sporty girl, even at the bar, to catch the man of your dreams is not bad at all.

9. Ask for help with your car

Boys like to feel useful, that they can become a girl’s protector and also to be recognized for the things they do. Since you know this, you have the winning card in your hands. A good way to get closer and make a good impression is to allow him to reinforce his strengths and abilities with you. Take into account the following ideas:

Pretend that your car won’t start or that you have trouble with a tire to ask for help, men love having the power behind the wheel. He will not hesitate to provide you with the necessary help.

If this is too complicated for you then venture into something simpler like asking for an address. Maybe they will even offer to accompany you to prevent you from getting lost.

10. Break barriers using social networks

At this point we are going to stop a little, because it deserves your maximum attention and it is worth understanding very well how social networks are perfect for finding a partner in the era where the internet is everything.

A pair of American sociologists conducted a study on the use of social networks in relationships and what they discovered was surprising: Today approximately 40% of couples in a relationship fell in love through online conversations, while In the last century only 2% of people found love on the Internet.

What happens is that over time, online chats have become an effective means of communication, where both men and women become uninhibited and can assume their own personality without fear of being judged.

If you are a super modern girl and even with everything we have proposed, you are afraid to approach the boy you like, then with this advice there is no way to fail. Using social networks to flirt is a great idea.

So grab your cell phone and send that boy who loved your heart a friend request. Once you are friends online, it is up to you to make him want to meet you and be more than just virtual companions.

Remember that you have only one chance to make a good first impression. So before sending the friend request, make sure you have the best photos on your profile, those where you look irresistible. With social networks you can plan that approach very well.

11. Ask him to tell you the time

It may seem a bit cliché but if you meet your crush without having anything prepared and you don’t want to miss the opportunity to get closer, then go for the reliable question: Could you please tell me what time you have?

Approaching is the hardest, but once you dare to ask, the rest of the conversation will take care of itself. But you have to make sure that you can address a topic where there is feedback because the last thing you want is for both of you to end up in an awkward silence.

But before moving on to the next tip, don’t forget that if you are going to ask your crush the time to approach him, first take the watch off your wrist and hide your cell phone. Otherwise…