What hooks a man to a woman? 20 keys that will help you

Keeping a guy hooked on a girl may seem easy.

You just have to have regular sex with him, remember his favorite brand of beer and leave him alone for 15 minutes when he gets home from work.

Fortunately, it is that simple, but there are also many other ways in which you can continue to attract your man for a long time.

Next, I will tell you 20 successful ways to hook a man and not get bored trying.

After all, one of the most important things to make a relationship last is fun, love and caring. Don’t you think?

20 elementary tips to have a man at your feet

1) Remember the small details that are important to him

In general, men are not usually very fussy. But they do usually have some issue that they like their partner to pay attention to.

When I first moved in with my boyfriend, it seemed like a good idea to ask him what things he would like me to respect in living together. Also, tell me what things could bother you.

You will be surprised to know that a long list of questions that you will go crazy to fulfill will not be answered.

In my case, he only told me that he did not like that there were hairs in the soap or in the sink and that the mess bothered him.

That’s right, that’s all he asked me to do and the truth is that it’s something really very simple to comply with.

Your partner will be happy if they see that you pay attention to what they once asked you for.

In addition, it will encourage him to do the same for you and this will make living together successful for both of you.

2) Repeat any act that has impacted him

By this I mean that first moment, when you are getting to know a man and he is surprised by something you have done.

He may also be attracted to something you’ve worn, and I don’t necessarily mean lingerie. Believe it or not, there are many men who do not give importance to underwear and women continue to spend fortunes on them.

Instead, one day they’re going out, you show up in that short dress that shows off your long legs. It can also be that hat with a feather, which wants to set a trend. Perhaps a necklace that has several clear chains and it looks like you only have silver charms dangling from your neck.

What is important are those details that stand out from the common women and can also amuse or admire whoever is looking at you.

It can also be about the way you act. This can amuse you. Perhaps you are a little carefree with problems that make other women desperate. Maybe you can get their attention in a positive way, when you face a cashier who wants to give you bad change and does not want to take responsibility.

These attitudes show your personality and those are the things for which a man can end up falling in love.

3) Always try something new in bed

Making love with your partner is something that should never stop being special. It is what a couple has exclusively and for which a unique and deep connection can be reached.

Dare to try, from time to time, always something new.

Let him know what you would like to do with burning words.

Surprise him with a sexy voice, ask him if he’s having an amazing time.

Amaze him by making yourself available to him, but always respecting your limits. Ask him what he would like to do next.

Look for spicy ideas to have more pleasure, but it can also be very good to play and have fun.

4) Respect their space

That 30-minute downtime you need after you get home from work is the difference between talking or yelling your head off.

Perhaps you have waited all day for him to arrive, to solve an issue that has you restless.

But the best thing to do, when you see him walk through the door, is to take a deep breath, reach out, and just kiss him.

Let him sit quietly on the couch to watch his favorite sport or that series that has him so excited.

Give him space to distract himself for a while, do not forget that he returned from work and surely he was solving issues all day. The reality is that waiting a few minutes will not make a difference in solving the problems you have.

If you know how to respect his times, he will find himself much more predisposed to solve whatever it is later.

He will even have more encouragement and you will not cause rejection. Something that will surely happen, if you drive him crazy every time he comes home.

5) Look deeply into his eyes, in those special moments

Men love a penetrating and intense seductive gaze.

Of course you should get lost in their eyes when they are having a passionate night of love. But don’t save that kind of look for just when they’re having sex.

A direct and deep look into the eyes can occur in an enthusiastic conversation.

It can also happen without warning, when you are looking at a spectacular landscape and your eyes meet.

Perhaps in those moments of pure happiness, where words are just left over.

Harness the power of a look and hook your man in a unique way.

6) Take the initiative

Surprise him with a new place to visit that has exotic drinks and a spectacular atmosphere.

The truth is that we find ourselves increasingly overwhelmed by responsibilities. Having moments of leisure is essential, to be able to move forward with everything we want to achieve.

You can also take over some of his tasks, from time to time, without him asking you to.

For example, you drive yourself home after a night out. He’ll relax and find it sexy to watch you drive with a bit of speed. Only do it if you haven’t been drinking.

7) Show her that you can manage very well alone

There’s something about independent women that drives men crazy.

It’s probably admiration that you don’t need them constantly, to be able to function in life.

Men are fascinated by women who are sure of themselves and who know very well what they want, in the areas in which they move.

This is not to say that some guys can be intimidated. You must be careful with this. What I mean is that you shouldn’t make him feel like he can’t bring you anything. This, in addition to not being true, makes the fact of having a partner lose meaning.

Your general demeanor should be that of a woman who gets by on her own, but every once in a while snuggles into her man’s arms, so she can take a break from life’s challenges.

8) Show that you have personality

Wow him by ordering a whiskey on the rocks. Many men like to see a woman who appreciates a good alcoholic drink.

But be careful not to end up getting drunk. This applies especially in the beginning of the relationship. Otherwise, instead of hooking it, you will cause the opposite effect.

You can also tell him about a feat you have done, such as paragliding off an abyss, or diving into the depths of the ocean. Men love brave women.

9) Offer to pay your share of the bill

Pulling out your wallet is a tricky time on any first date.

He knows you’re not going to pay, you know he’s not going to pay.

But should he even bother pretending that he will? Of course yes!

That will make him see that he will not be alone in finances, if your relationship is serious.

Of course he must be a gentleman. But he will like to see that you are a woman who has her own money to do whatever you want.

But be careful, if he lets you pay, next time don’t take out your wallet. Stare at him, so he realizes that he can’t go overboard with you and that he also has to be willing to spoil you.

10) If you know how to cook, take advantage of this gift

All men love to eat and even more so if it is food prepared and made with the heart.

Men are very distracted by many things, but, it is not known why, food is an exception.

I mean as long as you make him something special, that he has brought his work and you mention it to him, he will appreciate it.

If you delight his palate with some delicious gourmet dish that you learned recently, it will not go unnoticed by him.

Also, try not to repeat meals two days in a row, except on the same day. Variety makes for a man’s enjoyment, especially when it comes to food.

11) Be passionate when you tell her your ideals

Seeing the sparkle in a woman’s eye when she’s talking fervently about something definitely hooks a guy.

Whether it’s world peace, your favorite show or the delicious Milanese with fries and fried egg that your mother prepares.

Men find it charming to see a woman get excited about life.

They feel that in this way they will always have fun with you, because of how passionately you live certain aspects of what surrounds you.

Also, having your ideals and being firm in your beliefs will show your security and you will captivate him thanks to it.

12) Help him whenever you can

Any guy loves it when a woman advises him to choose a new pair of jeans or a cool t-shirt.

Of course you shouldn’t force him if he doesn’t want to, or if what you’ve chosen for him doesn’t convince him.

You can have the initiative, and he will then be the one to give you his consent.

You don’t want him to think that you treat him like a child or that you want to dictate how he should dress.

Another way you can help him is to listen to the problems he is having at work. Give you advice on that thorny labor issue. He will feel accompanied and supported, and he will do the same for you.

13) Be spontaneous

For example, if they are tired of the routine, suggest organizing a getaway that same weekend.

That’s right, the important thing is to catch him off guard. Shake up his life with a fun new plan. Something that really excites him to get to that moment to relax and enjoy with you by his side.

Plan there what they can do. Observe this new place that they are visiting and create unforgettable moments.

You can suggest sleeping under the stars, making love on the beach at dusk, or going horseback riding to watch the sunset later.

Make him try that exotic dish, encourage him to drink that strange drink.

Entertain him with a trip, without him having to think too much, launching himself into experiencing it all.

14) Be funny and funny

Many are those who think that in the couple the one who has to be funny is the man.

Nothing is more wrong than thinking like that.

It’s also wonderful when a girl makes a guy laugh.

It is something simple to do and lightens the life of any person.

In addition, the benefit will be for both of us. Shared fun will bring you happiness and health.

Just with a joke when passing or placing a bit of whipped cream on the tip of the nose and going cross-eyed, you will bring out that smile, which makes you fall in love every time you see it.

15) Challenge him every once in a while

Men have a competitive soul by nature and this causes them to find it stimulating when a woman challenges them.

For example, you can play a video game that he likes and try to win. Even if you don’t believe it, you can do it. If you win, do not hide your joy. He won’t like to lose, but he will give you credit for winning.

You can also challenge him with some sport, like…