Why don’t you go for it if you like me?

The first mistake is believing that the other person is the one who has to take the first step.. When we feel attracted to another person, we generally wait and create our own uncertainty, drowning our thoughts in questions like: will he really like me?, will he feel the same as me?, why isn’t he telling me anything? STOP!

The first thing you should do if you like a person is to be honest with yourself and with him or her. Arm yourself with courage and show your feelings, whatever they may be. If you are the first to take the step, you will save yourself a lot of uncertainty and headaches.

Have you stopped to think that perhaps the other person is waiting for the same thing as you? That is, you are the one who takes the first step. You may both be wishing for it and at the same time you are waiting for the same situation to arise. The important thing in these cases, as we have said, is to arm yourself with courage and look for a moment of communication and dialogue, what better than talking to solve any enigma.

In this oneCOMO article we tell you how to tell him that you like him, giving you some tips that are worth knowing.

Fear paralyzes and the other person may be feeling it and it may be the main cause of their blockage. Fear, why? Rejection is usually the answer. Maybe that person It’s not clear if you can feel the same and the fear of being rejected is one of the fears that can block a person the most before taking the step. If you want him to take the plunge, show him that the attraction is reciprocal and that you also feel that your relationship is special. Give him a hand!

Security also plays a fundamental role and, generally, it is closely tied to the fear that a person may feel about showing their feelings. When someone feels insecure, in all areas that the word can encompass, it can be a basic reason why they do not dare to show their feelings. Do you think it’s safe because he shows it in public? Think that it may be part of a role, of a learned public attitude.

But people in intimacy, at short distance, appear much more vulnerable and may also feel the fear of rejection, shame or shyness. Maybe he doesn’t know how to jump, help him let go and take the first step.

Have you been clear on your part? If you are in the opposite position waiting for them to launch, you should reflect on your attitude. Have you given the right signals? Have you shown your interest in the other person? Believe it or not, all of this can have a lot to do with taking the first step. And if he still doesn’t decide, you’ll have to be the one to take the plunge.

Of those derived from the fear of rejection and insecurity is the fear of making a fool of yourself and this is something that can hold a person back a lot if they are not 100% willing to throw themselves into it. If you are not clear about it, you will not take the step, much less if the environment where the crush occurred has a common environment.

Work, university, among friends… For many people, a refusal will mean making a fool of themselves and, what is worse, continuing to see the other person. The environment can slow him down a lot, so we insist that the signals must be clear if you want him to launch himself.

Finally, something that can paralyze long before taking the step is the feeling of inferiority. This feeling comes hand in hand with insecurity and is usually a cause for reflection for people who are not capable of taking the first step. What if I’m not up to par? What if I’m not enough? These are questions that raise more than one head. In this case, try to show that you like him just the way he is. The feeling of inferiority can occur due to social class or simply because of what you represent in the environment. Paving the way for him is the best thing you can do in that case.

Remember, if it doesn’t happen, you can always do it yourself.. Don’t wait for the other person to take the first step if you are completely sure of your feelings. What if it doesn’t go well? No problem! There will be many more opportunities. But if he really likes you and you like him, you shouldn’t miss that train. Try to help that person show their feelings, communication is a great power.

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