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That’s everything love is NOT

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A healthy relationship has its ups and downs, but when the scales tip more to one side and you insist on staying that way, maybe it’s time to evaluate some basic but extremely relevant points.

We often find ourselves living another one of those stories we didn’t want to live. As usual, optimistic and confident, at first we even think it’s love, since the person told you (in all the letters) that he loves you.

But is it really love?

Do we really know what love is?

… And what is not?

Well, it’s always good to remember:

It is NOT love when there is no mutuality in some positive way.

It is NOT love when there is blackmail.

It’s NOT love when you’re the only one who gives in.

It is NOT love when there is coldness and indifference.

It is NOT love when there is no flexibility, dialogue, communication.

It’s NOT love when there’s only pressure and demands.

It is NOT love when you feel all the time that you are ‘walking on eggshells’.

It is NOT love when the eyes of the other are not usually directed towards you.

It is NOT love when there are too many arguments, too many excuses, too many blah blah.

It is NOT love when words are more apparent than actions.

It is NOT love when there is betrayal, malice, manipulation, lying.

It’s NOT love when you, instead of sighing with longing, cry with despair.

It is NOT love when there are offenses, humiliations, disdain.

It’s NOT love when sharp words are used with the sole intention of hurting you.

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It’s NOT love when you have to let go of your life, your dreams and your essence.

It is NOT love when there is violence. Whatever type it is: verbal, emotional, physical.

It’s NOT love when you forget who you are.

Love is none of those things.

Love is another thing.

OK?!

OK.

Estela Meyer

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