Venus in the Birth Chart: Your Way to Seduce

Venus in the Astral Chart of women indicates how each one seduces. He also reveals how he expresses affectivity, his tastes and everything that gives him pleasure.

One way to tune in to your true pattern of seduction is to know the position of this planet in your Chart, by signs, houses and aspects.

when we talk about female seductiona whole universe full of stereotypes is evoked: attitudes, physical types and costumes considered infallible in this art.

However, it is often overlooked that just as the factors why women are attracted to a partner can vary – some prefer the more masculine types; others, the more intellectual ones, for example – the same happens in relation to male expectations and desires.

Seducing and trying to please does not sustain a relationship for long

The contemporary world celebrates diversity.

Therefore, if your image of a seductive woman is the femme fatale, the sex symbol or the pin-up, know that not everyone is attracted to these types of patterns. At least, not for life.

If you want to seduce someone who is really worth bringing into your life, there’s no point in assuming roles that you won’t be able to keep later, making the relationship a farce, a constant effort or a disappointment for your partner.

You can achieve many superficial relationships by following a certain pattern or maintaining a theatricality, but the point here is:

Is this your essence? Is this what you want and manage to keep?

It’s important that you attract the kind of people that you’ll feel comfortable being yourself with.

It’s not about being intransigent and not growing and developing new potential with the relationship, but if you’re a homebody, there’s no point in playing the adventurer and then not being able to keep up.

Because, after a while, the question will inevitably come: “but where is that woman who loved to hang gliding every weekend with me?”

Well, the truth is, that woman never existed. At least, not on her skin.

Understanding Venus in the Astral Map guides the search for a more honest relationship

You might even be really good at emulating seduction patternsbut trying eternally to bank on what is far from your essence ends up in frustration for your partner and existential emptiness for you.

Therefore, knowing what kind of person you are and what you expect from a relationship is fundamental to knowing what to invest emotionally in, and even understanding your contradictions.

This type of analysis can be performed through an in-depth reading of the Sex Map (you can make a free version here)considering their affective and sexual behaviors, thus discovering what their emotional pattern is like and what their expectations are in a relationship.

One way to already tune in to your true seduction pattern is to know the positioning of Venus in your Astral Map (make a free version here!) by signs, houses and aspects.

The planet Venus is related to the expression of affectivity, tastes and everything that gives pleasure.

Venus in the Astral Chart of women is indicative of female self-image and the way to seduce.

Venus in the Men’s Birth Chart, on the other hand, symbolizes the type of person he tends to feel for. affectively attracted.

Including, in the Astral Chart of a man, usually the energy of conquest, Represented by Marsmanifests itself with more intensity than that of seduction itself.

And attention: when we refer to maps of men and women, we are talking about male and female genders, regardless of biological factors.

In any case, the general picture of personality can only be traced with the reading and integration of all the symbolism contained therein, as we are complex, unique people, with details and subtleties.

But getting in touch with your Venusian energies is an excellent way to understand how you see yourself as a woman and where your feminine power lies.

Find out here which sign Venus is in in your Astral Chart and see below some characteristics of seduction in each placement on this planet.

It seduces with aggressiveness, it is very direct. Intimidated, warrior archetype.She is very dominating and bossy.She is never dominated, but she has a secret desire to be dominated – she wants to test her partner’s strength, put her to the test. She can become disinterested when she conquers. She seduces through sensuality and the voluptuousness of her forms. if it’s effort, it’s no longer pleasure She doesn’t create strategies and games, she’s more passive and receptive. Seduces by flirting in all directions. Quality of lightness and interest in the other, facilitating rapprochement. Easily perceives what the other likes, acts deliberately, plays mirror games. the words.Charm and flirt in social situations, knowing how to attract attention to you.“Learn things” about seduction and “try it out” with your partner, in practice. She seduces in indirect ways. Shows herself vulnerable and sensitive, at the same time willing to care and be cared for. Softens, pampers the other, gives gifts, things she has done. Builds and activates pleasant memories. and souvenirs). It seduces in a theatrical and dramatic way, deliberately showing off. It shows its exuberance. It likes to create a “movie star” impact. It praises the other, makes the other feel special, feeding the identity and the ego. up to you instead of chasing you. Passionate and vibrant. Invest in your personal marketing. He seduces discreetly. He is intelligent and creates strategies. He likes to be useful, pleasing, serving. He has practical attitudes towards his partner. He sees the love game with simplicity. He loves to learn and apply erotic techniques. Likes to show efficiency. It seduces with class and charm. It shows itself with its best characteristics. It pleases the other by placing it in the center. Engaging, it creates a romantic, lyrical atmosphere. conflict and plays the game of diplomacy. Seduces by strategically hunting. Doesn’t show the game, bluffs. After making contact, doesn’t spend time flirting, goes straight to the sexual part. .Obsessive and devouring.Manipulates and tests partner’s limits. Directly seduces, with joy and enthusiasm. Good and contagious disposition, charisma, enthusiasm to enjoy life. Fiery behavior, with excessive exaggeration, passion at first sight style. Makes everyone laugh, developed sense of humor. Has a strong sense of adventure .Alternative novel style (nature, outdoors). Seduces in a serious and cold way, keeping a certain distance.Does not open up.Does the difficult type, maintains the image of being exclusive: you need a VIP pass to enter your exclusive club.Acts in a calculating and planned way.Transmits an image of being in control of the situation. Clear ideas of what you want, what you want and where you want to go. Is pragmatic. Seduces through friendship. Maintains impersonality that generates personal magnetism. Presents himself in an unconventional, non-standard way. Eccentric, interesting aura, emotionally inaccessible. Sense of independence, gives freedom to the other, anything is possible. Avoids involvement, maintains distance. Detached, free love. It seduces through empathy, tuning into the other’s frequency. It lives life, from moment to moment. It is not discriminatory or puts up barriers when someone approaches. .Creates a fantasy in the other’s head, an image, a siren song. Romantic and voluble.

This article had the collaboration of astrologer Jorge Lancinha, member of the Portuguese Association of Astrology (ASPAS).