What is not seen behind the mask (hidden personality)

Many people are successful, happy, or have seemingly perfect lives. It really is that? Well no. Many of them, they appear to be something they are not. This is what is called wearing a mask.

Depressed people who appear optimistic, people with anxiety who appear relaxed. People who take a mask so that others do not see them as they really are. Do you want to know what masks we put on and their causes? Go ahead then!

A controlling person in every sense of his life can be someone who has been betrayed previously. Faced with this pain, the person will develop behavior that will allow them to ensure that others keep their promises. This way, will prevent them from betraying you again.

The controller has a hidden face that is the well-known unsafety. Therefore, controlling everything is essential, sometimes in an even exaggerated way. The mask protects him from the pain of a new betrayal, while try not to let it happen again.

A rigid person may have previously suffered a situation of extreme injustice. Faced with this fact, he becomes inflexible, always seeking justice and accuracy of things.

A rigid person becomes a person perfectionist. So much so that it becomes a obsessive attitude. But let’s put ourselves in their place! We don’t like injustices, they confuse us. Bring everything perfectly studied, stipulated will prevent injustice from appearing Through the door. This is why rigid people act like this.

A dependent person may carry within themselves serious pain due to feeling of abandonment. This injury causes detachment towards anyone so as not to feel abandoned again. This prevents them from taking any relationship seriously and they reject the idea of ​​living with someone.

The pain of abandonment is terrible. The dependent person really is not! On the contrary, he suffers deep inside because he cannot, if not depend on someone, rely in that that person or those important to him never abandon him.

The person who flees refuses to be in company. Prefers the loneliness, the moments of calm. She totally rejects being the center of attention, something that terrifies her. A person who flees does so because It has been rejected and that has caused him such a wound that he cannot help but avoid it.

Those who flee cannot stand not knowing how to act in certain situations, being embarrassed or feeling lost. Simply because this will cause others to reject you. In their solitude they are neither vulnerable nor insecure.. Their mask protects them from what hurts them. Is it cowardice? No. It’s just avoiding what we know we cannot control or prevent it from hurting us.

The masochistic person can be a mental or emotional masochist. This attitude is given by a feeling of humiliation and shame given by a past situation. This causes his attitude to always be to solve other people’s problems, doing everything for them while lowering himself and humiliating himself. It’s something you need.

The masochist does not do like the previous ones who avoid or try to escape their wounds. The masochist faces what hurts in the search for more pain. They have hurt him and he was not in control. Now he has it and he is the one who decides to hurt him. Deep inside him, this helps you deal with that situation.

As we have seen, there are several different and varied masks that we can put on because of a emotional wound that we have suffered. Do you have any of the previous masks? Do you know anyone wearing one? People wearing masks are easy to identify, since at some point his hidden self emerges.

The best thing is to overcome what has caused us fear. The masochist may be hard on himself, but at least he faces his pain. This can make him stronger and manage to overcome his trauma or, on the contrary, continue to hurt himself. What do you think about all this? We eagerly await your responses!