Oral sex: 10 tips for unforgettable moments for two

Sex is good, but it doesn’t always have to be the same, does it? The variety makes it all the more interesting. The more intimacy, the better, and the experience is also welcome, but the most important thing is to leave your shyness aside and enjoy this delicious meeting of bodies. Check out tips to spice up your sex life and leave your love wanting more!

How to have an unforgettable oral sex

Although some people think that oral sex is foreplay, for most people it is essential and indispensable. Some people even think it’s the best orgasm ever. For women, receiving oral sex is one of the best tactics to increase arousal and pleasure. Men love it too, even more if it’s done by someone who likes it and knows how to do it. One of the most desirable and exciting practices for everyone, oral sex can take lovers to the height of ecstasy.

The best tip is to take the initiative. Anyone can tell when oral sex is being done unwillingly or with disgust. It’s much more exciting when the other person takes the initiative than when you have to ask or suggest.

Offer or surprise, placing your partner in a comfortable position and sliding with kisses and tongue all the way: the neck, the chest, the belly… loved. And the more self-esteem, the better the moments of pleasure.

First of all: protection

It is essential to ensure your safety. Oral sex can also transmit diseases. For steady partners, a recent medical examination is important to rule out any doubts. But don’t worry: it’s perfectly possible and pleasurable to perform oral sex with a condom, and the diversity of products is huge – such as condoms and flavored lubricants.

Tips for oral sex

1. Explore all the senses: imagine that you are the one receiving oral sex. What would you like them to do? Put yourself in someone else’s shoes and explore all you want. There is no place for shyness in oral sex. This is the best time for play and to release all the excitement. But if you can’t help but feel a little embarrassed, it doesn’t hurt to communicate. The more natural, the more intimacy and pleasure.

2. Suction: make an alternating suction to introduce the penis in the mouth, sucking like a lollipop, going down and up as in penetration. That doesn’t stop you from licking, playing and masturbating, but surely the suction will please more than a soft mouth at high speeds. Make pleasant movements and don’t worry about putting the whole penis in their mouth, this is far from their preference.

3. Variations: Vary in movements, speed, licks and sucks. The art of oral sex requires a real desire to please your partner. Alternate the suction speed, stop for a while on the head of the penis, use your tongue to travel the entire member or the vaginal lips, caress the body or bring some erotic toys to play… .

4. Eye to eye: maintain eye contact. Looking your partner in the eye will make the mood much more exciting, in addition to serving as a thermometer for you to realize what you are most pleasing.

5. The power of hands: use your hands. Your hands are great allies in oral sex. Use it to masturbate your partner during sucking intervals, to massage the clitoris, to move the penis when it is in your mouth, to palpate the testicles and perineum or to caress the rest of the body. Multiple stimuli tend to drive everyone crazy.

6. Language: use it sparingly. It will help with lubrication, which is very important for your mouth to glide better, and increase playtime. In men, it is worth licking the entire penis, testicles and glans, lingering on the meatus, as well as the groin and perineum. In women, remember to also use it to stimulate the clitoris.

7. Freshness: refreshing candies, cold water and specific products can give a great feeling of freshness, making everything even more stimulating.

8. Semen: can you swallow semen? Yes you can. They love it when a woman isn’t afraid to go all the way. But due to the texture and taste, it can be unpleasant for some people. It’s not a basic rule, so don’t worry if you’re uncomfortable. But if you want it, he’s sure to love it.

9. Lighting: leave the light on or invest in a dim light. Your partner will love seeing everything that’s going on. It’s worth enhancing the look with a sensual lingerie. And don’t let your hair hide the best part.

10. The famous “69”: is the position in which both (or both) can perform oral sex at the same time. Lie face down on your partner so that you can reach the penis or vagina with your mouth, and your partner your vagina. The pleasure will be reciprocal and double.

More tips for perfect oral sex

Want more practical tips to give your partner an unforgettable oral sex? The videos below bring suggestions that can help you uninhibit and find yourself in oral sex. Check out:

Tips for amazing oral sex on men

Here, psychologist and sex therapist Vânia Machado gives 4 tips and explains how to enhance your partner’s pleasure during oral sex. Check it all out in the video!

Guide to getting oral sex right on women

In this video, Luana Lumertz brings a super-detailed tutorial to perform very pleasurable oral sex on women. Follow in detail all the youtuber tips!

Don’t forget that oral sex is also one of the most effective ways for women to feel pleasure, so be sure to encourage your partner to do it on you. The first step to having pleasure is getting to know yourself and, thus, showing the other what you like and what gives you pleasure. Don’t be afraid to experiment, get to know your body and teach your partner which points make you happy. Good fun!