That’s the way she wants you to love her

Love her fiercely.

Connection is key, vulnerability is bravery and an open heart breaks any barrier. We only have one chance in this life, in each moment and in our relationship. If you’re blessed enough to wake up next to the same woman every day, please don’t think of it as ordinary. Choose to be bold.

If you’re getting too used to the monotony of your daily existence, or if the routine is becoming too obscene, change something. Mix. Add some seasoning. Escape together and experience an adventure, even if it’s just for a weekend.

Go and see something you’ve never seen, even if it’s across the street. Go and do something you’ve never done, even if it’s just under the sheets.

When you walk into a room, let others know that you love them with all your might. When you walk beside her, stop and kiss her neck for no reason other than the fact that she is right next to her. When she gets dressed in the morning, smile, appreciate and tell her she’s the sexiest woman you’ve ever seen.

Respect your limits, but tear down your walls. Crush your fears and free your mind. She’s yours, and it’s up to you to be hers. Be the hero she always wanted but never knew she needed.

Be a shameless inspiration. Be a bold revelation. Be an innovation. Win her love every day and enjoy her every night. Give her your heart and defend hers at all costs.

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Make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world.

Women love to feel beautiful. Unfortunately, as you probably already know, women are bombarded every day with images from TV, magazines, Instagram and everywhere else in our culture, trying to show them off and sell them “beauty”.

This is total bullshit. Humans weren’t born to cover their faces with makeup, they didn’t live to spend an hour straightening their hair, and they weren’t born just to dress up in high heels, or expensive jewelry, or an expensive dress bought to go to that cocktail party that night with those people. that we don’t really know and don’t even care about.

In our society, beauty is unfortunately related to the outside, and while a variety of superficial modifications are now extremely popular, they are — each and every one of them — dirty, pathetic lies.

Diamond rings aren’t beautiful, an empathetic heart that is really beautiful. New shoes are not attractive, goodness is. Vulnerability, compassion, honesty, courage and trust are the most beautiful things.

Also, even with all the makeup, accessories and clothes in the world, a person can’t be beautiful if they don’t feel beautiful.

So, take all the good stuff and start putting it into practice. Make your woman feel beautiful. Praise your soul. Look her in the eye when you say you love her. Hold her hand. Melt your heart. Be your safe haven. When she wakes up in the morning, tell her she looks great and when she laughs or calls you crazy (and she will), mean it when you say she means it.

Look into her eyes until she looks away first. Let her fly high and admire her in her flight. Open your eyes, heart, hopes and dreams. Write her notes saying she makes you feel lucky, leave her a WhatsApp voice message saying she makes you feel blessed and make a card saying she makes you feel like the most handsome guy in the world.

After all, beautiful things create beautiful things. So go ahead and be beautiful together!

The highest function of love is to make the loved one unique and irreplaceable. – Tom Robbins

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Make her feel safe.

Women like to be hugged. They like to feel arms around them, at the same time holding them close and pushing the world away. They like to walk with someone who can connect with them, trust someone who cares for them, and love someone who adores them. Women like to know that they are enough, that we are not looking for substitutes elsewhere.

They want to be important, so let her feel comfortable speaking her mind. When she says something, listen. When you listen, understand (not just what is being said, but why).

When you understand, ask about it. Become fluent in the language she speaks. Encourage her to be her best self, even if it means exposing the hard truths she tries so hard to avoid, the facts she can no longer ignore.

It’s up to you to make her see that, ultimately, no one else will make her happy but herself. It’s up to you to help her help herself. Earn her trust and be her biggest support, because helping a woman feel safe empowers her to do things her heart says need to be done but she can’t—yet.

When you manage to awaken your courage it will become free, a free bird, and freedom is a wonderful feeling. Freedom means security and security is liberating.

Without fear, we can focus on the things that matter, the things that light our hearts, the dreams that only come when we are awake.

Fueled by security, dormant ideas awaken, encourage and enliven our lives. Compassion, courage and honesty, the three little sisters of love, will finally pay us a visit, helping us to ensure our women are as safe and strong as possible.

Why is it important? Because strong women make strong men. And strong men can make even the impossible happen.

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Make her feel important.

There is a lot going on in the world and we are always on the alert. We have to deal with jobs, stress, temptation, money, family, friends and the future.

Distractions permeate our lives. Opportunities proliferate. Obstacles present themselves. We have the world in our pocket, a twinkle in our eye and no time available. We are often busy, occasionally stressed, and sometimes overwhelmed. We have a lot to think about and, for us, normal is crazy.

We have dreams and adventures ahead and sadness and sacrifice behind, and yet, despite all the drama and strife, pain and panic, days and nights, love remains.

The greatest proof of love is your woman, who is always there, by your side, encouraging you, smiling and wanting nothing but the best for you, because she loves you, cares about you and wants you to be happy.

She is your best friend, mentor and biggest fan at the same time. His life would suck without her. You would miss her if she left. She is the best thing in your world.

Enjoy the ride and love will sit by your side, with its head on your shoulder, smiling the whole time, for where there are two happy people, there is love.

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