13 subtle signs that the dumper shows when he misses

When my boyfriend and I broke up, my life fell apart a bit.

But suddenly, after a while, I started to think that maybe he missed me and wanted to come back, but I wasn’t sure if it was just wishful thinking or if he was really sorry about our breakup.

It is not easy to find out what the dumper thinks, in general the focus is on the dumped person.

But it is true that whoever decides to end a relationship also has a hard time, they may not be sure, or they may miss their partner after a while.

It could be that you realize what you really had with your ex, or that when you start dating again, you realize that you already found your mate long ago. And this is true for both men and women.

We are going to share with you the signs when the dumper misses so you don’t spend years over-analyzing his behavior and wondering if your imagination is playing tricks on you.

13 subtle signs when the dumper misses:

1) Keep contacting even after you finish

If an ex keeps contacting you after breaking up, it could be a sign that they are missing their ex.

However, it is important not to jump to conclusions because there could be other explanations besides that you regret the breakup.

If you have called in isolation, with a specific reason, it is possible that you simply want to close some matter.

But if you call without a specific reason to find out how your ex is doing, this is already suspicious.

Personally, I think it’s always best to look for more than one sign, just to be sure.

2) Remember a lot the good times lived

If the dumper keeps bringing up the good old days and how much fun you had together, it’s a great sign that you miss your ex.

If every time you see your ex or meet for a drink and you start reminiscing about the past, it’s because you’re not over it.

It is a way of expressing that you want to have more good times with your ex.

You may not know how the dumped person feels, so you’ll try to remind them that your relationship wasn’t all bad, and that you actually had a great time together.

3) He gets emotional when talking about the breakup

When the dumper is especially sensitive when talking about the breakup, it is because they are sad. You are probably filled with regret and feel powerless…

So if an ex cries when talking about the breakup, it’s a pretty sure sign that they miss their other half.

You may be afraid that there is no going back and wish things could go back to the way they were.

So watch out for tears: they are a clear indicator that he is sorry for losing you.

4) He still keeps things from his ex

When people end a relationship for good, they usually want to keep their old relationship in the past and move on with their lives.

This often means getting rid of your former partner’s souvenirs and gifts.

Of course, some people will keep something from an ex as a reminder of that period in their lives, with no other meaning behind the act.

However, many people hold on to anything related to their ex because they miss them and aren’t over them.

From gifts they received, to an old t-shirt that belonged to them, holding on to these items gives them hope.

Even if she’s not ready to admit it, she might keep something that reminds her of her ex to help her feel better or maintain a connection with you. Even if it is through something material.

In short, if the dumper has kept everything that his ex ever gave him, it is because he misses.

5) Post photos of the two of you on social media

In my experience, if an ex is still posting photos of the two of you on social media, it’s a sure sign that they haven’t fully let go yet.

Think about it: pictures represent memories, and if the dumper still posts photos from when you were together, it’s because it has meaning to him.

He probably also hopes that whoever got dumped will see the photos, and start missing him too.

6) Ask your ex’s friends how he is doing

If the dumper asks friends about their ex, it’s a great sign that they miss you.

He will ask them how you are doing, if everything is okay at work, what you have been doing…

You probably expect to hear that your ex is sad without him that you miss him too.

You could also be doing this because you feel like you lost a part of your life when you decided to leave your partner, and receiving updates from friends makes you feel closer to your ex.

Perhaps you are not sure what to do next in your life and hearing about your ex is a reminder of happier times in your life.

7) The dumper asks about his ex’s relationship status

Another way to know that the dumper misses you is by asking about your ex’s current relationship status.

Now, probably don’t be too obvious and ask indirectly.

The bottom line is that if the dumper wants to know if their ex has found someone else, it’s because they want to know if there’s still a chance they could get back together.

8) Keep popping up the places your ex hangs out

If the dumper continues to visit the places his ex went to regularly, and knows that they are his favorite places, it is because he wants to meet again.

If he had moved on with his life, he would avoid meeting his ex to avoid those awkward moments. But if the dumper seeks to get the attention of her ex, he will show up in her usual places and show her that he misses her.

9) She hasn’t dated anyone new in a while

If you broke up a while ago and the dumper hasn’t dated again, it’s probably not because you didn’t get the chance.

If you are not dating anyone, it is because you have no interest in doing so.

You miss your ex and you may regret the breakup.

He doesn’t want to go on with his life, he wants things to go back to the way they were before.

10) Keep in touch with your ex’s mother

This is a HUGE sign. Sometimes couples develop a strong affinity with one or both parents of their partner.

It’s true that getting out of touch can be hard. But if the dumper keeps talking to his ex’s mom it’s a sure sign that he misses his ex.

I mean, it’s great that moms and boyfriends get along, but once their relationship ends, theirs should end too.

11) Forget stuff at your ex’s house

This is a classic.

If the dumper leaves things at your ex’s house, it’s because they want to make sure they see him again. Consciously or unconsciously.

Leaving forgotten things is a great excuse to return…

This could be anything from clothing to headphones to the wallet, you’d be surprised…

I know what you’re thinking, people can leave things behind by mistake and you’re right. Could occur. But what about the other signals? If, in addition to leaving behind things, he has shown some other signs, then it’s crystal clear: the leaver misses.

12) He is excited and happy when he meets his ex again

If a dumper is very happy and excited to see his ex, this may be a sign that he wants her back in his life.

If she seems genuinely happy to see you, it’s because she is.

So if you’re the one on the other end and you feel like there’s still chemistry between you and he’s excited to see you, that’s another sign that he misses you.

13) He says he has changed

Finally, when a dumper starts talking about how they’ve changed, it’s probably because they want to be given another chance.

So if your ex tells you how he’s been working on himself and is aware of his past mistakes, it’s because he wants you to know that he’s a better version of himself. He probably wants to show you that this time the relationship could work.

The ball is in your court now.

Do you want to know how to make the dumper regret losing you?

If the dumper hasn’t shown any sign of regretting losing you but you do want it back, I can help you with that too!

1) It’s a matter of trust

If there’s one thing I know, it’s that men love confident women.

Confidence stirs something deep down that triggers instant attraction. If not You believe me, next time pay attention to how you feel in front of a self-confident man.

So if you want your ex to regret losing you and come back to you, you need to build up your confidence.

2) Do not plunge into depression

You are in charge of how you feel and how you move forward in your life. You can’t control your ex’s actions and you can’t always choose the outcome of certain situations.

What you can do is control how you react to situations. You can choose to remain hopeful and optimistic, or you can choose to get angry, depressed, and go indoors to watch Netflix.

But if you want him back, I definitely advise you not to let depression get the better of you, it’s not healthy or attractive. If you want him to regret losing you, he needs to see you move on with your life.

3) Give him a chance to miss you

It may be tempting to call him and try to talk him out of the breakup, but that’s not the best way to get your ex back.

Instead, give him some time to miss you. Let a few days or weeks go by without him hearing from you.

Let him experience the loneliness of the breakup. This can be frustrating, but it is a necessary process.

You have to feel what you’re missing, before you can begin to wonder if there’s something better out there.

4) Don’t rush to reply to their text messages

When you’re desperately trying to win your ex back, you might want to reply to every text.

You want to get back in touch with him as much as possible.

However, that’s not always the best move.

If she responds to all texts right away, it may seem like you’re overly focused and a little desperate.

You don’t have to ignore their texts or calls, just don’t respond to them at the speed of light.

Also be sure to give yourself plenty of time to think through your answers carefully.

5) If he wants to see you, don’t be so available

This one goes hand-in-hand with the two points above: you don’t want to appear too anxious, and you want him to have a chance to miss you.

Now, if your ex wants to catch up, you might be tempted to say “yes” and run off to find him.

But if you really want him to regret leaving you, you have to tell him that you’re busy.

You don’t have to be rude about it, but you do need to handle it calmly. Suggest another time when you are “less busy.”

6) Make new friends and have fun

If you sit back and grieve over the fact that your ex broke up with you, you won’t get very far.

You need to focus on your life and make new friends.

If you want to get your ex back, you need to show him that you’re having a good time and having fun without him.

You have to show him that you no longer need him in your life and who says, maybe you realize that it really is.

Just make an effort to go out more and make new friends and have new experiences.

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