Love sufferings affect men and women. Who hasn’t suffered the stinging pain of unrequited or complicated love? How many times did you stare at the phone and it didn’t ring? The loved one did not call. How many times have you checked your emails waiting for an email from your love? A crowded box, but no line from the loved one. Love without kisses, without caresses and almost without the presence of the loved one.

Something in common increases the suffering of unrequited love: disappointment and hope. The pain is strong, but a little ray of hope warms your heart. What is forbidden and complicated seems tastier. When your loved one calls after weeks of not hearing from you, your heart races. Hearing his/her voice is a solace for your sleepless nights. In the mailbox, there is the expected email. Your heart warms; hope returns with more force.

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If you’ve been in complicated or unrequited love for a while, stop and think. The minutes of your life are passing. And what have you been doing with your life but waiting and waiting for the attention of the loved one? Impossible or platonic loves have something in common: the inaccessibility of the loved one. She is never present. Fleeting, unreal and inconstant. A person who is not “in your own”. However, waking up to reality is difficult.

Life is all about choices. We trace our destinies based on (a) our emotions and feelings. We attract people and love. Do you want to be happy or not? Would you like to live a reciprocated love? Fate is preparing a great love for you. Just your decision: stop suffering. Stop biting your nails out of anger, jealousy and disillusionment. Put an end to this crazy love where you love and the other person is always difficult and unreachable. You can say, “My love is enough for both of us!” Will it be?

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To live a complicated love you need a certain dose of masochism. Suffering mixed with joy, when you receive a crumb of affection. Some people don’t know how to live a reciprocated love. They attract complicated people to themselves. They like the mystery and the unreal. It is still a reason to escape the reality suffered.

The strengthening of your self-esteem will be very promising for your love happiness. Invest in yourself. Renew your hope. Enough of masochism! People who suffer a lot from unrequited love have no faith in the future. Recharge the battery of your faith. You will find someone who matches your love. Why not? Is it difficult to abandon this wonderful and difficult someone? Why do you value this person so much? Once again, imagination playing tricks on you. Know how to differentiate true love from fantasy and illusion. True love is a real exchange of affection, presence and commitment.

Make peace with your mirror. Affirm to yourself that you deserve love, affection and respect. And if the other person doesn’t reciprocate your love, bad luck for her! You do not know what you’re missing! In fact, you are missing a wonderful chance to find someone else and be truly happy!