17 very simple things to know how to like a man

You must admit that relationships today have changed radically. And whoever says that they have a clear picture will be lying.

It has already happened to you thousands of times when your family and friends tell you:

But if you are such a beautiful, smart and funny girl. You are interesting and independent, how can you be single?

And have you reached the point of stopping looking for the reason because you think there isn’t one?

Or what is worse, have you made the mistake of thinking that love is not for you?

Luckily I have good news, because by applying the tips that I present below you will see that it is a matter of attitude to make any man like you.

They say that the attitude can have a power to seduce comparable to the physical one.

And you shouldn’t even stop being yourself.

So if you are finally alone it will be by your own choice. And because you enjoy your independence and yourself.

Which is wonderful too.

There are a few very simple things you can do to make a man like you.

But first, let me give you some context to prepare the ground.

Remember, men aren’t just after one thing.

Men are much more complex than women think.

Most women think that all they are looking for is sex. But that’s only half the movie.

Men, just like women, have certain expectations and needs that they want to fulfill.

If you are very clear about what they are, you are already halfway there to keep him interested in you, even after sleeping with you.

What are the top 3 things a man needs to feel when he meets someone new?

1) They want to feel needed

Men love to feel important.

They like to know that if they weren’t there you would miss them. And it’s not just about emotional support.

They like to be the ones offering the help too.

It could be putting up a shelf, getting someone to fix your car, or just giving you some advice on applying for a job.

No matter what it is, you will need to show him your own needs and allow him to satisfy them.

So simple that it seems silly that we don’t get it right, right?

Sometimes we are so used to independence that we forget that getting help is a good thing too.

And this applies both for a date and in a relationship.

You can simply tell him: “You who know. What bars are good in the area?”

You will make him feel that he is an expert. That he knows things that you don’t.

2) Take care of his ego

There is nothing worse for a man than a girl who constantly complains about some aspect of his personality.

Men do better with positive reinforcement. Focus on telling him the things that you do value about him.

Give him genuine compliments, I’m sure there are many, you like this guy for a reason.

Again, something very simple but that many women do not apply.

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3) Men seek excitement

And I’m not just talking about emotion in the room.

I mean that spark you feel when you’re with someone special.

That feeling that somehow, if you’re together, it’s easier to find joy in the everyday routine.

To a large extent, this is something you can’t fake, it’s either part of your relationship or it’s not.

But the truth is that you can stimulate that emotion so that he feels it:

You can surprise him after work, Try new things, Be creative when looking for places for the next date.

If they go on an excursion to the mountains, it will remain much more etched in their memory than if they always go to the same bar for a few beers.

How to like a man, 16 top tips that do not fail

I just mentioned the 3 things men want when they meet someone. With that in mind, let’s move on to the 16 things that will make me can’t stop thinking about you.

1) Hold his gaze

Cicero was the first to say that the eyes were the window to the soul.

The Romans did know what they were talking about. Don’t you think?

You may have your best cleavage on, but I assure you that what will catch his attention will be your eyes.

There is something incredibly intimate when we lock eyes with someone.

There are studies that prove that looking someone straight in the eye for a long time will make them feel attracted to you.

Staring at him through people or in a bar is the number one way to draw him into your world.

You just have to look around, and when he looks at you too, hold his gaze a little longer than would be comfortable.

Trust me, you will have been hooked.

And the eye contact doesn’t end there. While you’re talking to him, make sure you’re also holding his gaze and looking deeply into it.

This is a great display of how confident and strong you are.

There is nothing more uncomfortable than being with someone who looks everywhere but at you. It seems like they are looking at the options they have while talking to you.

So, you know, put your attention on the target.

The steady, strong gaze while you talk will make him feel that you find him fascinating. He will feel that at that moment he is the true center of your world.

2) Take advantage of their biology

Did you know that men have a biological drive to feel important and needed?

In recent years, scientists and relationship psychologists have been talking about a new theory called the “Hero Instinct.”

Basically what it explains is that men have a deep desire to protect the woman in their lives.

To offer her something that no other man can to earn her love and respect.

In other words they want to be your hero. And this is within their DNA.

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I know it may sound a bit silly in this day and age where women are more independent than ever. We don’t need anyone to rescue us.

But this has nothing to do with what the hero’s instinct means.

While you probably don’t need a hero, man biologically needs to feel like one.

And the most interesting thing is that it is up to women to activate this instinct in them.

There are phrases you can say, texts you can send, and small requests you can make to make him feel like the hero in your life.

And when this happens, a man is much more likely to commit. to be in a long, passionate and enduring relationship.

Because you will give him something that he needs, more than him. love, and more than sex.

3) Be authentic, smile and have fun

If you want a guy to fall in love with you, then it has to be with you.

It doesn’t make any sense that a guy is desperate to be with you, but that person is actually a false creation to win him over.

Nobody wins in that game. You should maintain an illusion that sooner or later he would realize and end up disappointed.

Rather focus on all those qualities that you possess and show them.

Also, if you are a person who smiles, feels happy and cheerful, it has been proven that it is a very attractive trait for men.

You can generate the habit of taking a moment in the morning, for yourself to appreciate those unique characteristics that you possess and you will see how others begin to notice them too.

Also prepare to show all phases of your personality.

If you hate watching their favorite football team, you should be able to tell them honestly. If you start hiding things that bother you, this will eventually be a problem.

4) If you look good, you feel good and vice versa

We all have those days that we love to be in our pajamas at home, without leaving the couch.

But you must recognize that there is a big difference in how you feel there and when you take the time to dress up and make yourself beautiful.

Change your mood, your allergy and the way you behave.

The truth is that it is noticeable.

So if you want this guy to be interested in you, don’t hesitate to put on your best clothes, your best smile and perfume yourself when you see him.

In addition to looking beautiful, you will convey a charming confidence that he will not be able to miss.

Of course, you will want him to fall in love with you, but there is a reality and that is that the attraction begins with what we see.

And an extra secret: it is proven that the color red increases the attraction of men. Take advantage of this information to wear it on your clothes or on your lips.

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5) Don’t be afraid of arguments

Think of men when they are together. How many times do you argue about something?

There has never been in the history of humanity, a situation where a man affirms something and all the others respond in unison: yes, you are right.

These debates can cover anything from who should be the next president, who is the greatest athlete in history, to whether a shark would beat a polar bear in a fight.

Men love discussions, not about deep life issues, but about movies, sports, and everyday things. Thus they establish hierarchies and find their place in the group.

I’m not saying you should discuss every detail, but there are times to speak your mind and show him that you have a strong point of view.

Men like to be challenged.

Relationships need balance. And he should know from the start that the woman in front of him can hold her own in a discussion on any topic.

6) Communication is not just what you say, practice flirting

Body language is incredibly important when seducing.

In fact, it’s even more important than what you say.

Scientific studies show that when we flirt, 55% is through body language, 38% through the tone and speed of our voice. And only 7% is the message. Yes, you read correctly, 7%

Basically if you handle body language well, you’re halfway there.

Expressing yourself well with your body will let him know you’re interested. It may be a smile, but it implies many more things. How you walk, how you move.

There are some tricks that you can use when talking to a guy. He left you a few:

Lean your body towards him, Stay open, Mirror his movements, Look over your shoulder, Bite your lower lip,
Painted lips will always attract your attention,
Touch her arm gently.

You already have an idea of what I mean.

7) Break the contact barrier

Contact is tremendously important.

I’m not saying give him a bear hug and grope everything. It’s something much more subtle, like touching her shirt and telling her you love the fabric.

Or quickly touch his arm while he is telling something, as if to show him that you agree with him.

In this way, you will create immediate intimacy and establish the idea that you are two people who can touch each other.