Detect the seductive man who conquers many women by text

I think we are all familiar with the concept of those inveterate seductive men who do not stop chatting.

I personally prefer to avoid them and I suppose that you, if you are here, too.

Seducers want sex and will do almost anything to get it.

They’ll write you cheap compliments and buy jewelry they swear is from Tiffany’s.

They will use that charm that they have already used with hundreds of girls.

All this with one final goal: to take you to bed without compromise.

However, when you don’t know a guy well yet, it can be harder to tell if he’s a womanizer or just a romantic who likes you, with some seductive attitudes.

And this gets even more challenging if you’ve only texted him and you haven’t met yet.

That’s why it’s helpful to know the texting tricks that womanizers use.

Next, I will tell you how to tell if a guy is the classic Don Juan through text messages.

I have listed 17 of the main warning signs. Proceed judiciously.

17 signs to recognize a seductive man who conquers many women through text messages

1) It turns sexual from the beginning

Womanizers use texts as little experiments miniature scientists.

He will get sexual from the beginning to see how you react.

You will then see how 10 other girls you are talking to react to it.

If you disapprove of him, but he thinks you’re hot enough, he’ll pretend to back off with an adorable monkey emoji or a fake apology.

You should know that later he will try again in another more concealed way.

As Wendy writes for Dear Wendy:

“You have a better chance of finding a satisfying relationship if you start to set some boundaries and stop wasting time with guys who aren’t looking for the same thing as you.” You want a boyfriend, not a sex call, so she stops acting like a casual girl and starts acting like a woman who’s “good enough to date.” How do you do it? Drop the sexy text messages, for starters.”

2) He texts when he’s horny

Pick-ups tend to be busy when you text them just to check up on them.

But suddenly, when night comes or he’s light on work, you’re bombarded with all sorts of cute GIFs and seductive texts.

It’s a classic ladies’ man move: Indifference to you except when he’s horny.

3) Everything revolves around him

The seducers who conquer many women tend to be very into themselves.

He is only interested in himself, his problems and desires. His text conversations will tend to be very one-sided when viewed objectively.

He won’t really be interested in you.

I’m sorry, honey, he only cares about himself and what he’s wearing in his underwear.

4) He’s vague about his relationship status

When you’re texting a womanizer, one of the biggest signs is that he’s very vague about his relationship status.

He also doesn’t like to say what he’s looking for. Avoid talking about love, deep connections, or long-term relationships.

He may say that he is “open” to a relationship because he thinks it will win you over.

But you can read between the lines that it’s not really going to happen.

5) He comments on other women who are pretty

Most women are pretty smart, so it can seem confusing how a womanizer can fool them.

The fact is that seductive men can be really funny and charming.

But if you notice them commenting on other women being attractive, then realize that they don’t really like you and are just playing you.

6) Play mind games with you

Seductive men love to seduce and play…

If you write to a womanizer, you will notice that what he likes is receiving compliments from you and joking with you.

Sometimes it can be fun.

But if you think about it, it’s actually messing with your mind a bit.

It may be by making you jealous, gossiping and sexually frustrating in ways that he finds funny and sexy.

7) He doesn’t give a damn about your problems and your life

When you’re texting a new person, it’s obvious that you’re not just going to talk about just any intimacy.

No one wants to chat with someone new and find out that person has a terminal illness or serious mental disorder.

But if you correspond with a seducer, he will not care at all about your real problems or your life situation.

(But he will expect your attention by giving him attention and sex.)

8) He rarely writes first

Pick-ups like to joke around and make girls “want” their text messages.

You will have the constant feeling that he is too relaxed.

He will rarely text first and always seem to have that perfect line or comment to make you smile or turn you on.

Sonya Schwartz explains that:

“Sometimes guys just want to keep things casual; they don’t want to trick you into thinking that you can expect messages from him at certain times. By not initiating communication, these guys are trying to hint that they don’t want anything serious.”

9) Constantly turning on and off

Womanizers are motivated and demotivated by their own sexual drive.

If you have another girl or are busy at work and not concentrating on your physical desires, then you could go days or weeks without writing.

But then he has free time or starts to focus on his libido and your phone won’t stop vibrating.

10) Suddenly he disappears and does not write anymore

You will be between feeling “engulfed by text messages” thinking that this man turns you on and is super interested in you…

…then, five minutes later, it will vacuum you for two weeks.

He is immature and extremely annoying.

11) He subtly reinforces his dominance over you

Charmers like to present themselves as cool and fun, and sometimes they are.

But they can also be real jerks.

If you notice that his texts have a lot of compliments but with a hint of insult or mockery, then you have a major sign that you are dealing with a womanizer.

12) His compliments are totally generic

Womanizers rarely focus all their attention on one woman.

In general, they send multiple text messages to random girls that they have added from tinder or dating sites.

They give you compliments that seem to be for anyone. Because they could be.

13) Lose interest unless you send sexy photos

The seducers use the mobile mainly to send text messages or try to establish intimate encounters.

If you flat out refuse to send him sexy photos, he will usually be offended and goad you on yet again. If you don’t agree, they will generally lose interest.

However, be careful that there are some cunning and manipulative seducers out there.

Alex Manley says that the best way to ask a woman for nudes is to make her feel comfortable, and true seducers are experts at feigning respect and having unique chemistry.

“As exciting as it is to receive a nude, you don’t have the right to see anyone’s nudes and you can’t just deserve to see them doing a certain thing or set of things. Nudity is always something that gets shared when the sender wants it, and you can’t force anyone to feel anything,” Manley writes.

14) Avoid adding yourself to their social networks

Womanizers are often liars.

As such, they are not the type to just have a social media account. They usually have many different ones that they keep separate.

Their first preference will usually be not to add you to any social network or just one.

If you notice that his accounts seem to be very generic or infrequently used, chances are he’s given you one of his baited accounts.

He tells that he uses to make women think that he cares and that he is available.

15) He gets annoyed if you are secretive about sex

A few inveterate and particular seducers will only get more excited if you reject sexual conversations or images.

But for the most part, these guys are transparent goofballs who will immediately throw tantrums if you don’t want to get naughty.

Then they will usually go away and try again once or twice before making a false accusation about being a “prude” and getting rid of you.

Bye, horny.

16) He forgets almost everything you say to him

Players don’t care what you tell them or about your life, but sometimes they will be very interested when you tell them stories or things from your life.

He will do that to have sex.

Once he gets it or manages to get you to talk about sex, you’ll notice that his supposed interest in everything else was about 0.0.

17) He does not reciprocate when you express affection

When you date a guy who is only in it for the sex, he will generally avoid displays of affection.

When sending text messages it is the same.

If you send him heart emojis or say things like a girlfriend says, he’ll ignore it, joke around, or tell you to stop being so sweet.

That’s because it makes you squirm to think this could be going anywhere other than Sexville.

Final thoughts

It is difficult to read the emotions through the texts.

This guy might be confused about his own motivations or in trouble.

And he might be really turned on by you and lose some of his self-control when texting.

That’s no excuse, but sometimes it can be as simple as that.

A man who goes all out does not always mean that he is an inveterate seducer.

As Tchicki Davis writes for UC Berkeley’s Greater Good magazine, one of the best ways to read emotions through text has a lot to do with how well you know someone or not.

“Detecting emotions in text messages is as much an art as it is a science. He can be sure that his friend Jane feels sad even though she says that she feels great. You know Jane and you know what she is like. If you read her text messages carefully and curiously, you will discover the truth about how she feels.”

So if you’re talking to a womanizer, it can be easy to get sucked into his seductive world before you know it, because you don’t know him well to begin with.

I sincerely hope that the above 18 signs will help you to know if a guy is a seducer of many women through text messages before you waste too much valuable time and energy on it.