You arrive at this text all excited and come across a sentence like that, like “punch in the stomach”. Calm calm!

Some people have a very pessimistic view of the breakup, as if it were something terrible, with the right to closed rooms and long hours of crying and gnashing of teeth. In fact, every relationship needs to end, whether it’s an engagement and future marriage or because you weren’t the person you want to give yourself to for the rest of your life!

Dating has a cycle, it has phases, and the end of it will guarantee the way that that first attraction, passion will continue leading the boyfriends. A breakup is something that involves a lot of self-possession, ownership of what you expect in a relationship and the life you intend to live with someone.

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Ending a relationship is not one of the easiest tasks in life for two, it requires a lot of decision! And decision is to make a split, to cut something. And that requires a lot of maturity.

The first way to end a relationship is to turn it into an engagement. But when do you know when to do it? When to take such a compromising step?

Perhaps, the first tip is to know that some things in the relationship (and even in the loved one) will not change, but even so, you find within you a strength to bear, endure and live with the other, because love is stronger. that all this and makes him commit himself consciously and without illusions.

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Other tips regarding this transformation from dating into engagement will be left for a next post, after all, the title of the text asks us to talk about a friendship after a breakup; So, let’s be true to the title, otherwise we won’t pass the Enem…

Let’s get to the heart of the matter

Is there friendship after the breakup? Yes and no!

We are talking about people, and they are not mathematical equations, containing formulas that give us exact results, always yes and always no.

There are many dating relationships in which the boyfriends are able to realize that the feeling for one another does not support a demand for life together, but such feeling manages to structure itself in a friendship relationship.

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Such courtship, of course, was established in a mutual relationship of respect, where people valued each other as people, cultivating tenderness for one another.

Dating like this enriches us as human beings that we are. Just because the other isn’t the one we’ll spend our future days with doesn’t mean we have to turn him into a Loch Ness monster.

We can, when starting a relationship, take for granted that people are in a relationship, so respect, complicity, truth and sincerity are necessary ingredients in any relationship.

And even if it doesn’t end in an engagement phase, at least these ingredients end in a new phase of peaceful coexistence and mutual respect.

When the relationship ends, with him goes the friendship?

I understand that love has many ways to come to fruition, and maybe there are people we have to love from a distance. Out of respect for oneself and for the other, perhaps the relationship that ended needs time, a distance to be re-elaborated.

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Forgiveness needs to be inaugurated, so that a new existence can exist in those hearts that once fell in love. Even if you are not future friends, respect and truth can mark this new way of relating.

Have you ever lived through a breakup and managed to keep the friendship after that? How was that experience? Share with us!