When you choose not to express your anger on someone who triggered it, you are being sensible, avoiding various inconveniences or even damage of the most diverse orders.

It doesn’t mean you should swallow it, as this can be harmful to your emotional or even physical health. However, there are several strategies for you to vent this feeling.

You can play sports, write about it, cry, vent to someone, in short, it can be elaborated in a way that does not leave such unpleasant consequences. Anger is a very dense energy that can be channeled into something constructive, I believe. It can indeed be re-signified.

It’s love? Ah, he goes against the grain of anger. Love requires explicitness to have any effect. You can and should externalize it, otherwise it will be of no use at all.

Love kept, stored, is waste.

Is the world so hungry for affection and someone withholding love?

No, you can’t! It’s no use having the best intentions, or a great feeling for something or someone and not showing them, not practicing them. One of the most depressing phrases I’ve ever heard, in the form of an outburst, was:

“I liked her a lot, but I never wanted to show it, I liked it my way”. Wow, how petty this being. She denied someone the experience of feeling loved, one of the richest experiences of this life.

Does showing love cost money? Even if it cost, it would be worth the investment!

Ah, be amazed, in the case of the outburst I heard, the boy had a “love” relationship with a woman, but he was very cold with her. He made a point of acting like that.

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love relationship where love cannot be shown. Do you understand the complexity? Obviously, the relationship came to an endthe partner was malnourished of affection.

The author of the outburst confessed to me that he did not like his partner because he understood that she would be very convinced when she felt loved. He harbors the belief that if someone shows love, he will be humiliated and devalued for it. That insanity of believing that a woman needs to feel insecure about her partner’s feelings.

Almost crying, one of them confessed to me: “I love that woman so much, I would do anything to have her back”.

So I asked him: for what? To continue killing the woman with hunger for affection? Relax, she must already be feasting around, that you intentionally denied, she’ll find plenty and I’m rooting for her.

Ah, reader, you must be finding me a well of insensitivity in the face of the boy’s outburst, right? Calm down, it’s not like that, I wouldn’t act like that if I didn’t have reasons. This young man, several times, made me aware of the rudeness he committed with his girlfriend. I always warned him, I always tried to guide him so that he would rethink the way he behaved in his relationship. it was not lack of Warning. However, he paid to see it and now weeps over spilled milk.

Love that is denied, hidden, disguised or neglected does not bear fruit, it has no effect.

I believe most people have experienced the indescribable feeling of feeling loved. Almost everyone carries, in their trunk of nostalgia, an adolescent love, even if it was not so reciprocal, the target of a demonstrated love will never forget, because love always leaves fingerprints where it touches.

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The one who loved and showed, even if he didn’t have the desired return, has a story to remember and tell. Good love is love shown. Beautiful love is wide-open love.

It is a kind of medicine that cannot be served by the dropper, it is to be served without moderation, anytime, anywhere. There is no risk of overdose or adverse reactions.

Love, while valuable, doesn’t cost money and is multiplied every time you share it.

Please if you like it, demonstrate! The other doesn’t have a crystal ball and love is expressed in attitudes.