Venus in Gemini suggests lightness in love |

Have you ever thought how good it would be to tune in to the best attitudes towards love in each moment? In fact, this is possible. It is enough to know in which sign Venus, the planet of love, is transiting. When you are in Gemini, what love will most demand is lightness. This article intends to give you all the tips to make the most of this period on a platter.

Love will be like a little bird

This is not the time to demand something from a person you’ve just met. By the way, before trying to propose any step, you will have to understand which tune you are on. If you want to understand this period, think of a little bird, which does not like to be caged and which flies easily if it is scared, but which can land on your hand if it likes you.

With Venus in Gemini, love will rhyme with humor, with laughter, with play. Only then will it work.

preventing mistakes

You will need subtlety to approach a person who interests you and the best attitude will be talking, as if you don’t want anything – even if you want everything! If you don’t want to make mistakes in judgment, very common when Venus is passing through this sign, you will need to be more skillful in reading the signs.

Is this person into it or is he just chatting and being nice? If you show, even slightly, that you want something more, does she back off or remain receptive? Does she look you in the eye or wander around?

If she doesn’t seek your eyes and can’t hold your gaze, chances are she’s just not that into you. And if you tell her that you’re really up for it, and she stays silent, it might not be out of shyness, but because she doesn’t want to be rude and say she didn’t see you as a candidate, either for any reason. reason. Who knows, maybe she’s not emotionally involved with someone else right now?

In case you have detected a lack of interest, and, even so, you really want to, the best advice is to propose that you just meet to talk or do some hobby together (eg cinema, dancing). Venus in Gemini loves to talk, and the word has an undeniable potential for seduction, and can awaken feelings.

Good conversations and a lot of harmony can help to get closer and maybe she will become interested in you. But nothing to keep trying something. Remember the little bird wanting to fly? Yeah… The motto will be freedom. However, this tactic will still have risks, as the person may just want your company. But if the conversation is good, very good, and the tune is increasing, and you don’t try to cage the bird, maybe it will show you signs that it wants to land close to you.

Know hear

One of the best flirting strategies of this period will be to try to put the other person at ease. Listen to him. Don’t interrupt or put words in his mouth. Let him be himself (what greater treasure is there than this?), let him tell you what his truth or point of view is.

Try to meet him. Conversations that mix lightness and something thought-provoking will be the best. Reveal without showing everything. Tease and retreat. Gemini is a master of these limits.

Love and social life

If you’re single, Venus in Gemini is one of the best times to flirt. But you need to go out, circulate, accept and generate invitations (see here for another article on how Venus in Gemini can help with social life). And, when something starts, remember that lightness, so no rush or complicated questions.

Pressuring the other will only chase him away. In the blink of an eye, he will be gone, not least because he will probably have a second option (after all, this is a sign that favors options).

You’ll also earn big points if you’re still creative and know how to surprise. Remember that old-fashioned scene from movies where one of the protagonists takes the other to the top of a building or an unknown place that is great?

Knowing how to provide an experience is one of the best assets of Venus in Gemini. You don’t need to be rich, you just need to know where the best coconut beat in town is or something new. Please the person in what they like. And if she likes to walk, do it with her.

Venus in retrogradation: turbulence in sight in any relationship

Maybe you’re not flirting, and yes, you’re already with someone. In this case, be prepared for some questions, which you or the other person may have, especially when Venus is in retrograde motion. The rule of not trying to arrest the other will continue to apply.

If he’s the one questioning the relationship, you’ll just have to find a balance between being available, talking, listening to what he has to say, but maintaining your self-esteem. You will have to assess whether you can give another what he is asking for. It’s just not worth saying “yes” and keeping everything the same, because it will be difficult to cheat at this stage.

It won’t be good or handing love on a platter, pretending you like it less than you actually like it, but it won’t help press either. Venus retrograde, more than ever, will require being an adult.

Also, know that if a relationship really reaches a limit in this period, a possible breakup, if it originated from a mature decision, could be very difficult to reverse.

The Venus retrograde period is not usually easy for love or for any important relationship in our life. Doubts, questions and not very pleasant truths appear.

But often, after many questions, people get back together with their loves. Oh, and past loves resurface, not always to settle down. But get ready for the return of people from the past, whether in the emotional or friendship sphere.

And how does Venus retrograde work with very new relationships? Sometimes they go awry at this stage, they get more complicated. It also happens that relationships that start during retrogradation, especially if they are not deep, do not sustain themselves when Venus is direct again, although this is not a rule.

To understand how the retrogradation of a planet works, the following metaphor is useful: think of a leap. When the planet goes retrograde, the jolt seems mild, but it happens, and within a few weeks you realize that something has changed.

As already mentioned, the retrogradation of Venus makes relationships more delicate. People become more sensitive, wanting to know if they are really being respected, considered. But when the planet is direct, the stride is visible and certain things are able to change immediately.

The guy who said he was very much in love suddenly starts having commitments, trips. Or you, who were super into someone, often get sick and ask yourself: where was I thinking?

So the tip is: if a relationship starts in the vicinity of Venus retrogradation or during retrogradation, be aware, because perhaps later the relationship may need adjustments or the initial phase may be more blocked or tense than it normally would be.

Another common thing that happens with Venus retrograde, especially in Gemini, is that we get more confused, because we are in a moment of evaluation and reflection.

If things aren’t clear, maybe it’s not interesting to make decisions, such as ending a relationship or making an engagement official. On the other hand, you may feel the need to end a relationship just to clear things up, because you no longer know whether you like the person or not.

Difficult to give advice, because it is about internal issues. But, if it’s a hint, try to avoid hurting the other person and try to explain that you need to think. Know, too, that although dialogue is a Gemini strong point, the excess or lack of it will also have to be monitored during the retrogradation.

Too much discussion sometimes wears down a relationship, especially if two people are not able to understand each other at the time and it seems that they speak different languages.

Venus in Gemini for those already in a commitment

In the Venus retrograde phase, you will have to be much more careful with your relationship, especially if your partner has already been complaining about something (eg that you only work and don’t have time for him). As has been said, this is a period of potential crisis.

The secret will be to get out of automatic, putting more quality and attention in the relationship. And since Venus will be retrograding in Gemini, two items can help a lot: having more time to talk to the person, really listening and expressing your feelings more, and also having more time to be with the person and do something interesting.

You know that mountain trip you’ve been planning for a while? On the other hand, if you travel to the mountains with problems hidden under the carpet, it is up in the mountains that the lack of harmony will become clear and demand attention.

Outside the Venus retrograde period, when perhaps there is something to be resolved, the idea will be to introduce something new: going out with other couples, travelling, going to the movies, watching plays. Finally, increase the routine. And if you can also boost communication (send SMS, leave little notes) it will score extra points. And even better if you invent surprises! It’s as if that younger love had to emerge now, with all its strength and, why not say, grace.

Flexibility and openness to innovations

During the passage of Venus through Gemini, relationships, friendships and contacts may arise that challenge our concepts and ideas.

This is because Gemini likes to make people think, not liking anything crystallized. After all, this sign appreciates change, and without it life would be pretty boring indeed. So maybe we have to be more flexible in love and also in our tastes.

Is it really that you don’t like sushi or would you not date a person who has a certain characteristic? With Venus in Gemini, it would be good to put these predetermined ideas aside and do some experiments. Even because this placement is very flirtatious and those who choose too much spend more time alone.

Venus in Gemini reminds us that there are times when it’s great to have company, even if we’re not sure it’s the love of our life. That phrase by the poet Vinicius de Moraes is Gemini: “may love be eternal while it lasts”. It will be the disposition of the moment, and who knows, it may bear fruit beyond that.

The Art of Good Conversation

Another valuable tip to make the most of this placement is conversation, as this is an intelligent sign. How’s your chat going? Are you up to date, do you have interesting things to tell, is it nice to hear you? On the other hand, do you also know how to listen to the other?

Venus in Gemini’s biggest seduction secret, and that’s no small feat, is making the other person feel interesting and heard. There’s nothing more annoying than someone who just talks and doesn’t give the other space, taking up the whole conversation or chopping it up at their own pace. Each one of us is a universe, with a lot to say.

It is quite possible that the person who will most win your heart is the one with whom you have the best dialogue, or who, at least, is great company, having many things in common with you. And if you are already in a relationship, the dialogue will continue to be a thermometer, but this time of deeper things.

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