You can’t make anyone happy if you’re still recovering from a breakup.

There are many truths in life, this is certainly one of them. A person who breaks up with another recently and soon starts a new relationship is doomed to emotional failure. That’s because she’s not really ready to be with anyone, she won’t love the new person and she won’t treat her as she should, because her heart is still hurting and recovering from the previous relationship, even if it was the person who has finished.

That little story that “it takes a new love to forget an old love” is the worst lie there is. When you decide to fool yourself with this, you not only hurt yourself, but you also hurt the person you are deluding yourself with thinking that it will now work out.

If you are out of a relationship now, know that you are in the reunion phase. You have to stay alone for a while, you have to take care of yourself, review your ideas, seek to be someone better so that you, in the future, enter a new relationship.

If you don’t do what I said in the previous paragraph, you’re going to go wrong in the sentimental area of your life.

How is it possible for you to get into a relationship right after breaking up with another one, when you still have the old person fresh in your head? You will often still want to talk to this person or perhaps, if not out of your own desire, but out of a need to return some gifts you have received or even take back some of your things that are with them.

Even her family and friends who were used to the two of you together will continue to befriend her and, in doing so, will bring her back into your life. In short, you will continue with the person very close to you or with something that connects them for some time.

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And even in cases where all contact is cut off at once, the two of you’re minds are still united in some way, as it takes some time for your thoughts to dissolve and you no longer think about each other. This time there generates pain, that’s why it’s stupid, excuse the word, if you get involved with someone else soon, it won’t work.

There is no minimum time you should stay alone until you can find someone else, but the best tip I can give you is that as long as you have some connection, whether physical or mental with the other person, especially of an emotional nature, it’s best to keep going. only. Don’t go into another relationship to suffer and make the other person suffer. Be honest with yourself.

The best thing you can do is enjoy your alone time and change your behaviors that you know are holding you back in love. You have to take this time to become the right person, to change your wrong attitudes. Reflect on who you have been and where you can improve, it will do you good.