16 Clues left by infidels (after reading them you will have no doubts)

There is something that tells you that your partner is cheating on you. But you don’t want to face it without having concrete proof.

Not only would it put a strain on your relationship, but accusing him without evidence would make him a better liar if he is actually cheating on you.

The truth is that people who commit infidelity, no matter how good they are at deception, always leave clues, many even unconscious. And curiously, most of the time it is about the same things or attitudes.

We are not going to judge cheating here, since in each couple, person and situation the context is unique.

But if you want to unmask it for good and find out what you can do about it, keep reading.

16 clues that cheaters leave and what you can do

1) You suddenly have new interests

You’ve always liked rock, and all of a sudden you don’t stop listening to electronic music?

The last time you saw him pick up a book was years ago, but now he’s reading with such enthusiasm that he puts holes in the paper with his eyes.

Never cared about your diet, but now you are watching Youtube videos about healthy eating?

It’s like you’re with a totally different person now!

And it’s even more alarming if this newfound interest is something that gives you excuses to go out all the time. Watching sporting or other events with friends all the time when you were never interested in them before is a huge red flag.

What can you do:

Any sudden change can arouse your suspicions, but keep in mind that people are not static or immutable. It could be that you simply want to try something new for your own pleasure and growth.

It may also be that a friend or something you have seen on the news has opened your eyes to these things that you have been neglecting up until now.

It only carries weight if you also notice other signs of cheating, so make a note of this for now.

2) You suddenly have a renewed concern about your appearance

Throughout their relationship, he was never one to wear much perfume, but suddenly, he now wears it every week.

There are several options if you suddenly notice that your partner is starting to worry about how he looks:

He probably just likes to reinvent himself and be more attractive Maybe he’s experiencing some kind of mid-life crisis Or yes, he’s trying to impress someone…someone other than you

What can you do:

Once again, don’t make a fuss about this, you don’t know for sure what the reason is. But take note when it happens, because it could be a clue to WHEN he’s meeting the other woman if he’s really cheating on you.

3) Now you care about your privacy

You could easily access your mobile and computer before but then suddenly everything is locked. Now they are out of your reach.

It could be a sign that he doesn’t want you to see his messages online.

Unless he’s planning a surprise for you, this sudden change could mean he’s trying to hide something from you.

What can you do:

You don’t want to be a dependent, obsessed girlfriend. You are so much better than that!

DO NOT hack their account or passwords. The most sensible thing in my opinion is always to have an honest and candid talk first. If he still denies it and you know that he betrays you, you can look for other options to expose him.

4) He goes out for strange reasons

You’ve been with this man for a while, so you know his habits.

You can figure out what he does when he goes out and you also generally know what time he goes home.

But things are changing. She says that she will pick up something or some other vague reason and when you ask her for details, she seems to give very vague answers. When you want to dig deeper, she gets defensive and says something like “Can’t I go out anymore?”.

You know him, so you know when there is something out of place in his usual routine.

What can you do:

Be creative and well… a little crafty.

If he says he needs to be somewhere, tell him you’re going with him because you’re also going somewhere nearby (to get groceries or whatever). Watch how he reacts. If he gets a little nervous, maybe he’s doing something he doesn’t want you to know about.

5) He showers when he gets home

A strong clue that cheaters give is when they change their grooming habits.

If every time he arrives he goes straight to the shower almost without greeting you, it is a possible sign of deception. The unfaithful incorporate this habit to eliminate any trace that may have been left of an encounter with another woman.

What can you do:

If you really feel this is happening, you could go through his laundry and see if you find any suspicious traces, like a woman’s perfume or unusual stains.

But I must warn you, becoming a cheating detective is not healthy at all. Your best bet is to assess the overall situation and speak up directly if you really think something is going on.

6) It is not in tune with what you feel

I used to be intuitive with your feelings. When you were feeling a little upset, he would notice. When you were sad, he felt it too.

But lately, he has lost this ability. He can no longer connect with you with the same intensity as before.

Maybe he’s going through something or maybe he’s losing interest in you and is now “in tune” with someone else.

What can you do:

Tell him you’re sorry, you don’t have to tell him directly that you think he’s cheating on you.

Maybe ask him if something is bothering him, tell him that you notice him differently and want to know if he’s okay.

Who knows, maybe it will make you discover something that could erase your suspicions.

If he says it’s okay, just tell him straight up that you miss the old days. Let’s see if things improve.

7) Seems to be somewhere else in your mind all the time

There’s a faraway look in his eyes and a goofy smile on his lips that you just find strange.

It’s scattered. Your body may be there, but your mind is in a completely different place and time. You could swear he’s high on something, and it’s definitely not drugs.

What can you do:

It is better not to jump to conclusions. Maybe he’s not himself lately. It could also be that he has some work or family problem that he has not told you about.

Try asking him what’s wrong, because he might actually be going through something. Or, you know, sometimes men are like that. He maybe he’s comfortable in your relationship and he’s really just thinking about pizza.

8) His friends seem to hide something from you

When you’re with your friends, the air seems strange.

They get a little quiet, a little awkward when you’re around. It’s like your presence isn’t as welcome as it used to be.

They probably know a secret about your boyfriend and they feel a little guilty and just don’t know how to act around you.

The situation is a bit fake and awkward for them now.

What can you do:

There really isn’t much you can do about it except treat them like you always have.

The last thing you want to do is create a scene with your friends. If it turns out that you’re just paranoid, it would be really awkward for everyone afterwards. If you happen to be right, catching them as their accomplices will do you no good.

9) He is more irritable than usual

Even the smallest thing annoys him now. And the worst thing is that he is more irritable with you.

Roll your eyes when you take too long to order your food at a restaurant. Criticizes you for asking certain questions. He gets mad because you use his towel.

These things used to bother him before, but in a cute, loving way.

You may have tested his patience more than once, but you were still a team and you were sure he didn’t really care that much.

But now? It’s like he’s really mad at you all the time and you start to wonder if he really still loves you.

In this article we answer the question. “Can a man he loves cheat? 11 reasons”

What can you do:

Try to think of the moment when he has become most irritable. Was there a big change in him or in the people around him at that time? Did you get into an argument of some kind?

Once again, record all of these signs, but don’t launch accusations just yet. For now, ask him if there’s a problem, and be sure to ask him to understand.

10) You feel detached

You tell him about your bad day at work and he just shrugs and goes about his business. It’s understandable sometimes, right?

After all, there comes a point where we honestly get tired of our partner complaining about work or every single thing that might be going on in their life. Especially if this is very frequent.

But when you tell him your parents are getting a divorce and all you get is a brief and almost clinically polite reaction, you have reason to be wary.

After all, not worrying about big and serious events like that, when they happen to the person you love, is a sign that something very bad is going on.

What happened? It’s like she stopped loving you.

What can you do:

It’s normal to feel like maybe it’s because you found someone new.

But it could also be that he is going through his own problems and just isn’t in a position to care about your problems in addition to his own.

Either way, this is a good opportunity to open up to him about how you feel.

Whatever you do, don’t ask if there is another woman just because of this incident.

11) He is no longer on top of you like he used to

Before it was as if they were stuck together, but now, you notice that he slowly distances himself from you.

When you try to ask if you can accompany him to something, he snaps back, saying, “Can’t I do something on my own? Is prohibited?

And when you’re apart, he texts you less and less often.

Not only that, the messages you receive from him are much shorter and more concise… almost cutting.

What can you do:

Try to pay close attention to how he acts with you and with other people: is he equally distant with everyone, or has he only become especially distant from you?

Ask him why he’s not so excited to be around you anymore, and tell him that you miss how you used to get along. Consider this one of the main signs of deception, but again, it is not enough to confirm it.

12) Come home late

He used to come home early because he felt tired from work.

You knew that he preferred to spend his time with you.

But now, he goes home much later than usual. It’s almost as if her priorities have been reversed and now she wants to spend as much time at work as possible.

Extra alarm if he says he has new friends at the office and one of them is a girl.

It makes cheating with a coworker more likely!

What can you do:

There isn’t much you can do but stay calm and take his word for it.

But keep your friends close and your enemies closer. It would be helpful to take more interest in his friends and colleagues next time you get the chance.

Although suddenly being obsessed with work, in and of itself, is not enough to condemn him, if you see that along with other signs on this list, beware.

13) You no longer feel like a princess

I used to do and…