Open your heart to those who see beyond the skin and appreciate your emotional nakedness

Over time we end up realizing that love is not made with the body, but with the soul. That the passion that truly pleases is the one where our being travels beyond the skin to register in two minds that open, that undress in affections, in certainties and feelings. Who dance in silence feeling like one.

Experts tell us that The skin is the most important sexual organ of the human being. People need to be touched to survive, and sometimes, a caress is enough to activate thousands of sensory receptors capable of triggering an emotion, a sensation. However, in authentic love, the symphony of sensations integrated into our skin are not always enough. We want more.

The best love stories don’t usually appear in books. They are written on our skin with invisible ink, imperceptible to the rest of the world but revealing to us. Because it is tattooed with the tip of those wise fingers who traced, among the shadows, the shape of our body, who awakened our soul to mold it to theirs, and thus, give authentic meaning to life.

We suggest you reflect on it.

Look for me under the skin

It is not easy to find someone with whom you can collapse in this way: in emotions, in values, in sensations and complicities.. They are like drunkenness of the senses where everything suddenly fits, where everything harmonizes and there are no gaps to fill. The soul becomes excited and the heart awakens from its winter lethargy, just when we thought we were no longer going to be loved.

Why always There comes a time when we get tired of cowardly loves, those who do not take risks, those who die like a storm at the end of summer. After the passion and the promises woven in nights of caresses, calm arrives, the bright morning arrives, where there is no room for lies and where only an absence remains on the other side of the pillow. I gather the ashes of all the broken dreams interspersed with tears.

In the end, indeed, we learn. We collect our broken pieces with a lot of self-love to unite them again with the best of dignity.. Repeating to ourselves the mantra that “They will never hurt us again.” We learn that the best lover is the one who has the audacity to look for us beyond the skin and even to emotionally strip himself before us.

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The true chemistry of love

The authentic chemistry of love exists and is found right in the center of our head, almost like a third eye. It is the hypophysis, where a magical and tremendously powerful hormone is secreted in humans: oxytocin.

All of us can have a sexual encounter at any given moment, where our brain is a torrent of sensations and neurotransmitters orchestrating our purest, most accommodating instincts. However, When sexuality is fully and authentically enjoyed, oxytocin appears.

This hormone is what ignites in us the need to care, to attend, to protect. It feeds us with affection, love and a wiser passion aimed at creating a permanent bond where all fears are extinguished. All the uncertainties. In fact, there are many studies that support that Orgasms are much more intense when this magic formula appears.

On the other hand, something we all know is that There are couples who, over time, stop being a couple and become simple lovers. Their lives no longer find common spaces even though they live under the same roof, there is no longer any illusion and yet, under the sheets and almost without knowing why, they continue speaking the same fantastic language. It is as if that magical component works only at a certain moment.

These situations are nothing more than the prelude to goodbye, basically because There is still the remnant of that attachment generated by oxytocin that little by little will go out like the embers of a bonfire that before, offered a lot of warmth to a home.

Sexuality undoubtedly has its own and exclusive language that must be understood. Especially because not everyone looks for the same things. There are those who prefer that skin-to-skin encounter, where nothing transcends, where there are no signed pacts on the horizon of tomorrow.. These are undoubtedly aspects that must be clear from the beginning so that there is no room for disappointment.

There are many experts who also tell us that Today we live in a type of capitalism of the erotic and emotional relationships where everything is for sale and where everything is fragile at the same time.. Toys are marketed and new experiences are recommended to us. Without forgetting either that there are more and more dating portals where it seems that it is easier than ever to find a partner.

However, none of this seems to offer genuine happiness.. They are just small releases of dopamine, single-use puffs of happiness, where soon, the lonely heart drifts back into the ocean of waiting – and hope -. In an anteroom where we long for those hands that are finally capable of touching our skin and tickling our soul…

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