If a man gets excited it’s because he likes you

The eternal question of every woman, if she gets excited with me, does she like me?

First let’s clarify the following: there is a difference when using the verb “to like”.

If by liking you mean that he has feelings for you, the answer is NO.

Not every time a man gets turned on by you, it means that he has feelings for you.

If, on the other hand, liking means that you are attracted, the answer is YES.

If a man gets turned on, it’s usually because he finds you attractive.

Read on to easily discover how to tell if you turn him on.

How to know that a man is turned on when he sees you

It is known that male arousal is an involuntary physiological response.

It usually occurs when the man interacts with a situation that leads him to think about sex.

Like looking at something attractive, suggestive or even erotic.

Your body prepares to have sex immediately and your attitude changes.

So if you pay a little attention, it’s easy to tell if a man is turned on by seeing you.

Generally, they act in a sleepy way, as if dominated by something stronger than themselves (and yes… you know what I mean!)

They are not in a state of alert, but, on the contrary, they get carried away by what you do.

Since your actions also have a lot to do with their arousal. Because?

Because if you are also experiencing desire for him, he will feel it.

Female body language gives signals that they perceive intuitively.

The way you look at him, or perhaps biting your lip when talking to him, or perhaps constantly touching your hair when you look at him, are unconscious signals that you are sending him.

So, you should also pay attention to how he responds to when you flirt.

If he reacts to any of these signs, there’s a good chance he’s turned on by you.

When does a man like you sexually?

1) smile

If when he sees you, or when you look at him, he smiles, it is clear that your presence is important to him.

2) look

His look says a lot about what he thinks about you.

How he looks at you, where he looks at you and for how long will be key.

If he can’t stop looking at you, and you feel his eyes magnetically on you, it means he can’t control himself. It is a sign of pure attraction.

Another way of showing his desire for you is if his gaze is deep and he searches for your eyes.

According to a study on flirting from the Social Issues Research Centre,

“If he holds eye contact with you for more than a second, he’s most likely interested. If, after this initial contact, he looks away briefly and then looks back to meet your gaze a second time, then he’s interested in you.”

Yes, also, look at your body or specific parts of it. It’s obvious, he wants you in his bed.

3) Tone of voice

This is a typical unconscious male gesture when interacting with someone he likes.

If when talking to you he has a low and deep tone of voice. She is trying to seduce you.

4) Hot conversations

Does he try to talk to you at all times?

When you have a conversation, do you end up talking about past sexual experiences or what you like in bed?

If so, he’s trying to not only find out more about you sexually, but he wants to know how far you’re capable of going.

Here’s a tip: Be careful what you mention when talking about sex. Think of it as a marketing strategy: tell him what you are capable of within your real limits. If they come to fruition in bed, he will expect you to do what you have told him.

5) Nerves or tension

When you are with him, do you feel nervous or tense? Or, perhaps, you feel that the air is cut with a knife when you are together. If so, it is clear that there is sexual tension between you.

When you feel attracted to someone, it is usually so strong that the other realizes it when they are with you.

This tension is felt even more when they accidentally touch or brush against each other’s bodies.

6) Rub your body

When you feel desire for someone, any excuse is good for them to have physical contact.

From a longer kiss on the cheek when greeting you, to having his leg in contact with yours when sitting next to you.

If he even tries to caress sensual areas like your waist or your neck, the desire is unquestionable. He likes you.

How to know if he likes you in bed

If they have already completed the sexual encounter, surely you doubt if you continue to turn it on.

Here I leave a couple of tips for you to discover if he likes you in bed.

1) Want to repeat

Clearly, if you’ve already been together and he seduces you into bed a second time, he’s had a good time with you. Do not you believe it?

2) kisses

If your kisses are deep and passionate, it means that your fire is in ON mode.

When a man is excited and enjoying himself, his kisses are pure passion.

3) look

If he catches your eye or enjoys watching you do it, he likes you, a lot!

4) Hands and feet

If he grabs your hands while doing it or contracts his feet, he’s probably holding his ejaculation. His body is enjoying, but out of control and wants to hold back so you can get there too.

5) He talks to you

If he tells you before, during or after being together how good he is having with you, it is so.

Don’t doubt his word.

They may hide something out of embarrassment or to avoid hurting you, but guys don’t usually lie if they had a good time with sex.

6) It stays with you

If after having been together, he stays by your side, wants to talk or even walks around naked, this is a good sign.

It means that he feels comfortable next to you and that, surely, he has a good time with you.

What does a man feel when the woman is on top of him?

Believe it or not, most men enjoy this position.

It gives them control over the intensity and pace, which they enjoy.

In addition, it allows them to see the woman and give her pleasure comfortably.

Since they have their hands free to massage their breasts or body.

Another position that men enjoy is the classic “them on top” position.

Here they exert full control over their partner.

This gives them a greater sense of power and joy unconsciously.

Which helps keep them excited.

Nothing more erotic for a man than to feel that you are his and that you are at his disposal.

Or, at least, make them believe it for a while!

Do you like me?

If you think that the tips that I have given you coincide with his actions, then it is evident that he is attracted to you.

If you’re still not entirely sure, be sure to look for an opportunity to be alone with him.

At that point, practice some accidental touching or see if you’re both nervous.

And if you dare, ask him. Nothing sexier than a woman sure that she knows what she wants.

What are you waiting for?