Planets in the 7th house in the birth chart: how is your love life?

You Planets in the 7th house represent psychological functions ours which we have not yet taken hold of and which, as such, are projected. Thus, we unconsciously seek (or attract) partners who will perform this function for us. In this article, you will read about what each planet represents in the 7th house and why some psychological functions may be projected and we may have difficulty recognizing them as our own.

Overall, the 7th house in astrology represents our:

love partnerships commercial partnerships relationships with the public stable relationships one-on-one relationships (therapy, clients, etc) what we look for in a stable relationship

Relating is not easy. Finding “the right person” is not easy. When we meet, we always have to negotiate and make concessions. And yet, it seems that we (or the other person) are never fully happy.

There are so many options outside the relationship that everything always looks more interesting outside our door. There are a thousand expectations that we have for ourselves, that other people have for us and that we have for other people. How to manage all this? Can the Astral Map help?

See if you have planets in the 7th house in your birth chart (see here in the free version), read the interpretation below. If you want to understand the sign in your 7th houseread this one.

SUN IN THE 7th HOUSE

The more you relate, the more you know yourself.

With this placement, your identity emerges and shines through when you are in a relationship with another person, be it your partner, your therapist, or a client.

The problem can arise precisely when there is both the dependence on the interpersonal relationship and the difficulty of seeing the other in relationships (that is, the relationship being about you – Sun).

There may be an unconscious expectation that the partner is a solar figure or resembles the relevant male archetype in the person’s life – usually the father.

MOON IN THE 7th HOUSE

Excellent positioning for those working with the public

Being able to intuitively grasp what other people want, the Moon in the 7th house can speak of a person dependent on relationships. As the moon indicates a place of need, in this house we can feel happy and complete only when we are a couple.

But what happens when you’re alone? And if having company is so important, how selective are we in our search for our partner?

It is also important to be careful with projections about the partner and others in general, expecting from them the emotional nourishment and care that we would receive from a mother.

MERCURY IN THE 7th HOUSE

It is easy to communicate with the public

Intellectual exchange with another person is extremely important for those born with this Mercury placement.

This person needs a partner who is mentally stimulated and willing to discuss the relationship whenever necessary.

Also, Mercury in the 7th house can speak of younger romantic interests or that you always have a youthful air. He can also speak of more than one marriage. Therapeutic works that involve the analysis and discussion of life events are favored.

VENUS IN THE 7th HOUSE

Few people can relate as well to other people and the public as you do.

It is the type of person who, without major efforts, “fits well” with the other when he talks, exchanges and takes a stand. Due to its negotiating and reciprocal nature, Venus in the 7th is unlikely to get into fights to get what it wants.

This does not mean that she will surrender to the other’s desire – it will all depend on the sign and aspects of this Venus. But at worst, she will do what she wants without conflict.

On a relational level, this Venus speaks of the search for partners that bring harmony. For this individual, beauty is an important factor in the relationship, as well as the partner’s social skills.

While the 7th house shows us how we approach relationships and the type of partner we tend to attract, aspects between Venus and the transpersonal planets often indicate how we express affection and love, and how we need to be wanted and appreciated. Find out here why Venus in the Astral Chart shows your way of seducing.

MARS IN THE 7TH HOUSE

There are several possible manifestations for Mars in the 7th house. In its most positive manifestation, we have a person who is motivated by interaction with other people, be it a partner, therapist or client, etc.

In its most common manifestation, we have someone who is motivated by the clash with the other, in the discussion, who does not think twice before entering into a conflict, although they tend to be passengers.

Here, the conflict can even be a reason for the discharge of passion. It often ends an argument by making up in bed.

JUPITER IN THE 7TH HOUSE

It can indicate both high expectations for relationships and partners from other countries, other cultures and other horizons

The place where we have Jupiter in the chart is a place of faith and a place where we believe we deserve the best, as well as the place where we do our best. Projected in this house, Jupiter can manifest as someone who believes that other people are always better than you are.

In its most positive manifestation, the people we interact with benefit us, open doors for us, bring us opportunities, and the reciprocal is true.

In a few cases, however, this may be the person who prefers to remain single because no one is Jupiterian enough for them – although they are not lacking in relational opportunities.

SATURN IN THE 7th HOUSE

The principle of structure and stability is built into relationships

You may attract or choose romantic partners who are cold, aloof, structured, rigid, boring, and who limit your personality expression in some way.

They can be people who marry later, because they are looking for someone with maturity and stability and also because of fear of marriage, which is seen as something of great responsibility.

On the other hand, once they commit, they tend to stay in the relationship longer than they should, since they consider that it doesn’t work anymore, because they will try to rescue it at all costs.

This is understandable because they are common manifestations of Saturn. Understand more here about what Saturn represents in the birth chart. However, the chart with Saturn in the 7th is the chart of the native who is complaining about the pair’s coldness, distance and rigidity. It could be a person who, even with all this difficulty, cannot leave. So, the questions that fit here are:

Why do you keep choosing this relationship (despite all this)? Why do you attract or choose this type of person for you? Why do you need someone else to give you boundaries and structure? Why do you need someone else to exercise the “responsible” (Saturn) part of your life?

uranus in the 7th house

Need a healthy dose of freedom in your relationships

The excerpt from the song by Tribalistas, Velha Infância, which says that “My best friend is my love” is perhaps the clearest and healthiest definition for Uranus in the 7th house. Jealousy, control and possessiveness do not happen.

These are people who relate according to their own rules, regardless of social mandates, and who can feel extremely attracted to different people – free, original, eccentric. They may stay married a long time if they can negotiate marriage rules that do not interfere with their personal freedom, or they may have multiple marriages over a lifetime.

NEPTUNE IN THE 7th

Your radar is tuned to who needs saving or you believe someone can save you somehow

One of the most difficult placements for relationships is Neptune in the 7. These natives are those people we joke about having a “rotten finger” when choosing a partner. Here you can understand that Neptune in the birth chart reveals in which area of ​​life you can be more deluded.

Neptune’s great difficulty in the 7th house is seeing the other person as that someone is. He can cover reality with a veil of illusion, and when he marries, he can inevitably be disappointed.

There is no reality that survives Neptune’s illusions and projections. Therefore, this person tends to have fleeting, platonic relationships or suffers from several heartbreaks.

On the other hand, it can be a person who is born promised for a great love, from other lives, and finds it. How to know? Try to use the positive side of Neptune – through charity, relief work and even magic. If the great otherworldly love we were born promised exists, that person will find you.

PLUTO IN THE 7th HOUSE

Pluto represents both our personal power and the shadow of our personality. On Pluto we find everything we repudiate about ourselves and everything we need to keep in the shadow (because we judge it ugly, shameful or too difficult to deal with). Understand more about the meanings of Pluto in the birth chart here.

Thus, those born with Pluto on the 7th need to be careful not to project their shadow onto the other person (their fears and complexes) or not to attract manipulative people to themselves, who try to exert control over you. Why? Because in Pluto we also have our source of power and, when this is present in the 7th house, our power is projected.

To use the planet positively, seek out relationships that empower and transform you, and vice versa. Beware of that irresistible, magnetic attraction that has toxic elements. You deserve someone who reveals himself and gives himself to you. If possible and necessary, resort to therapy. This is a great placement for working on your own shadow through someone else.

DESCENDANT IN THE ASTRAL CHART

The Ascendant and Descendant, in astrology, are in the 1st and 7th Houses (representatives of the self and the other person) and function in terms of complementation and projection. See all about your Ascendant and Descendant here.

HOUSE 7 ON THE EMPTY MAP

An empty 7th house in the natal chart indicates an area of ​​life that is not subject to the determination of planets and planetary placements. In this case, we analyze the sign that is on the cusp, the placement of the ruler by sign, by house and its aspects. But, in general, empty houses give the native greater free will to create – or not – in that area of ​​life what he wants.