How to know if your partner is cheating on you, 11 signs that will remove all doubt

Do you suspect that your partner is cheating on you?

Feeling distrust of your boy is not pleasant at all.

How can you think of the idea that the person you love could be betraying you?

But the truth is that you have begun to think a lot about the idea. To the point of being obsessed.

Right now you have many doubts.

You want answers because you’re going crazy.

it’s never easy discover that you have been deceived.

But it is better to know the truth instead of remaining in eternal doubt.

So let’s tear the band-aid off once and for all.

I have always been one of those people who would rather know for sure what is happening than live in eternal uncertainty.

That way you can make a decision safely and for your own well-being.

Here are 11 definite signs that your partner is cheating on you and what to do next.

When to start worrying

Before you start worrying about whether your partner is cheating on youYou have to evaluate certain things.

First of all, it is important to determine if your “hunch” has a valid basis or if you are simply projecting your own fears and insecurities.

I’m not saying you’re imagining things.

Most of the time, our intuitions are correct.

But sometimes, some bad experience from the past can make us focus on things that don’t really point anywhere.

Maybe you’ve been fooled before and that is affecting the way you see things.

It would be understandable if you have trust issues and be overly sensitive every time you think your partner is running away.

It could also be that you are projecting your own thoughts of cheating on your partner. It’s important to be honest with ourselves too.

A 2007 study suggests that people who have a history of cheating tend to “perceive” more infidelity threats by their partners.

I don’t know about you, but it sounds a bit like “karma” to me.

So ask yourself: Do you really have reason to believe that your partner is cheating on you?

If he’s still loving you, caring, and making sure you’re safe and happy, then there’s little reason to believe he’s cheating on you.

You should only start worrying when your partner is inconsistent and acting weirder than usual.

Look only for signs of suspicious behavior.

Otherwise, you will only be burdening yourself senselessly.

11 signs that your partner is cheating on you

1) Your gut tells you that something is wrong

Never discount your intuition.

You may not understand why you feel this way, but intuition is actually the result of a construction of your subconscious.

It is the way our brain “sees” things that we normally ignore.

According to life coach Susanna Newsonen, your intuition is a “web of facts and feelings.”

She explains:

“Your intuition connects your body, mind and spirit, and how those three elements have digested everything from your past. This web of facts and feelings makes you feel expansive, excited, and nervous about a new challenge, if it’s right. But otherwise, you will feel unmotivated, lethargic, and terrified if something is wrong.”

if you have this undeniable “gut feeling” that your partner is cheating on youyou may be right.

2) You find traces of another woman

In this, women have a highly developed sixth sense.

Do you suddenly feel another woman’s perfume on her clothes?

Or an unusual stain that could be lipstick.

Some long hair that doesn’t match your hair color.

This could still happen even if he wasn’t cheating on you, maybe at work he accidentally brushed against someone who had a strong perfume. It wouldn’t be that impossible.

But if it happens more than once, it is already a sign to worry.

3) Their stories contradict each other, think long before answering

Surely you know the phrase: “the lie has short legs.”

Well, it is very true, when a person lies they must make a great effort to remember what they said, and many times they can be wrong or contradict themselves.

When we tell the truth, we simply speak without thinking and we will always give the same version of a story.

But if he cheats on youmaybe if you ask him twice about a night that he arrived very late, he will say contradictory things or his story does not make much sense.

If this happens you must be very attentive because there are high chances that he is doing things that he hides from you.

4) Their schedules change

A classic sign when someone is cheating is to notice a sudden and unusual change of schedules.

Does your partner cancel more and more plans?

Are you starting to work late more and more?

Suddenly there are a lot of work trips out of town?

Normally, I spent every night with you when I could. But now he doesn’t have time for you anymore.

One way to check this is by how transparent your partner is with their schedules.

When someone has nothing to hide, they will give you any detail about where they are and what they are doing.

But if your man seems evasive or strangely out of your league, he’s probably busy with someone else.

5) Changes in intimacy

A change in your sex life could be a major sign of cheating.

Although it is particularly difficult to detect, because it can manifest itself in different ways.

Actually your partner could be cheating on you if you have less, or if you have more sex than normal.

According to clinical sexologist Robert Weiss:

“Both decreased and increased levels of sexual activity in your relationship can be a sign of infidelity. Less sex occurs because your partner is focused on someone else; more sex happens because they are trying to cover it up.”

But beware: Weiss says that even a “spicier” sex life could be a sign of cheating, stating:

“Another possible sign is that your partner is introducing new techniques and activities into your sex life. As much as you enjoy that, you may be learning new tricks outside of your relationship.”

Either way, sex is an emotional act between lovers.

You will notice that something is wrong if you feel strangely “disconnected” from your partner.

6) His behavior with the phone changes

A telltale sign of cheating is the difference in telephone communication.

Do you notice that your partner is constantly texting someone on their phone?

Do you accept calls and leave the room?

Is he always hiding his phone screens from you and never leaving his phone near?

Does he get nervous when you get close and he’s writing?

Clinical psychologist Andrea Bonior says that’s not the behavior of someone who has nothing to hide.

She explains:

“People who behave inappropriately and try to hide it are often more vigilant in order not to get caught, and this can be seen in their physical behavior automatically. If he seems almost compulsive about shielding his phone, closing browser windows, or covering himself up, even from you peeking at any of his communications, there’s a good chance he’s desperate to avoid you seeing it, probably for a reason.”

7) You fight a lot…or not at all

Sometimes it can be hard to know if you partner is cheating on you because some signals can be too subtle or confusing.

One thing is for sure, though: there’s an undeniable change in the dynamics of their relationship.

Either you are constantly fighting or you are not in dialogue at all.

According to clinical psychologist Elvira Aletta:

“Things are not going well between you. They’re distant, disconnected, fighting, they don’t make love as often as they used to, and they don’t have fun when they’re together.”

But it could also feel like your partner has stopped “trying.”

Aletta explains:

“Even if you’re not fighting or even spending time together, if you start to get the feeling that your guy doesn’t care as much about you anymore, that there’s an ‘I don’t care’ quality to the way he treats you, then there is a real risk that he is having an affair.”

8) Your family/friends act suspicious of you

Your partner’s friends may know something you don’t.

If you find them uncomfortable or are suddenly cold towards you, it may be because they are trying to hide something.

The next time you are with your partner and their friends, try to take in the environment.

It can be a very telltale sign that something is wrong.

Maybe the idea crossed your mind ask one of them if your partner is cheating on you.

Personally, I don’t think it’s fair to put someone in such an awkward position.

But if you have a good relationship with a mutual friend, you can do it.

Even if he doesn’t give you a definitive answer, you’ll probably tell by how he reacts to your question.

9) You are suddenly reluctant to make an important decision in life

They previously talked about moving in together, but he suddenly changed his mind.

He is hesitant to make important life decisions with you, especially things that have been previously agreed upon.

It could just be a sign of doubts in the relationship or financial problems.

Ask your partner why they suddenly changed their mind.

If it’s neither of those two options, it could be because you’re looking at greener pastures.

Clinical psychologist Ramani Durvasula tells Oprah Magazine:

“A major commitment makes it harder to get out of a relationship quickly.”

10) There is a drastic change in his appearance

Your partner suddenly looks different.

You try harder to look good, make drastic image changes, or wear clothes that are not usually your style.

There is nothing wrong with small changes per se.

Maybe your guy is finding new ways to express himself or feel confident.

But if the change isn’t very characteristic, and it doesn’t seem like it’s doing it for you, then it’s because they’re trying to impress someone else.

11) Behaves defensive or hostile

at some point, a person who cheats on his partner feels guilty.

And many times one way to deal with this unpleasant feeling is with anger. You may be more irritable than usual or defensive in any situation.

It is a rather questionable mechanism, but atsomeone who cheats he may feel better if he makes you feel bad. Or even justify their actions with excuses about your person and your attitudes.

So if you notice that suddenly his mood is very changeable and his relationship with you has deteriorated a lot, there are reasons to believe that he is seeing another person.

You have proven that he is cheating on you, now what?

There can be so many reasons for infidelityand although it is something extremely painful, you should know that you are stronger than you imagine.

In a relationship, once cheating happens, it’s hard to rebuild trust and get things going again.

But sometimes it can be done.

And even some couples have been able to reinvent their bond and make it even stronger.

The most important thing here and in any problem within a relationship is communication.

Can be honest…