14 REAL Reasons Why He Doesn’t Answer Your Messages Or Your Calls

It has happened to every man at least once in his life that his messages are not answered.

It is really normal for a girl to forget to respond to you since there are external factors which have nothing to do with you, nor with your performance when trying to connect with her.

It is normal if it happens to you a couple of times in your life, but if this happens to you all the time with the girls you know, obviously this is no longer the fault of external factors.

External causes why your messages are not responded to:

A) Your girl ran out of battery

And although it may not sound credible, it really happens to all of us, no matter how modern your cell phone device is and it has the most effective battery saver on the market, it ends up discharging.

Normally the battery does not last a full day, this is obviously due to the high use we give to our mobile equipment.

B) He did not have time to respond

Your girl may have as many activities and pending tasks as you can’t imagine, so she could see your message but with so many duties she forgets to respond to you.

C) You ran out of mobile data.

These are common things that can happen to us every day, however it is very rare and it would be illogical to think that the same thing always happens to all the girls you write to.

On social networks like FacebookInstagram or Snapchat, it is easier to sneak through because you have no way of checking if the message has already arrived on her cell phone, on the other hand, a text message or Whatsapp is more transparent and shows that she for some reason does not want to respond to you.

Pay attention to the following reasons why a girl doesn’t respond to messages and learn as much as possible.

1.- Something changed in his life

If you have just met this girl, you obviously lack a lot of important information to know about her. It is possible that even though you have met her at a nightclub, at university or at work and you see her completely happy, you do not know what is really happening in his personal life.

Deaths or events occur every day that change our lives from one moment to the next, it could be that the girl you just met had a family member or acquaintance in the hospital.

That suddenly there was a downsizing at your job or your dog died (we never know what’s in the life of the person in front of us).

Before judging or calling yourself a loser because she doesn’t respond to your messages, try to find out what really happened and if everything is okay with her.

2.- is busy

Nowadays women occupy a very important place in the work role, in addition to this we play different roles such as: daughter, student, friend, mother and we try after fulfilling all this to have a space for ourselves.

You must understand her, she, like you, has endless occupations and sometimes it is not necessarily your fault, she was simply too busy to respond to you.

3.- She only gave you her number out of politeness.

Regardless of how you met her, you could have created an excellent environment in which she felt comfortable with herself and most importantly with you, however this does not mean that she felt any attraction to you.

If you took advantage of this moment to ask for her number and she agreed to give it to you without any problem, perhaps she just didn’t want to ruin that moment with an awkward response since immediately afterwards she was going to have to explain to you why she didn’t want you to have her number.

She may have found it more feasible to just give you her phone number and then ignore your calls and messages. I know! This sounds super cruel.

But sometimes it is easier to do it than to face the reality of refusing to give you his number, if you look at it on the positive side it also saved you from having a bad time.

4.- Your calls or messages are boring

If you have marked them on more than one occasion and you call them without a clear purpose or something other than asking them out, specifying the place where they will meet or asking for some information without apparent but concrete relevance.

It is logical that if you have just met her you ignore basic aspects of her life and due to lack of information your call and your typical question: How are you? They will bore her too much. So it’s very easy to predict what will happen the next time you try to contact her.

In these cases it is important that if you don’t know her, you don’t call her for no apparent reason, avoid spending more than 3 minutes with her on the phone and this way you will avoid boring her.

5.- Lost interest in you

It is likely that when she gave you her cell phone number she was interested in you, because of the good talk you were having, perhaps you impressed her with your physique or your personality. However, countless events can happen that cause her to lose interest in you.

Maybe you let too much time pass between the first meeting and your message, after she gave you her number she could have seen some attitude from you that made her lose interest, she could have discovered something unpleasant about you in the days following the meeting.

Social networks are undoubtedly a vital part of our daily lives, they are very useful and allow us to do different activities on them such as: socializing, selling, buying and of course finding out about things that without them would be practically impossible.

So before trying to flirt with a girl, make sure your social networks are as “clean” as possible.

6.- She was never interested in you

This is one of the biggest and most common reasons why a girl doesn’t respond to your messages, she’s just not interested in you.

This is probably not your fault, it is possible that you have complied with everything established to connect with a girl and yet she decides that she is not interested in you and is not going to respond to you.

No matter how many messages you send a day or how many calls you make, the result will always be the same. We cannot force a person who loves us or is interested in us.

This is a personal decision, if you are sure that you behaved on a par with her and did everything in your power to please her, then there is nothing more to do, she will soon realize what a great guy she let go.

7.- He is ignoring you

Women have a reputation for being indecisive and not knowing what they want. This can be true when you ask them out and ask them where they want to go to dinner or what they would like to do. Some girls have a hard time deciding.

However, this process does not work in the same way when deciding whether a boy interests you or not.

It’s one thing for the girl to try to act interesting with you and stop responding to a couple of messages. Or it takes 2 hours to respond to you.

And, quite another thing is that they never respond to a single message or if they do, their response is very brief and without the intention of continuing the conversation.

You may think that she can’t be so rude to decide to ignore you just like that, but think about it for just a moment.

If you had more than 30 girls writing to you and of these you are only interested in 1 or 2, obviously you will ignore the rest and you will not do it with the intention of hurting but only to save yourself extra wear and tear.

8.- She is rude

Every girl is different and although some have common values, it does not mean that universally all girls just because they are women have to be kind or polite.

She may not respond to your message simply because she doesn’t feel like doing so and because she doesn’t care about the way you feel.

Or if you are excited about her, the only thing she is interested in is getting rid of you for the moment and blatantly ignoring you is the quickest way to get away from you.

9.- You’re not the only one she talks to

It sounds terrible, but if you have just met the girl or your interactions with her have been recounted, even if each conversation seemed extremely incredible to you, there is no guarantee that that girl is not dating, talking or even already in a relationship with someone else.

If there are other guys besides you in her life, she will try to divide her time wisely, hoping to be able to decide on someone soon, it is in this division of times where your messages or calls may go unanswered.

10.- She decided to send you to the “Friendzone”

The feared and horrible “Friendzone”, daily a huge number of boys are sent to this status, the worst thing is that it has a certain similarity to the mafia, once you enter it is almost impossible to get out.

One of the reasons for a girl to label you as just a friend is because you failed to spark her interest to go further with you.

Girls instinctively tend to classify the boys in their lives to make daily life a little easier and avoid misunderstandings, at least this is the initial idea.

There are only 3 classifications:

A) Possible prospects: When you have an opportunity with her, you provoke her interest or she simply likes you.

B) Friends: Guys who get your sympathy but for various reasons are not attractive to you.

C) Acquaintance: The rest of the boys who do not fit into any of the previous categories and who have no chance of even friendship.

eleven.- You are the same as everyone she knows

It is logical that if you have just met her, your strategy is to find out her hobbies and begin to gradually enter her life, however, how many times do you think she has answered the same questions in her life?

If your strategy is the same as that of all the boys and you use the usual techniques, she will not distinguish you from the rest, because you act in exactly the same way and do not represent something attractive in her eyes.

12.- Its Ttos desperate

When you are very excited about a girl it is very easy to confuse the strategy of conquest and opt for begging.

When you act like a desperate person you completely discredit yourself, you send, despite not being your intention, the message that you are not good enough for a girl and that is why you put yourself in that situation where you seem capable of anything for a little love.

Obviously as soon as a girl perceives such a situation she completely loses interest in you and you become the guy she must get rid of as soon as possible.

13.- You said something offensive

When you are in the conquest stage, girls usually triple our sensitivity at these moments, so you must take great care of your verbal and paraverbal language.

We girls tend to feel offended by many things, most of them are quite obvious such as asking for photos with scanty clothes, using obscene language or asking inappropriate questions, this is quite easy for any man to know.

However, there are other issues that are apparently innocent but end up ruining your opportunity. When you are with her, you must demonstrate your quality as a person and try to be the best version of yourself.

Avoid making offensive comments or ridicule about people with disabilities, mocking the physical features of others, etc.

Although she does not have any disability or different trait, since she is still a stranger to you, you do not know if she has a direct family member with a disability or something you mentioned above.

When you offend a girl regardless of whether it was your intention or not, she will automatically avoid contact with you, stop answering your calls,…