38 Fascinating Facts About The Psychology Of A Man In Love

Love is an unrepeatable feeling and is not related to what can be done to achieve it or the time it takes to conquer it.

Love is immense, great, wonderful.

When we fall in love with someone, our way of life changes. Our energy is focused on the loved one, our thoughts are for her.

We want to know everything about that person we are so passionate about and more importantly, how they feel about us.

Have you ever wondered how you can tell if a man is in love?

I think you will agree with me when I say that men can be very confusing sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, women too.

That is why we come here to reveal some mysteries about them.

38 Fascinating Psychological Facts About Men In Love

1) Lose your appetite

People love to talk about love, but one thing they forget to say is that it reduces your appetite.

When a man is in love, his body produces a large amount of a chemical called oxytocin, which happens to be an appetite suppressant.

The more madly in love he is, the more difficult it will be for him to eat.

The next time you’re together and he can’t finish his meal, that’s a clue that he probably likes you.

2) Say “we” more often

A man who is in love with someone unconsciously imagines that he and that person are together, even when they are not.

Therefore, he will use much more “we” and “our” and less “I” and “mine”.

He’ll say things like “We should meet at the park later” instead of “I’d like to meet you at the park later.”

It’s a very subtle thing and she might even blush when she catches herself saying “we” more often.

3) Will try to be helpful

A man who is deeply in love will be willing to be as useful as he can to the woman his heart beats for.

That’s because men have something we call the “hero instinct,” their overriding desire to make the girl of their dreams happy.

A man will feel deeply connected to you when he feels that he can give you what no one else can.

4) He just can’t be mad at you

No relationship is without its problems, and there will always be times when you get mad at the person you love the most.

But the point is, he can’t just stay mad at you.

Maybe they had a big argument and he could have said something like “he’s had enough.” you may feel that he’s determined to hate you… but three days later, he’s excited about you again.

5) Find pain easier to bear when you are around

Whether it’s a strawberry on the knee, a burn or a paper cut, a man in love will be able to handle pain better than someone not in love.

Especially if you are close to the object of your affections.

Love is a natural pain reliever, and a study by Stanford University suggests that love acts almost like a drug in the way it tells the brain to ignore pain.

If he stubbed his toe, he’s totally fine when you’re around.

6) Your judgment is clouded

Another thing that drugs and love have in common is their ability to alter people’s ability to make rational decisions.

When a man is in love, his brain produces an excess of chemicals that keep him happy and predisposed to see things in a positive light.

Because of this, he might even find pleasure in things he doesn’t normally enjoy, as long as you’re there with him.

7) He looks stoned

Some of the chemicals that the brain generates like crazy when a man is deeply in love are not much different from the same banned and abused recreational drugs.

Don’t be too surprised to see a man in love acting like he’s walking on clouds, obsessed and addicted. It might as well be!

8) Becomes possessive

According to evolutionary psychology, jealousy is part of our nature and is felt by people all over the world.

Jealousy evolved to motivate “partner protection”, pretending to solve an old adaptive problem: infidelity.

If he’s really in love with you, he won’t be able to resist feeling a little possessive. It doesn’t matter if they already have something or not, he wants you and he can’t bear the thought of someone else having you.

9) Sex is not everything for him

You know that idea that men have nothing in their heads but sex, sex and more sex. But that is not always the case.

There is no denying that guys generally have a strong sexual desire.

But for a guy who’s head over heels in love, sex is secondary to being with you.

10) He will want you strongly

A man deeply in love can’t help but want physical intimacy with you.

Being with you, especially if your relationship is still new, will kick his sex drive into overdrive.

He doesn’t want to have sex with you simply because of a biological impulse. He wants it because he is with you.

If you’ve just made love, you’ll want more of that kind of feeling. That’s why sometimes you won’t get tired of wanting to do it.

11) He wants to understand your feelings

A man in love is the most curious man in the world. He wants to understand you and your feelings.

He wants to know what makes you happy and what he can do for you when you’re down.

Whether you are already a couple or not, he will always be willing to listen to you and be there to comfort you.

12) He wants to protect you

Men are naturally inclined to protect the women they love. He will do everything possible to make sure you are safe and will defend you at every opportunity he can.

Men these days may be less eager to play the role of protector, especially since it can be insulting to women who want to make their independence known, but that desire will remain deep within.

If you detect clear signs that a guy is protective of you, it is because he is deeply in love with you.

13) He will imitate you

We all like different things and sometimes what you like may not like him. It is the most logical.

However, a man who is in love with you will work hard to like the things that you like.

It’s called mimicry, which is caused by our innate need to be in sync.

He might even start acting and sounding like you.

14) It’s an open book

Men who are in love will want to do everything they can to connect with you. And if it means opening up to you, they will, even if it’s little by little.

If you’ve been hurt before, you’ll be careful about what you share at first. But he will open up sooner or later if he loves you.

15) Will be available

Call him and he will be there for you.

Go out to a party and he’ll ask you if he can join you. A guy who is head over heels in love can’t resist wanting to be around you for as long as possible.

Your mere presence is intoxicating to him, and he will crave this feeling.

16) He respects you

Respect is one of the few things that separate obsession and love.

If he loves you, but doesn’t know how to respect your wishes, then that’s just an obsession.

A man who really loves you will respect you for who you are, so if you tell him to stop, that you don’t like something, or if you have an opinion that you don’t agree with, he will accept it.

17) Prioritizes you (within reason)

When he has to choose between you and something else, he will always choose you, unless there is a valid reason for him to choose otherwise.

In healthy relationships it is good that everyone has their individual space too, but he will always be happy to spend time with you.

18) The feeling is immediate

One study suggests that while women can take up to 15 days to fall in love, men fall in love in 8 seconds.

It is suggested that this is because men are always looking for a partner and do not have to face as many consequences. Women are more careful because they face greater risks if they settle for the wrong person.

First impressions are important, but especially when it comes to men and love.

19) He likes how you look

Studies show that men are visual creatures.

A man who is already in love with someone will care about more than just his appearance, like his personality and compatibility. But the attraction begins with the body. There are no buts.

If a guy has a crush on you, you don’t have to feel insecure about your appearance. He already adores every inch of you.

20) He’ll notice when you wear red

There is one color that is known to make people more sexually attractive, and that is red.

So if you want to take his breath away, wear a lot of red!

According to a study, red can make women appear more attractive to men because they are instinctively attracted to that color.

21) Love blinds him

Everyone has flaws, but since love is blind, a man in love will tolerate or even ignore your flaws.

It might even love what you’ve always thought were flaws.

Maybe you have freckles and have always hated them, but to him they are part of why you are so beautiful.

22) It makes him a better man

It’s true what they say that being in love can change a person.

Love changes a person’s brain chemistry and makes it easier for a person in love to kick an addiction, whether it be to cigarettes, alcohol, or sex.

As time passes, your brain chemistry returns to normal. There it could become more difficult.

But hey, that’s when we can see the power of true love.

23) He will become attached to you

A man in love, especially if he is insecure and has an attached and anxious style, will want to make sure that they will stay together forever.

This means that every chance he gets, he’ll want to hold your hand, touch you, and stay close to you.

You will need constant reassurance and quick responses. All he cares about is your love until those love chemicals wear off.

24) Show more with deeds than with words

Sometimes, due to social conditioning or personality, it is difficult for certain men to show their emotions.

That’s why pay attention to the things he does for you, like walking your dog or surprising you with a good meal, because that’s where he shows his true affection.

25) Being in love overwhelms him

It is normal for men who are in love to be a little nervous.

The reason for this is that being in love fills the brain with the stress hormone cortisol.

When it comes to the body, in certain respects, there is no difference between being in love and being stressed.

If you want you can reassure him and make him feel comfortable, that will help him deal with those intense emotions.

26) He will hold on to every compliment he receives

As a general rule, men often feel lonely and want attention.

They will remember even the smallest genuine compliment they receive for years, and if that compliment comes from someone they love, they will hold it close to their hearts and never forget it.

If you believe…